How do you think we should manage marriage?

When there are really some problems that the two sides can't solve, don't be too entangled, learn to bypass this problem, learn to live in harmony with it, and often wait for some time when the two of you think about it again, you will find that it has long ceased to be a problem between you. Bypassing the problem does not mean not facing it positively, but it is a flexible way to deal with it, first slow down, let it go, let the magic of time slowly dissolve the trivialities and entanglements encountered in marriage, and time will often give you unexpected answers.

I want to give my husband a warm harbor; Men are out in the business, whether it is a leader or a small staff, emotionally, most men are strong people in the outside, the feelings are more fragile, in the outside of the storm, sprinkled, when tired and physically and mentally exhausted, always regard home as a place of leisure. At home, the joy of success and the wife to talk about, the ups and downs and the wife to complain, at this time, the wife should stretch out warm hands, let him lean on your soft arms, give him a spiritual rest harbor.

Give your husband enough face; Although in today's families, most husbands are "strict wives". However, men always like to show a macho style, which is the masculinity of men. Especially outside, in front of relatives and friends, the wife should give the man enough face, even when the husband and wife are angry, his relatives and friends come, he must wipe away his tears, greet the guests with a smile, and treat them warmly.

As a poet said: "Even if I cry to me, I will smile at others", wipe away the frost of early spring with a smile, and melt the ice of Sanjiu with a smile.

It's really simple to praise each other, I will express my appreciation and love for my wife every time I think it's appropriate, you know, the word love, it's a verb, it needs to be acted, the easiest way is to express and praise it, and you will find that as you develop this way of expression, your lover will also give you a great surprise. If you are a man, you may slowly find that your wife will get better and more beautiful, after all, every praise you give her a smile from your heart, and the girl who loves to laugh will always shine with a dazzling brilliance.

We are all ordinary ordinary people, both husband and wife will face the trivialities and embarrassment of life, not everyone's work and life will be smooth sailing, then it is very necessary for husband and wife to be close to each other to keep warm, the most feared thing in marriage is to separate each other, you are busy with your and I take care of me, often the marriage gap also starts here, so how to learn to be close to each other is very necessary.

I have always felt that praising a person is the most cost-effective way to express it, and you don't need to have any material investment, you just need to praise a person sincerely, sincerely, then the other party will naturally have a good impression of you, not to mention that you want to praise the person you will accompany for a lifetime in the future. The husband's praise of his wife is part of the marriage love story, the harmony of a family is often determined by the atmosphere, I believe that a person who is good at and often praises his lover from time to time, their family atmosphere will not be worse.

If the conflict in the marriage is compared to war, then either party must learn to communicate and compromise gently, and often the first person to start compromising is the one who gives the most in the marriage, and the other party must learn to cooperate at this time and give the other party a step, otherwise the war will never end.

That's it. The mood was maintained. If you don't understand, you can ask.

In fact, one of the most important conditions for two people to be together is to trust each other, trust each other, and this relationship will last for a long time.

Mutual suspicion and mutual suspicion of each other, the contradictions will only get bigger and bigger, and eventually quarrels will be endless, and the marriage will break down.

Being honest with each other is the smartest way in the family, and I think that in this case, if you have doubts in your heart, then you might as well ask him directly.

If he explains it carefully, the reason is reasonable, then he admits his mistake (generally his wife will not admit his mistake, and he is justified), and there will be no barrier, but if he flashes his words, or the reason is fake, even the child can't deceive the ante, then there must be further measures for Zen eggplant.

In fact, everyone has their own space, you might as well give him a little space of his own, men value face, but the degree must be grasped well. Finally, I wish you a happy family and a happy heart.

Typical machismo, marriage is run by both parties, and you can sit down and talk about what went wrong, why the separation, and who brought it up.