Many people care about where the money goes, and what are the consequences of caring too much about

If a person cares too much about money, the consequences may be very serious, because he cares about everything, money will lose family affection, and friends, people will think that he has fallen into the eyes of Qian Pin, and he can't be a plus with this kind of person, and Zhaoxiang can't make friends? In this way, he will lose a lot, he will lose the love of others, he will lose the care of others, and he will become more lonely.

One question hits the nail on the head of many of the Chinese families that advocate saving them: every family has at least one overly frugal elderly man who has saved a few bucks in an inexplicable way: obviously, it doesn't cost much to take a taxi, but you still choose to take the bus; Obviously, it tastes better to buy an expensive apple, but it's the cheaper one; Obviously, it doesn't cost a lot of money to buy a bottle of water spray, but you will still use an empty mineral water bottle to catch the water from the water dispenser; I bought a refrigerator, but I was reluctant to open the washing machine because I wanted to save electricity.

Why does anyone care about a few bucks? Someone even posted online asking for help in what to do with the frugal old man at home: she habitually rummaged through the garbage bins and even asked her son to drive himself to sell scrap.

As a result, she sold a total of 15 yuan and 60 yuan of gasoline and 10 yuan of highways, and lost 54 yuan and 40 yuan for selling scrap at one time. Not only that, but she also asked her granddaughter to put away the remaining mineral water bottles from the company for her. In their inner book, saving a piece is earning a piece, and it does not include the intangible cost of saving money.

We may scoff at them because they are short-sighted, completely ignoring the hidden costs, and they don't know how to make themselves better if they were a little more natural and generous. But not everyone can be smart and generous. You see, he spends a lot of hidden costs to save a few bucks, but that's because it's one of the few ways they can maintain a material standard of living – at least in the long run, and it's natural to get used to it.

Some might say that this is what the poor think. But if you're not poor, you won't understand this long-term instinctive reaction.

Writer Zhang Jiawei said her great-grandmother was born in the early 20th century. She has experienced all sorts of things and is afraid of poverty. Later, she always hid a jar of millet under her bed.

Hiding under the bed so that others can't find it, she will feel safe. Where she usually spends money, she always feels that she can do everything by herself, and the money must be kept and not spent. persuaded her to spend, she said, "You haven't suffered!"

If you don't belong to your home, you won't know that rice, oil and salt are expensive. These things can only be understood by those who have been at home and have suffered hardships. "After being poor, or living within your means, you can experience the wisdom of life hidden behind what seems to be a "tricky" act, and the power to grasp the straw that saves your life.

The more I experience, the more I know that it is easy to criticize and the hardest to understand. As Fitzgerald wrote in The Great Gatsby, "Whenever you criticize anyone, you have to remember that not everyone in the world has the good things that you have." ”

It is because these people's family conditions are not very good, and they value money very much. Even if it's a few dollars, they attach great importance to it.

Because life is not easy. Every dollar is hard-won, and it's not easy to make money, so some people care about a few dollars.

For some people, they will care a lot about a few dollars. It's because they're very frugal or because they don't earn money themselves, and they're poor.

Why do people who have money want more money? That's because people often want to get more things in their lives: a bigger house, newer fashion, a more expensive sports car. People also need to earn enough money to plan for their future lives.

Go to college, retire. These things need to be done by saving enough money to do them.

Many wealthy people have power. They buy whatever they want, and they pay someone to do it for them. Deep-pocketed businesses can influence people's behavior and consumption, but there is also a lot of power that can be enjoyed without spending money.

a Because you earn more money than your husband. b Because you don't have any money. c Because you used to run out of money.

Because you know that this filthy society is inseparable from money! No matter what selfish people or anything, they will take themselves a little more seriously! It can also be regarded as a kind of self-protection, which is my understanding for reference only.

Money is not everything, no money is absolutely impossible....Money is nerve-wracking, and talking about money hurts feelings!

It's not just that I care, I care and a lot of people care.

Money can buy more material comforts, but it can't ** inner inferiority complex. Inferiority complex is a profound psychological experience, which arises due to underestimation of oneself and lack of self-identity. It can be triggered by a variety of factors, such as family environment, learning failures, rejection, failures, etc., and sometimes even experiences that appear in childhood can affect one's inferiority complex.

Whatever the reason, low self-esteem is a negative emotion, and it is necessary to have the right mindset to overcome it.

Money may bring material comfort, but it can't inferiority complex. It can fulfill some needs that you can control, like buying a new outfit, but it can't meet your innermost needs, such as gaining the approval and confidence of others. When your inferiority complex becomes stronger, simple material conditions no longer seem to be able to change your mentality, and even make you feel that you are almost useless, and your inferiority complex will become even stronger.

The first step in overcoming low self-esteem is to acknowledge the negative emotions you have and find ways to overcome them. Low self-esteem is essentially caused by low self-esteem and low self-confidence, so the most important thing to overcome is to improve self-confidence and self-esteem and establish a correct sense of self-identity. Secondly, you can try to change your own perception and use your failures and shortcomings as an opportunity to learn, so as to enhance your self-confidence.

In addition, you can also insist on participating in some activities, such as gaining self-confidence by joining clubs or participating in competitions, or communicating with different people to improve your abilities, so as to change your inferiority complex.

Therefore, money can not ** the inferiority complex in the heart, only by working hard to improve self-confidence, establish a correct sense of self-identity, can effectively overcome the inferiority complex.

—From Jiang Zi has something to say.

Whether you are rich or not, you all care about money.

Money is very important, but a gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way.

Rich people care about money very much, and rich people are especially good at calculating, otherwise he would not be able to earn so much money, it is because of his flexible brain and special ability to calculate carefully, so he will become rich.

No one doesn't care about money.

Money is the closest to omnipotence.

Who would dislike that he has a lot of money, of course, the more the better, so he feels that he can't earn enough.

Personally, I think it's because in this real society, you can't do anything without money, and as long as you have money, there is nothing you can't do, so people care about money very much, even if they earn a lot, they will still work hard to earn money, because they will continue to improve their quality of life.