When a person is developed, is he obliged to help other brothers and sisters?

<> in this real society, although the relationship between people has gradually become cold, the relationship between relatives that blood is thicker than water will not change. As for whether I have the obligation to help other brothers and sisters when I am developed, I think that if we help, it will never be because of any obligation.

I think so, if I have brothers and sisters, I have become strong enough and have the ability to develop myself, but my brothers and sisters have a problem with food and clothing, I feel that it is an obligation to help them get out of poverty, just because we are a family, I believe that normal people as long as they have a little blood, when we can eat and drink spicy, we must not bear to watch our relatives not have enough to eat! After all, we are the closest people. I don't know if the voluntary help mentioned here refers to sending money to support, I think the voluntary help, does not mean that it is to send money, because sending money can not solve the food and clothing of brothers and sisters, what we have to do is to tell brothers and sisters how to get rich, getting rich can be entrepreneurship, if brothers and sisters encounter financial difficulties in the process of starting a business, they can appropriately reach out to help solve the financial problem, which is the real help for them.

In addition, if we are developed, the conditions of our brothers and sisters are okay, and we are not obliged to help them make a fortune. In this society, everyone must rely on their own ability to seek a career of their own and let their family live a good life. Don't think of yourself as too strong, don't think you can help your siblings solve everything!

Do you still remember Fan Shengmei's family in the TV series "Ode to Joy"? A girl works hard in Shanghai, it is not easy to support herself, and she has to shoulder the expenses of her brother's family, she is a person who feels that she has an obligation to help her brother, not to mention that she has no self, and it has also caused her brother's incompetence. We must not follow in her footsteps, we must tell ourselves that we are not obliged to help our brothers and sisters, and at the same time let our brothers and sisters understand that they have to rely on themselves to get rich, only in this way will our lives get better and better, and our brothers and sisters will improve their living standards on their own.

All in all, no one is absolutely obliged to help siblings, when siblings are very hardworking, or food and clothing are a problem, then as a relative, I feel that I have an obligation to help my siblings achieve food and clothing. If the conditions of the siblings are okay and want to get more from us, emphasizing that we have an obligation to help them, it is a big mistake, each of us has our own family, and we cannot ruin our own home because of our siblings. You still need to grasp the specifics of this by yourself, as long as you remember that there is no obligation to say it.

There are obligations, but it depends on how you help, often it is the developed people who do bad things out of good intentions, and there are too many examples of turning against each other.

I've always believed in the saying that it's better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish, and I'm the same person. Obviously, I am not a rich person, and I don't have developed relatives or friends around me, everyone is an honest ordinary person, working class, working, eating, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, it is difficult to show a sign of development.

I've heard what other friends have told me, and my parents have told me in a tone of pity, and I can tell in their eyes how much they look forward to this opportunity and how they should take advantage of it. They have never been greedy people, but they are also smart people, and this is normal. If they meet a close relative, a rich and developed relative, they will definitely not curry favor with them, nor will they make unreasonable trouble to force other people's property, what they are waiting for is an opportunity, or a vision, telling them what they should do, how to do it well, this is enough, they believe that they are hard-working and capable enough, but they are suffering from connections, academic qualifications, and their own inseparable bonds.

My friend told me the story of him and his uncle's family. I'm not qualified to say who's right and who's wrong, I just feel like it's a case.

His family is very wealthy, and he can even be said to be a rich man in our small place. Uncle is a self-employed, ordinary, barely able to survive under the unsustainable history of modern physical stores, and he relies on some old customers. Because he is a brother, the uncle wants to send his goods to those large companies through some of his father's connections, and everyone understands the doorway of large company procurement, and they have always been acquaintances or seven aunts and eight aunts, ** high, oil and water.

But his father was actually very embarrassed, the first to take the risk, and the second to be criticized by others. But seeing that his eldest brother was so difficult, he reluctantly agreed to part of it. After a long time, the uncle felt that his delivery surface was too small, and he thought that he could still rely on his younger brother to make more money, so he raised the ** price in disguise, and even asked more companies to purchase, under the guise of his younger brother.

