Would you be forced to fall in love with a girl you don t like because of family pressure?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-28
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If I don't. Life is too short, so why do things that make you unhappy?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Well, if you want to marry her under the pressure of your family, I maybe, instead of finding someone you love, but she doesn't love you, it is better to find someone who can get along with each other, no matter how beautiful the love is, it will evolve into family affection in the end.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If I were a man I might, you know that you will be happy in the future, as long as you don't hate him, in fact, most couples are not the person they love the most, what we need is a person who is most suitable for themselves, the person we love is not necessarily the most suitable for themselves, does that woman love you? It's better to love you, have you watched "Adolescence Meets Menopause"? The plot in it is similar to what you should be, in the end, the man fell in love with his wife, gave up the person he once thought he loved the most, and the one who was willing to accompany you for a lifetime was true love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, marriage is not a trivial matter, and you can't live with someone you don't like for a lifetime.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on the specific situation, if you don't feel for her for the time being, it's better not to get married. Because there is no love, even if they get married, for two people, marriage will become a shackle for two people, and both people have entered the siege. Communicate slowly, experience it, and wait until you really feel it, and sublimate this appreciation for each other into a kind of love.

    Then, getting married at this time is a matter of course.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't like her at all, don't marry her, so as not to hurt others and yourself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No, every day with people who don't love each other is painful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I won't, unless I think being with her will foster love. No matter how many advantages a person has, I don't love it, it never belongs to me, maybe the person I like has many shortcomings, but as long as I like it, I will consider marrying this person, because I will be good to her, love her and love her A very important reason for the high divorce rate now is that when I first chose to choose someone who didn't like each other, I got married because of marriage, married because of power, married because of worldliness, and so on.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, why not, feelings will change, and disliking it now does not mean disliking it in the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some people say that if a woman chooses the right marriage, her future road will be particularly easy to walk, and if a woman chooses the wrong spouse, then it will always be wrong in the future, and marriage is to find another kind of happiness for women, so women need to be very cautious when choosing a marriage.

    Will girls not dare to fall in love because of their family background?

    In fact, there is no one accurate answer to this question, it mainly depends on the individual's thoughts and a person's state of mind. Maybe some girls will not dare to fall in love because of their family background, because they feel inferior because of their family background, and even have a psychology of being unmatched, afraid of being disliked, dare not say their parents' occupation, dare not say their family background, so they fall in love.

    And some girls think differently, it is because of their own family background that they want to use love and marriage to change this lifestyle. So they began to find a rich man to fall in love, because only by finding their own happiness can they get rid of this poor life, and only by marrying a rich man can they live a happy life, so everyone thinks differently and chooses in different ways.

    In fact, a person's family background is not a problem, there is no need to let your family background and let yourself have a shadow in your heart, you should be assertive in everything you do, and you can't give up your true love because of your own family situation. If you love each other, you shouldn't have too many concerns, because after all, this is your own life, it is your own family, and if you don't try something, don't face it, you never know the result, so don't feel inferior because of your own family problems, and you must be brave enough to pursue love.

    If you are always affected psychologically because of family problems, whether it is in marriage or in life, you will have a lot of pressure, not only afraid of falling in love, but may also be affected by many factors in life, which will make you sensitive, inferior and vulnerable.

    We have to understand that everyone is not perfect, everyone has some flaws to a greater or lesser extent, there is no absolutely happy family, and there is no absolutely miserable family, so we must enlighten ourselves and face it positively, instead of running away, because what you choose is marriage, it is your future, if a person will dislike you because of your family problems, it means that this is not true love.

