Is it okay to give up a bitter love for someone

Updated on psychology 2024-02-27
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's really helpless to give up someone. This feeling can be described in four words, which is when the heart aches. When people who once loved each other were about to meet strangers, they realized that what they thought was eternally eternal, but in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

    I used to think that I could hold hands like this and go all the way, but when I let go, I realized that everything was just two parallel lines. Even if they are not far away, they are already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future.

    From then on, it is difficult to make waves. I curled up in a corner, slowly waiting for the wound to heal, and deeply experienced the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss. I've never tasted it before.

    The so-called happiness is just a moment, and after an instant, it is a person's wonderful. The days of giving up are always lonely, and there will always be inexplicably for a song, a play, and a plot. Even a sentence and tears.

    I always felt that the sky was dark and the clouds were gray. It was as if the end of the world was near. I always feel that the meaning of life has been lost.

    Many friends have told me that you have lost nothing, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I suddenly made a big mistake, just like fireworks, it can't hang in the sky forever, as long as it has been brilliant, why should I cling to the days without fireworks?

    We are all ordinary men and women, and we can't break free from the entangled love network. can't escape the whirlpool of love and being loved, after heartbreak. Is it endless loneliness, loneliness?

    Perhaps! No longer have to rack your brains to guess his thoughts, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little lighter? Do you really want to open it?

    Can you face him calmly?Even though there is a faint unspeakable sourness in my heart. But I don't cry, I cry because a person's memory is in my heart.

    No matter what, they will not disperse. I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?"

    The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid, my heart is so fragile that I can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let him go, and I also let myself go. Condense him into a picture and engrave it deeply in my mind. Looking at it, thinking about it, but you can't be a person in the painting, and you can better appreciate the beauty of the painting by staying outside the painting, right?

    Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely, "Goodbye, cherish!" Turn your head, walk away freely, let the back be deeply imprinted in his mind, when you can recall with a relieved attitude, your bits and pieces, you can experience the beauty after letting go.

    Heaven let me meet you at the wrong time, after giving up on me. Crying. But let me leave you at the right time, you.

    Will you cry? I don't think so. I said again and again that I really let go this time, and I don't know how long I can lie to myself like this.

    When will you really let go, maybe giving up is also a kind of beauty! In my wish to all lovers Zhong Cheng.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you like it, go for it. There is no resistance in the face of love (provided that both parties insist) My experience and my wife were very tortuous, but we insisted, we suffered a lot of grievances, and now we are living very well, and the baby is 3 months old. Persistence is victory. (Remember to choose the right person).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them. When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and the unrepentant effort is considered worthwhile, as long as you can be with the person you love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish ....... Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful.

    The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best. In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily.

    It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), when you see you, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her). Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can relax yourself and think about these complicated things Many things are always understood after you have experienced them. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted with.

    Learn to give up, and life will be easier. Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the best.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's really helpless to give up on someone. It's painful, because I've given up, I've lost, and I feel like it hurts in four words.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really want to give up on someone, then give up, since you really want to give up on her (him), then ask what pain is not painful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't agree with this, whether or not it hurts to give up a person depends on whether you love him or not, if you have never really loved him, how can it be painful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It was painful at first, because I gave up, and sometimes I wanted to give him a **, but I had to refrain from it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Feelings are a matter of two people, he doesn't love you, you love yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is a kind of love called letting go, and if you really love someone, you have to know how to let go!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Giving up is a kind of realm, that is, only by giving up can we appreciate life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Well! There's no way to give up!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In life, everyone will have their own.

    's troubles have their own fragile side.

    Sometimes, you fall in love with someone who doesn't know it, or they can't be together at all, or they already have a partner. Then put him [her] in the deepest part of your heart, since you love him [her], then you want him [her] to be happy, you say?

    Sometimes, you just fall in love with a feeling, and that feeling is only temporary, and you can't bet your happiness on it.

    Sometimes, because of the small things of the moment, I can't think about it, but in fact, when I think about it, everything is so unworthy. How much trouble and pain will be brought by the impulse of the moment.

    Sometimes, because of their own dedication, they are unwilling to give up their scarred and collapsed relationship. Then you should think about it, is it important to have a love affair in danger, or is it important to have a lifetime of happiness? Sometimes, giving up is the best option.

    If you have someone you really love, then go and give, even if you fail, you won't regret it! Because you have loved, loved deeply, and everything is enough!

    In fact, I am a very ordinary person, not as mysterious as everyone thinks, let alone a psychologist, but I can feel your mood with my own heart.

    You can treat me as an ordinary friend, everyone can open their hearts and smile, and they will naturally be in a good mood.

    I can't give you the best answer, because I have limited abilities and ultimately rely on my friends. I can only listen with my heart.

    In fact, you know your own things best, but sometimes, you don't want to face reality.

    Yes, life is full of helplessness, but it is also because of these helplessness that life is more complete and rich.

    We should be strong in the face of it.

    As a man, you should be strong; As a woman, you should be stronger!

    Finally, tell everyone that when you encounter troubles, you can talk to friends, but don't treat friends as a kind of dependence.

    Remember: you are the real powerhouse in life!!

    I don't have anything to ask for, I just hope that after I have done my best to give my love, I will be satisfied with a thank you.

    As long as everyone can be happy, no matter how much you pay, you will have no regrets.

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