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You are not very receptive to other people's evaluations and judgments about you. Then, actions will be used to overthrow it.
Your actions reflect the amount of energy that has been built up within you to resist. Usually these pent-up energy is not caused by the people who evaluate you later, but by the family and elders at an earlier time.
Since you are introverted and do not like to express yourself in words, many times your feelings of dissatisfaction, unfairness, and disagreement do not have a chance to be spoken. Over time, it was suppressed and became a huge energy, like a volcano. When the time comes, it erupts with deeds.
The process is completely unconscious, so you don't know why, or even do it unconsciously.
If this is the case for you, it is not easy to change it by simply overcoming it. Because overcoming is a similar mental pattern to repression. Only by practising expression, you can have a safe environment and atmosphere that allows you to express yourself, and you can slowly try to express your inner thoughts and grievances.
This phenomenon will gradually decrease or even disappear.
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I'm also an introvert, and I think introverts are the most powerful, but they don't express themselves or don't want to express themselves! Many successful people are introverted, because introverts are more thoughtful, stubborn or rebellious, depending on what they are used for, what is there to fight in a fight, and what can they do if they win? What can you do if you lose, if you have the ability, you can beat the Japanese, don't compete with your own people!
If there is a good direction of guidance, I believe that a blockbuster must belong to you! Don't care what others think of you, you are different from others, why do others like it, it should be what you like, everyone has their own pursuit! Come on!!!
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Summary. Dear I am happy to serve you, I am the emotional teacher Xiao Han, and the teacher I have the following advice for you:1
Perspective Shift: Try to put yourself in the rebel's shoes and understand their thoughts and emotions in order to communicate and understand better. Try to communicate with the rebel to understand their thoughts and problems, and try to give positive feedback and support.
2.Build trust: It is very important to build a trusting relationship with a rebel.
Try to build trust with patience and understanding, which will make it easier for rebels to accept your views and suggestions. 3.Acceptance and support:
Be open to the ideas and opinions of rebels, respecting their individuality and independence. At the same time, provide appropriate support and advice so that the rebel gradually becomes aware of his own problems and needs. 4.
Positive communication: Establish good lines of communication and encourage rebels to express their feelings and thoughts. At the same time, respond positively to their concerns and questions so that they feel cared for and respected.
5.Set clear boundaries: During the relationship-building process, clear boundaries need to be set to avoid over-compromise and laissez-faire.
Rebels' behavior and rhetoric should be properly guided and regulated, while respecting their freedom and independence. In conclusion, tackling rebellious psychology requires patience and understanding, as well as good communication and trust with the rebel in order to better guide them in a positive direction.
Dear I am happy to serve you, I am the emotional teacher Xiao Han, and the teacher I have the following advice for you:1Perspective Shift:
Try to put yourself in the rebel's shoes and understand their thoughts and emotions in order to communicate and understand better. Try to communicate with the rebel to understand their thoughts and problems, and try to give positive feedback and support. 2.
Build trust: It is very important to build a trusting relationship with a rebel. Try to build trust with patience and understanding, which will make it easier for rebels to accept your views and suggestions.
3.Acceptance and support: Accept the ideas and intentions of the rebels, and respect their individuality and independence.
At the same time, provide appropriate support and advice so that the rebel gradually becomes aware of his own problems and needs. 4.Positive Communication:
Establish good lines of communication and encourage rebels to express their feelings and thoughts. At the same time, respond positively to their concerns and questions, and make them feel cared for and respected. 5.
Set clear boundaries: During the relationship-building process, clear boundaries need to be set to avoid over-compromise and laissez-faire. Rebels' behavior and rhetoric should be properly guided and regulated, while respecting their freedom and independence.
In conclusion, tackling rebellious psychology requires patience and understanding, as well as good communication and trust with the rebel in order to better guide them in a positive direction.
The above are some suggestions from teachers.
