Do you think weekend couples are good?

In foreign countries, especially among international students, this lifestyle of "weekend couples" is quite popular. As you may have heard, many people live hundreds of kilometers away from their places to work or school, and they usually have to drive for a long time or take a long-distance bus, or even take a train to go to school or work. Therefore, many couples usually live in the dormitory of the school or company, and then get together on the weekends.

However, I think that although the lifestyle of "weekend couples" may seem hard, it is very good for enhancing the relationship between husband and wife. There's a saying that says, "A little better than a newlywed." The couple hadn't seen each other for a week, and they both had a lot of fresh topics to talk about.

And after a week of missing, they will definitely be very attached to each other when they meet again, and their married life will definitely be very harmonious.

I have a best friend Xiaowen, she and her husband are married in free love, and they have been known for more than two months and registered for the certificate, which can also be said to be a "flash marriage". At the beginning of this marriage, it was also honey and oil, and the two were like glue, and there were always endless words to say every day. But after a long time, each other's shortcomings were gradually exposed, and the two began to have a little quarrel.

Once Xiaowen's husband slammed the door after a quarrel, and even didn't return all night.

Xiaowen asked me what to do? I said you can go to your mother's house for a while, and then see what your husband says. So, Xiaowen excused himself that his mother's home was close to his work, so he usually lived in his mother's house, and went back to his home on weekends.

Sure enough, since then, the relationship between the two has returned to when they first fell in love. On weekends, the two cooked together, watched movies, chatted about family life, were very intimate, and never quarreled again.

In fact, all long-term marriages need a certain amount of space. And the "weekend couple" is precisely because it gives both parties a certain amount of space, so it enhances each other's feelings. Are you right?

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It's not good, the time that husband and wife get along is too short, it is easy to cause love estrangement, I will not choose such a lifestyle.

The weekend is good, at the end of the month, and at the end of the year, there are more couples.

It's much better than one at home and one going out to work.

However, if a family goes to a new city to work hard together, the cost is also very high. As a result, some couples are married, but due to work, they can only meet on weekends, and usually the husband and wife work at their respective jobs and become "weekend couples".

Ms. Zhang: I'm not used to it, and after a long time, I found that we are strangers to each other.

Since my husband went out of town for work, we started living separately. Every day when I come home, the house is empty. I didn't even have anyone to talk to, and I felt very lonely.

Since the separation, I have not felt the warmth of the family, and I have slowly become more and more strange to my husband.

Ms. Li: I feel lost and difficult.

It has been 3 years since I was separated due to work. Whenever something happens at home or a child is sick, he can't be there for me at the first time. I can only carry it alone, and after a long time, I am really tired, not only physically tired, but also mentally tired.

After a long time like this, you will find that the relationship between you and your husband has also faded, and the meeting is polite, both strange and familiar.

It's not easy to live, and I don't know how long I can last!

Mr. Xia: I feel very tired.

The job competition is stressful, and after a week of work, I am really tired. Finally, on the weekend, I can have a good rest, but I have to catch the car home. On the way back and forth, I have been delayed for a long time, and I only have one day at most to accompany my children, and there is almost no extra time to sit down and have a good chat with my wife, and live a two-person world.

As a result, I was running around all week, physically and sometimes even more mentally.

Ms. Lin: It's a little bit more exciting than getting married.

I am a relatively independent woman, and I can handle life, study, and work alone. Sometimes I feel that if we are together every day, it is inevitable that there will be quarrels over some trivial things, which will bring unhappiness. On the contrary, seeing each other once a week makes it more fresh and curious, after all, Xiao Bei is better than a newlywed!

Mr. Chen: The small family is scattered.

Due to work, my ex-wife and I are less together and more separated, and we have been separated for a long time, and my ex-wife found someone else outside, and finally we divorced. I work hard outside to give each other a more comfortable home and a better financial basis to enjoy life. However, he invisibly neglected his wife, which eventually led to the breakdown of the small family.

Weekend couple": We must correctly handle the relationship between family and work, and we can't ignore family and relatives because of work. Aren't we working to provide a better living environment for our families?

At the same time, it is not possible to affect the work because of the family, if the work is delayed and affected because of the family, then from the first to get more economic foundation to provide a better life for the family and relatives?

Guys, what do you think? What do you want to say?