    We have to let go of some bad memories, we must actively accept the new life, and people can not always live in memories, we must let go of our inner thoughts, do everything with our own thoughts and our own opinions, do not affect our own life because of our inferiority.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think this phenomenon is very common, many girls have a bad family background, will form an inferiority complex, and are afraid of falling in love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some girls who are not confident will indeed dare not fall in love because of their own family background, they are afraid that the other party will dislike them, and they are afraid that the other party will not be with them if they know their family background. In fact, love is not related to family background, as long as two people really love each other, I think they will be together well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it will, the family is different, the life experience will be different, to be honest, it is very important to be the right person. If a girl is too different from a boy's family, in addition to the fact that the girl is very good, confident, and hard-working, the family is also very reasonable, otherwise they will break up sooner or later. Everyone's growth is different, if the family gap is too big, the knowledge will be different, maybe when chatting with his family, you will feel the difference.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Yes, because there are many girls from poor families who feel very inferior, and they don't have the courage to find their love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course it will, because girls are generally more sensitive, and they will not dare to fall in love because of their family background.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yes, in fact, many women are very sensitive in their hearts, and when they fall in love, they are likely to retreat because of their family background.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    When you fall in love, you will not look at the family conditions, only when you talk about marriage, you will find that your poverty and family situation do not match the other party's appearance of the wife and the happy life you want to build in the future, which reflects the importance of family background.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Yes, because many girls are very material nowadays, and the premise of falling in love is conditional, after all, family background is also one of the reasons to consider love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes. Some girls are very poor in their families, afraid that the man will look down on them, and they are too sensitive and inferior, so they dare not fall in love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, and there are many girls who will have low self-esteem because of this situation, and they will not have confidence in the process of falling in love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    They will also dare not fall in love because of their family background, and some girls will become very inferior because of their family background.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, if the family situation is really not very good, what I want to do most at this time is to work quickly, earn a lot of money, and help the family get out of such a predicament.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes! Because I'm like that.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    For some girls who have low self-esteem because of their poor family background and dare not fall in love, I think their hearts must be very rich, and they will want to work hard to get better grades than others, and they want to change their lives. But the feeling of inferiority is really undeservedBecause the low self-esteem of girls, in particular, may become an emotion engraved into life, and once it is deeply rooted, it is difficult to get rid of it.

    If the boy doesn't care about your family background, you don't have to feel inferior, he loves you as a person and not your familyEven because of his average family background, he will not choose to be with you because it is profitable, but because he really loves youSo girls really don't need to feel inferior because of family conditions. Life is for two people, should be jointly worked by both parties and guarded, most of the girls who have low self-esteem because of their family background are mostly because they do not dare to try, and the mood of timidity and inferiority makes you a little dark.

    Finally, I hope that girls from poor families can work harder, be better and even change their lives and their families' lives, instead of living in inferiority and even the courage to pursue true love has disappearedCheerful and sunny, positive emotions will dispel the dark clouds and make you more confident.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    They are afraid that their families will drag others down, and they really feel sorry for them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't have this kind of inferiority complex, boldly fall in love with others, in fact, there is nothing.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    In fact, I am such a person, my family environment has been relatively poor since I was a child, and I am more inferior when I see people I like.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Some of these girls are too unconfident, and their poor family background is not necessarily related to whether they are excellent or not.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I am from a rural area, with poor family conditions and mediocre appearance, and after graduating from college, I became a teacher in a small county, and I have never dared to fall in love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I may still not be good enough, I still don't deserve others, it's good to be alone, and when I succeed, I'll fall in love.

    This is not necessary at all, people will always meet people who are willing to give.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think you have to be bold in this aspect of love, maybe two people can succeed.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    This kind of girl is generally a girl who thinks a lot, has low self-esteem, and is very good.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    So what can be done? Whoever let you be born in this kind of family, the inferiority complex will always follow you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's often girls who are excellent but not very well-off who have low self-esteem, and I am the same. In fact, I am quite confident in life, but I often encounter talking about family conditions, whether I have bought a house or not, and I don't want to talk about it. I also meet some people who will have a mocking tone, so I am afraid to mention it.

    I am also afraid that when I fall in love, the other party will ask about the family conditions. I'm trying to change.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Worth being together. Because parents always want their children to live well, they will be very cautious when dealing with their other half, if his parents are still testing you, it means that you are not good enough.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It shows that this girl still doesn't love you enough, and the people who love you will love the house and Wu, so I suggest you observe it for a while.

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