What kind of person did you want to be, and what kind of person are you now?

I'm an honest person, others say I scold me, I never fight back or do anything, in my heart I want not to quarrel with others, because the more I quarrel with them, the more I quarrel, the more I will deepen the conflict, let them quarrel tired, in their hearts if you don't talk back, they think they are right. But I don't like who I am now.

I'm a very strong person, whether it's in primary school, middle school or even university. My academic performance has always been at the top. When I was in middle school, my essay was the first in the grade, and my teacher often used my essay as a model essay to read in the whole grade.

At the same time, I never rub sand in my eyes, I have never been bullied, I am a child's head at school, and I am very organized!

Low self-esteem as a child leads to autism, cowardice, and sometimes not daring to express what is true in the heart. There is social phobia and would rather live in a world of people who enjoy themselves. Sometimes I am inexplicably excited to talk too much, and then I feel very panicked and bored, as if I have overdrawn something, so I often regret that I talked too much.

Because of this, I don't want to tell others what is in my heart, and I think it will be boring to say it, so I hardly want to make friends. So I feel that I am a very pathetic person, and I often fall into a depressed situation, but I still have to rely on myself to get rid of it little by little, so sometimes I feel that I am a very strong person in my heart.

I think I'm a very emotional person, I always think a lot, I like to do things by feeling to see the mood, I think I need to be a little more rational, so I learned about financial management, and I found it very helpful.

I feel like I'm one of those people who don't have to talk about it. Why? It's just the kind of person who has no heart and lungs, and he doesn't take anything seriously when others say it, but if it's really true, he has to talk to them about what others say.

I'm still a person who just can't speak. Today I say that this tomorrow will change again, but I don't have an idea.

Our generation has grown up with the Republic, and what happened is now history. Growing up with the singing of "Let's Swing the Sculls" and "Learning from Lei Feng's Good Example", we have experienced the difficult time of "three years of natural disasters", we have experienced that unbearable time, we have gone up the mountains and down to the countryside, and we have been laid off, but we have come over, survived, and caught up with the good times now. We know that today's good life is not easy to come by, especially the earth-shaking changes that have taken place in the country over the past 40 years of reform and opening up.

We know that we are satisfied, not compared to others, and we are full of happiness compared to ourselves. Just take a thing now, compare an object with the past, it is simply heaven and earth, something that I couldn't think of before, and now it exists so ordinarily and peacefully. Love reading, love writing, love travel is nothing, as long as you are willing to "spend the New Year" every day is also normal.

The second time I participated in the company's training, in addition to learning some professional knowledge, the most impressive sentence was: what kind of person you want to become, what kind of person you will become. It's not the first time I've heard this sentence, but I may have reached a certain age, so I feel quite emotional.

It is true that many people do not achieve anything in their lives, and the main reason is that they do not have a clear goal - that is, what kind of person they want to be, or even if they have a goal, they are not clear, so they do not put enough effort into this goal. Looking back on my life for more than 40 years, maybe because many things that others can get through hard work seem to me to have easily, and the too comfortable life makes me slowly forget my original intention, forget my goal, and forget what kind of person I once wanted to be, so I have not become the person I once wanted to be. Fortunately, it is not too late to realize that it is not too late, especially after entering the real estate agency industry, there is always a feeling that it is too late, so you have to study hard and work hard to become a good real estate agent in the future - of course, this is only the goal of the work.

My recent regret has made it even clearer: in the end, I still want to be the person I've dreamed of being since I was a teenager - late at night, let's not say Bi Tieyuan, good night.

The above is a summary of the training I posted in the enterprise group last night. There is a saying: Don't forget the original intention, you have to always.

Many classic sayings don't feel anything after reading them when you're young, but when you read them after you have a certain amount of experience, you feel completely different. Now look at the friends and classmates around me, those who have done better in a certain field are those who have persevered for more than ten or twenty years. And some of those circumstances are not very good, people like me, who don't know what they can do when they reach the age of forty.

Therefore, you must have a goal in life, that is, what kind of person you want to become, and then work hard and struggle in this direction. You can correct the course in the process, but the general direction cannot be changed, and it is only a matter of time before you become the person you want to be.

Those who have watched "The Pretender" know that before Yu Manli met Mingtai, her experience was painful, and the betrayal of her adoptive father, the assassination of her benefactor, and the ruthlessness of the killer constituted Yu Manli's tragic past. However, she became a military commander by chance and also became Mingtai's life and death partner.

Remember, in the play, Wang Tianfeng once said to Manli:

Yu Manli's suffering is only understood by herself, if she can't get out of her inner demons and still live in the pain of the past, no one can save her.

The so-called: "Recognizing oneself is the only way to maturity".

In the end, she did.

It is easy to take revenge, but it is difficult to release hatred.

She recognized herself, opened her heart, and began to welcome a new life.

In my opinion, in what Wang Tianfeng said, "It doesn't matter what you have done in the past, what matters is what you want to do now." It is the premise of "what you want to become, you will become".

Without "what to do now", how can you become the person you want to be?

Only by doing can we have the opportunity to change and the possibility of success.

Like, when you have the idea of **, do it first, keep your mouth shut and open your legs. Then make a plan, train regularly, and so on.

No matter what happened before, change your past self and do what you want to do now.

History can be reviewed and learned, but it cannot be stopped.

This is true for things, and it is true for people.

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Have the freedom to be your own master, you don't have to force yourself to do what you don't want to do, and you don't have to bow to life because of firewood, rice, oil and salt.

I will not be sentimental because I should cherish what I should have cherished, and I will not regret because I have not worked hard when I should have worked hard. Everything we care about today, in the passage of time day by day, will eventually shed the glitz and all forms on the surface, and only those who care most will leave a mark.

For example, a love, a look back, a wish when you were young, an effort to change your fate, and a moment to stand up at a critical moment, these highlight moments, these essences that shine in life like stars, and memories with weight and quality, can all be beautiful.

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Ideal is the beautiful imagination and hope of future things, and it is also a metaphor for the concept of something reaching the most perfect state. It is the yearning and pursuit of people's future society and their own development formed in the process of practice, with the possibility of realization, and the concentrated embodiment of people's world view, outlook on life and values in the goal of struggle.

To meet immediate material and spiritual needs, but also to look forward to future life goals, looking forward to meeting higher material and spiritual needs. The unremitting pursuit of the future is the driving force and source of the formation of ideals.

Ideal, divided into short-term and long-term. The short-term generally refers to the goals to be accomplished in the near future. The long-term is generally called a lofty ideal, and the empty state has struggled for a long time, even more than one generation.

Ideal refers to the imagination of the goal that conforms to rational thinking, and it is also the idea of one's own rational treatment of the goal.

The above content refers to Encyclopedia - Ideal.