My ex boyfriend is obsessed with me, and there are good boys chasing me, what should I do?

Updated on amusement 2024-04-21
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't love him, you should reject it. Otherwise, he will think that you will be reconciled with him. If you don't love him, go find someone you love.

    If it goes on like this, it will hurt him, and it won't drag you down. I suggest you make a decision early, it's good for everyone.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your ex-boyfriend still cares about you. It depends on who you like. If you don't like him, ignore him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Calm down for a while before making a decision!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    At a glance, you can tell that you don't like your ex-boyfriend anymore So "let it pass" Don't bury your feelings because of others Not to mention that you are still studying The relationship during your student days is very innocent Don't let each other regret it (provided that if the boy is really good, if he is a bad guy again, then you can only add a little experience) As for your ex-boyfriend, let him go to hell! If you don't like it, you don't like it, if you get along well, you can still be friends, if you don't get along, you can't even be a friend, why care about his feelings, you are you, you don't belong to him anymore.

    To be a human being, we have to look forward.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's all people from the past, so let it go as much as possible. As for chasing you now, you also have to think about it carefully, don't be moved because people are chasing you too hard

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Think it through yourself in your own heart, and if you still have a slight liking for your ex-boyfriend, then reconcile. If not, that's a different story. You said that there is a man who is very good to you, and you are also excited, then don't miss it, have a good time together, it's as simple as that, choose one of the two.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This matter is your own business, but I can give you a suggestion first, you are still a student, don't fall in love, if you want to be with a second boy, just use the one I said to pressure your ex-boyfriend, if you want to fall in love with your ex-boyfriend, then you boldly refuse the second one, however, this is just a suggestion, a suggestion given to you by a primary school student, so you better think about it yourself!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Oh, the building near the water gets the moon first

    I think you're better off with the boys who are chasing you now

    The man from before told him to step aside

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Look for it according to how you feel in your heart, and don't think about anything else.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't regret it, it's the best choice.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Just see what you like and tell them.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ask yourself who you like first. Who's good to you. You can be accountable to you. Who really loves you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    On this issue, I think it's best not to start with this guy, because we still can't let go of our ex in our own hearts, and if we start with someone else, it may put us in a dilemma. In other words, we can choose to reject this suitor, and it is the best choice to wait for our state to adjust, forget about our ex, and let go of our ex, and then start the next relationship.

    After the breakup, if other boys come to chase us, I think the girls will be happier, because at this time it doesn't mean that they don't have **. But many girls will not start the next relationship without letting go of their ex in their hearts, and I think it is very important to have a window period after the breakup, so that you can sort out your feelings. If you blindly choose this suitor and fall in love with this emotion that you can't let go of in your heart, maybe we will still end up in a hurry in this relationship.

    Actually, I've been in this situation myself before, but at the time I chose to accept the suitor and then broke up a month later. So we also need to know that on the premise of not letting go of the ex in our hearts, we must not blindly start a relationship, otherwise it will be irresponsible to the two people, and the relationship is not child's play, so we also need to respect each other. I believe that if many people still can't let go of their ex in their hearts, but choose to accept each other, in fact, in the process of falling in love, they will be more mindless and can even say that they are just using each other to spend their lovelorn period.

    So at this time, I think it's also a good choice to reject the other party decisively, if the other party really likes us, they may wait until we really let go of the ex in our hearts, and then pursue us before being with us, but if he doesn't really like us, when they hear us reject us and hear us say that they can't let go of the ex in their hearts, they will leave.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You should choose to reject this boy, because you can't let go of your ex in your heart, and if you are with this boy, you will be very uncomfortable, and it will not be fair to this boy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think we should reject him decisively, and since I have a person in my heart, I should not easily pursue others, because I will be responsible for the people who will follow.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If I were you, I would choose to reject the other party, after all, so that I would not wronged myself and delay the other party.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    1. Loneliness: Spiritually lonely, sustenance love is deep, and love can achieve a sense of attachment of symbiosis and coexistence, so obsession is correct.