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Rebellious psychology can be addressed by establishing stable communication relationships, providing innovative learning opportunities, actively channeling the expression of emotions, cultivating correct values, and being alert to one's own behavior and thinking.
1. Establish a stable communication relationship.
Starting from the aspect of interpersonal communication, get close, care and understand teenagers, and communicate with teenagers as much as possible through simple and effective communication, listen to their ideas, and let them feel heard and understood.
2. Provide innovative learning opportunities.
Education and training, interest guidance, class activities and other aspects give students more choices and creative space, so that they have enough time and opportunities to discover and understand themselves, and at the same time, it can also help them develop good emotions and hobbies. In addition, provide students with a more open and tolerant learning environment that encourages them to explore new learning content.
3. Actively guide the expression of emotions.
Adolescents have a variety of personalities, emotions and values, and if we are not able to understand and accept these views and feelings, we will not be able to guide and coordinate them correctly according to their needs. Through a variety of forms of education, including finding causes, analyzing problems, expressing emotions, using reasonable methods, realizing different emotions, promoting emotional exchanges, and rational communication.
4. Cultivate the right values.
In order to solve the rebellious mentality, it is necessary to have a deep understanding of the values of young people, and to discover and guide them to deviate from the right path, distorted thoughts, wandering thoughts, and even bad behaviors. Improve their self-awareness and self-control.
5. Be alert to your own behavior and thinking.
Don't ignore your posture, demeanor and behavior, put your own questions on the table, take every deliberate thinking session seriously, and develop the habit of quickly locating problems and finding answers quickly.
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Self-acceptance and affirmation: First, accept and affirm your introverted personality. Introversion is not a disadvantage, it has many advantages and unique features. Cultivate a positive self-image and self-confidence, and believe in your own worth.
Set small goals: Start small and gradually expand your comfort zone. Set small goals, such as taking the initiative to participate in social activities, communicating with strangers, expressing your opinions, etc. By challenging yourself, gradually expand your social and communication skills.
Practice social skills: Learn and practice social skills such as listening, expressing one's opinions, connecting with others, etc. Taking a social skills training course or joining a social group can provide hands-on opportunities and help you interact better with others.
Find support: Talk to friends, family, or mental health professionals for their support and encouragement. They can give you emotional support and practical advice to help you gradually move away from your introverted personality.
Continuous learning and growth: Through reading, learning and experience accumulation, you will continue to improve your knowledge and skills. Develop hobbies, participate in meaningful activities, and constantly broaden your areas of interest and social circle.
Slowly let go of yourself: Gradually let go of your worries about your expectations and the evaluation of others. Try to embrace new experiences and challenges, bravely face uncertainty, and learn and grow from them.
Keep in mind that everyone has their own unique personality and characteristics, and being introverted is not a bad character. It's important to find your own balance, finding the right balance between comfort and growth. Respecting one's individuality and believing in one's own abilities, Minbu Gai lives a full, meaningful life in his own way.
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Rebellion is a selfish mentality, self-centered, and does not listen to others. Lack of gratitude, some people will even hold a grudge against their parents' lessons, this is a product of the times, there are really a lot of children born in the blessing and do not know the blessing, if they grew up in the sixties and seventies, suffer so much, do you think they will rebel? In the final analysis, I have never suffered hardship, so I can't understand the hard work of parents, only to educate with reason, not only to go with the flow.
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A strict father produces filial sons, and loving mothers lose many children. 1: Within a reasonable range, try to satisfy the child, so that the child will definitely feel that his parents are so good to me, and I must be good to my parents in the future.
2: There are rewards and punishments, and through severe means, children think that their parents have clear rewards and punishments, and admire their parents mentally and psychologically.
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Caring more, communicating with others, and doing what he loves.
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It's fake to communicate with people a lot, it's introverted, how to communicate? Try to talk to your loved ones first.
Chat, and then it's yourself. Speak in front of the mirror.
Then take a look at more variety shows.
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Spend more time with him. Take her out on the weekends.
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