You don't have to guess the ending, everyone knows it. The two of them had a big fight over this matter, one thought that he was not wrong, and the other felt that his eldest brother was too much to let himself pull his face, and until now, the two rarely talk when they meet. <>

I think it's not your obligation to help if you want to help if you're developed, but in general, you still have to help, and it's very rare not to help, unless your moral quality is not high, I'll help anyway.

If you are a demon, you have to help him put down the butcher's knife, if you are a Buddha, you will help him to purify all sentient beings, if you are a god, you will help him become an immortal. In short, I think as long as you want to help, to help with your heart, it doesn't matter what kind of person he is, don't use money to help everything after development, there is a good saying, money can solve all problems, but things that can be solved with money are not called things.

I saw a case on the legal program, saying that a person won the lottery, won 5 million, and then hid, why, one is that his relatives asked him to borrow money, saying that borrowing money is actually taking money, this person knows it, but his mother is seriously ill, he has always thought that his family cheated him of money, so he hid, and in the end his relatives did not borrow his money, his mother was seriously ill and died, in fact, the final ending can be said to be the worst, if he was wiser at the beginning, and his relatives said clearly, I can borrow your money, But it's always okay to make an IOU, with an IOU, even if he doesn't pay you back, there is a basis, and what about the mother, he can find out the situation, why do things according to his own imagination, and in the end he couldn't afford it, so he donated the money, and the old mother died.

What does this mean, you are developed, relatives borrow money is nothing more than to get a piece of porridge, a little light, if you don't want to borrow it, just say it, this is not an obligation under the law, but we had better ask them what difficulties they have, and then make a decision, don't do things according to their own imagination, it is not better to do things based on facts.

I don't know which celebrity once accidentally fell down when he was on the ** step, and then ** went to help him, and then he said a meaningful word, when a person goes downhill, he doesn't need help, when he goes uphill is the time when he needs help the most, and this is still the case for others, no matter what road his brother takes, we have to help him go uphill when he is developed.

I actually especially admire the people during the war years, they were closely united during the foreign invasion, they were not brothers but brothers, they crossed the snowy mountains and meadows, *** in order to solve the problem of food and clothing for the soldiers, they killed their own big black mules, there are countless examples of such help, they have nothing, they are not biological brothers, they are obliged to help others.

We also have to learn from Bill Gates, the richest man in the world, who helped his son, not to leave him a lot of inheritance, he did not leave a little inheritance to his son, and let his son create wealth by himself, unlike a certain rich man, who cultivated a large group of rich second generations.

<>To a certain extent, I think he does have an obligation to help his other siblings.

On the one hand, from the emotional perspective of family life, brotherhood and sisterhood, blood is thicker than water, which is the most beautiful relationship in the world, and it is difficult to give up. They have lived together since childhood, grown up together, ate around a table together, frolicked in the fields together, and concealed things when they did wrong, and did not dare to tell their parents. Even if they are punished, they will beg for mercy together and bear the burden together.

My grandmother has 7 children, 6 daughters, 1 son, sometimes listen to my mother talk about their brothers and sisters, at that time there were many children, the living conditions were not good, my grandmother and grandfather were rural, there was no big ability, they had several brothers and sisters, a dress was worn in turns, and the sister was wearing a small one, so she continued to wear it for her sister. An apple should be eaten in several portions. Joy is shared together, pain and difficulties are fought together.

Life is a long road, and with brothers and sisters together, they are the most reliable support. Not to mention out of obligation, Chinese have valued feelings since ancient times, and out of their hearts, they will also take the initiative to help support other brothers and sisters. Because the habit has been formed, since childhood, we have supported and accompanied together, along the way.