    2. Withdrawn: There is little socialization, not a person who allows others to enter his heart at will, and may also be enthusiastic on the outside and cold on the inside. It is not easy to accept people to come in, so they are not very willing to empathize with other lovers.

    would rather guard the ruins of love and mourn Zheng Lian himself. Mourning becomes an epitaph, lost, not developed, love can always be beautiful in the heart, become a classic and eternal.

    3. Low self-esteem: I don't trust that I am so beautiful, so good, I don't trust that the world is so big, so moving, and there are so many people worth loving. In the constricted and narrow heart, I love the deep love, the spiritual infatuation, and it is all deep narcissism.

    4. Conservative: Lonely and conservative between men and women, releasing the instinct of not going out of the sex, they can only keep the old feelings and conjectures.

    5. The love experience is simple: the more love you see, the less precious it is. I love too little, so I take it as a baby. Love a few more times, love a few more people, and experience more experiences, and it will be fine.

    In fact, let go of the old love, take a step forward, find a new person to try, and the feeling of deep love will soon be gone.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't know what they think, but I suspect they may be overwhelmed by the effort they give.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I should be thinking in my heart, such a good woman missed it herself, Bi Kushi didn't catch the very defeat Lu regret, and it is also possible that I am thinking that I regretted that I broke up with that woman, otherwise I would not be happy in the second half of my life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He thinks about his ex's kindness to her every day, and then compares the current with the ex, and feels that the current one is inferior to the ex in any way.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The nature of feelings is just the product of time reversed, but despite all the uncertainties, I want to wait and see. Just take a gamble with yourself, lose the romance of one person, and win the romance of two people. Let's wait slowly, maybe later, but better.

    There is a person in everyone's heart who can't let go of and can't forget, who has brought you beauty and pain, and has always made you unable to let go. In fact, you also understand a lot of truths, impossible people are impossible, no matter how much you do, there will be no results, but you can't get rid of it, completely forget the person you often think of in your mind. I understand the truth, but it's another thing to put it on myself.

    If you can't withdraw from the previous relationship, you won't be able to start over for a long time, and instead of that, it's better not to start, at least it won't hurt others.

    There are always girls around me who are arguing all day long about when it will be my turn to fall in love, so everyone knows that she wants to fall in love, and everyone has introduced the object, but she was cowardly at a critical moment"I'm just saying, it's too much trouble to fall in love"

    It is true that a person sometimes feels lonely, but there is no suitable choice, no channel to reach new people. In addition to classmates, colleagues and girlfriends, there is no suitable single candidate to tease. Life is so long, I have experienced so many people, the people around you have gone and gone, changed and changed, only you have been with yourself.

    Men are not important, men's love is not so precious, and no one's love can compare to your own love for yourself. There is no need to make anyone's love the focus of your life, especially between friends, and especially between men and women. You don't have to work hard to get these meaningless things, but for ourselves.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Summary. Every man will have "nostalgia", which is a normal psychological complex, which refers to the individual's reminiscence and nostalgia for the past. The reason why men will miss their exes is the "nostalgia" in our hearts.

    It is undeniable that nostalgia is an escape from reality, but also a longing for things that cannot be realized. Men miss their exes and the time when the two of them used to be because these memories are in the past. We can't recall the things of the past, but the more beautiful or unforgettable things are, the more we will care about them, and the more we can't help but miss them.

    Of course, nostalgia is not only applicable to emotions, but also very common in our daily life, for example, we often flash in our minds images of our past lives, those people or things.

    Yes. It's normal for guys to miss their ex, and many guys do.

    Every man will have "nostalgia", which is a normal psychological complex, which refers to the individual's reminiscence and nostalgia for the past. The reason why men will miss their exes is the "nostalgia" in our hearts. It is undeniable that nostalgia is an escape from reality, but also a longing for things that cannot be realized.

    Men miss their exes and the time when the two of them used to be because these memories are in the past. We can't recall the things of the past, but the more beautiful or unforgettable things are, the more we will care about them, and the more we can't help but miss them. Of course, nostalgia is not only applicable to emotions, but also very common in our daily life, for example, we often flash in our minds images of our past lives, those people or things.

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