On the other hand, as children who grow up in a family, they are burdened with the honor and struggle of a whole, and they are developed, for the consideration of the entire collective family, they will also pull their brothers and sisters, whether it is from the financial or spiritual level of support, one is prosperous, one is lost, and the children who grow up in a family should have a collective concept. When a person is developed, he walks in front and pulls the relatives behind, so that he can be rich and glorious together, and only then can he truly be the glory and development of a family.

However, although I have the obligation to help other brothers and sisters, after all, the family affection that blood is thicker than water is constantly abandoned. But you can't kidnap the developed people morally, he helps you with affection, and if you don't help, you don't lose your duty. I believe that as long as brothers and sisters get along well, do not intrigue, do not have the mentality of being afraid of others and laughing at others, and treat each other with a sincere heart, then there is no reason for developed people not to help other brothers and sisters, from an ethical point of view, it is also contrary to common sense.

It is you who laugh at me wetting the bed, and you are the one who grew up with me, people who have brothers and sisters are lucky people, and I hope that brothers and sisters in the world will cherish this family affection, accompany and support each other on the road of life, and help each other!

I think this kind of thing depends on the situation, and look at what the siblings themselves are like.

First of all, let's talk about the obligation to help, the first is that the other party paid for you when you were a child, many rural areas have many children at home and then can't afford to raise, brother or sister dropped out of school early to support younger brothers and sisters, so that in the future, the development of school is to repay the elder brother and sister, because in the most difficult time at home, she gave up the opportunity to go to school and get ahead for you.

The second is the situation that life is not very good because of natural and man-made disasters, for example, the brother in the family has lost the ability to work as a normal person because of a car accident or other accidents, or has some defects since childhood that cause him to be unable to live a normal life. Because these things are indeed accidents.

However, there are several situations in which it is not necessary to help or oblige.

For example, if the family is poor and not good for the elderly, the basic qualities that the elderly should have, whether they are poor or rich, and those who are not good for the elderly, no matter how bad their lives are, I will not help them, and I will not give them a penny.

For example, if you don't repent, because you are not motivated, or even because of gambling and other reasons, you will not be able to go out to gamble when you get a little money, and you have no obligation to help such brothers and sisters.

And then I see that you are developed and deliberately come over to eat and drink and take short hands, I think that no matter whether you are rich or poor, you must have backbone, and others in the family should reflect on their own ** not good enough, even if their own family is not rich, but food and clothing can be satisfied, a little nervous at hand, and you can live frugally, but if you feel that "you have money, you should give me money to help me" because other sisters are developed, people who think of "you have money, you should give me money to help me" should not get used to their problems.

Helping one's brothers and sisters is a love, not an obligation. Moreover, I think that help also needs to see the limit, and it can't help indefinitely, such as working hard by yourself, and your brothers and sisters basking in the sun and blowing the wind, living more chic and comfortable than me, why? Do I have to suffer when I'm developed?

I'm developed, I'm still working hard, so why should I help my brothers and sisters to feed them indefinitely? For example, Fan Shengmei in the very popular "Ode to Joy" some time ago, compared to the brother and sister-in-law of the Fan family, Fan Shengmei walked out of the small village and went to Shanghai, which is developed in their eyes, so the brother of the Fan family relied on his sister, he was too lazy to do anything, and he didn't want to do anything, so he waited for his sister to send money home every month to help him, and even his sister's tuition fee had to be paid by his sister, so he asked if it was a shame to be so ashamed?

If I had such brothers and sisters, I would rather be scolded than care about the life or death of such a person. It's not impossible to help, I can help you find a job, so that you can have a job and a salary to live, but I will never give you money directly. People who are lazy and lazy can't help to the end, but will slowly make them feel that you take it for granted, if one day because of some accident, you have no way to continue to help them, they have no economy, maybe they will dislike you, saying that it is all because of you, resulting in no food and shelter now.

You can be a good person, but you can never be a good person. While helping them, you should also let them support themselves, not only for their own good, but also for their own good.