What does a good temper look like? What kind of person has a good temper?

Temper is one of the common psychological phenomena often encountered in daily life. Quite a number of young people are short-tempered and impulsive when encountering problems, especially when it comes to things that do not go well or that they are not accustomed to, they are often prone to anger or instigation, and sometimes they quarrel with others and say some embarrassing things, which may affect the unity among comrades or affect family harmony.

There are good and bad tempers in people. A good-tempered person will be welcomed no matter how he goes, and others like to cooperate and work with him; People with a bad temper often bring distress to themselves and others, making it difficult for others to get along with them. Surveys have found that the vast majority of young men and women make it a condition for choosing a spouse to be good-natured.

We also know from experience that if there are one or two people with bad tempers in a family or a small unit where one person lives, it will often make the family or the group ununited. Therefore, the purpose of changing bad temper is not only to eliminate personal suffering, but also to promote family harmony and strengthen collective unity.

The goodness of people's temper has a lot to do with the environment in which they live and work. Good tempers such as meekness, peace, and patience are often closely related to a harmonious and warm family environment and good upbringing; Bad tempers such as irritability, stubbornness, eccentricity, and willfulness are often related to pampering, over-spoiling, or not getting the warmth of the family, and parents being too strict. The smooth or bumpy path of an individual's life can also have a significant impact on a person's temper and character.

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change", which means that people's temper and character have a stable side, but it does not mean that temper and character are fixed and unchanging. We all know that some people were short-tempered when they were young, and they were as strong as an ox that did not obey their commands; But after the tempering of life, especially the loss of a bad temper, his temper gradually became calmer, and he was not so stubborn about things. So bad temper can be changed.

Of course, there are also those who do not change, and that is because he himself does not have the requirements to change his bad temper, or he has a request and does not seriously change it.

So, how can you get rid of your bad temper? First and foremost, it is important to have a good understanding of the dangers of a bad temper. In social life, we always have to contact and interact with other people, hoping to get the favor, friendship, appreciation, and cooperation of others (of course, it cannot be everyone), otherwise, we will feel lonely, lonely, lifeless, and unable to move an inch.

People's behavior is regulated and controlled by consciousness, and when we understand the harm of bad temper, we can generate a demand from our hearts to change our bad temper. Second, it is necessary to strengthen ideological cultivation. Only when we always think of others in our hearts and respect the interests and needs of others will we be warm, considerate and loving to others.

Only by always putting the interests of the collective in the first place can we not be rash and stubborn, and can we be calm and think twice when encountering problems. Finally, you must have determination and perseverance to change your bad temper, and if you can't remember it today, just be cautious, and after two days, you will still be the same. With determination and perseverance, you will definitely get rid of your bad temper.

Makes you very comfortable and very willing to stay with him.

In fact, everyone has a temper, not a person with a good temper does not have a temper, and generally tantrums are due to emotional influences;

A good-tempered person is not without emotions but can control his impulses, and tantrums are human instincts; And the one who can control his temper is the real ability;

As you said, no matter how you scold him, he is not angry, and in real time you scold him like this, he must have emotions, but he can control himself not to be angry, this is what we usually call a good temper.

Generally, a good-tempered person knows how to be humble, not because he is timid and afraid, but because he knows how to deal with things;

In fact, don't consume good-tempered people, after all, dogs jump over walls in a hurry, and rabbits bite when they are in a hurry;

1. Kind-hearted and able to take into account the feelings of others.

A person with a good temper and good character will often take into account the feelings of others, unwilling to hurt others, unwilling to embarrass others, even if others do wrong, they will save face for others to go down the ladder, in fact, in the final analysis, good-tempered people are kind-hearted.

Because of the kindness of the heart, they will not lose their temper, so that others can't get off the stage, they will rather suffer their own losses than let others be wronged, so people with a good temper are often very tolerant, and use their patience in exchange for the sea and the sky and the calm waves!

People with a good temper and good character can be kind to others, treat others well and treat themselves well, only kindness can attract kindness in this world, if you want to get the respect of others, you must first learn to respect others, so people with a good personality and good temper will be respected by others, can make friends, have good popularity and popularity!

A person has a good temper, specifically refers to his easy-going personality, not easy to deal with others, a wide range of thoughts, will not drill the horns, has strong endurance, and can tolerate your mistakes.

I have a good-natured friend by my side and am very happy. You can make all kinds of jokes with him, he won't be angry with you, and you don't have to think too much about getting along with him.

Some people have a good temper because of their tutoring. Since he was a child, his parents have given him enough love, so he is also willing to share the sunshine and love with others.

Good temper, on the one hand, treat people gently, easily do not get angry, on the other hand, when others repeatedly disturb and provoke, can maintain a calm mind, do not care, easily do not get angry, be magnanimous, do not care.

It feels comfortable and respected.

Of course, there is a bottom line when I say that I have a good temper, not an unprincipled good temper, and an unprincipled one is called being obedient. Hope it helps.

A good temper refers to a person with a high degree of civilization, high literacy, and the ability to be tolerant and generous to people and things, but it is not a mass of harmony and mud, not arguing with others, and dealing with problems calmly and calmly.

When bad things happen to you, be calm and calm.

The core elements of a good-natured person are: strong empathy, so they can put themselves in the shoes of others; Love your family and the people around you, so you can put down your body and make sacrifices; Honest and kind, so you can win trust and respect in the long run; Gentleness, patience, and therefore always entering a virtuous circle with those around you. A good-tempered person has full empathy for others, and tries to maintain emotional stability when it comes to things.

Empathy is innate, but the ability to be stable is very strong.

Summary. The performance of a good temper, such as, is not a matter of principle, does not argue with others, can tolerate responsibility, let it go, and would rather dedicate itself than compete with others.

The performance of a good temper, such as, is not a matter of principle, does not argue with others, can tolerate responsibility, let it go, and would rather dedicate itself than compete with others.

Being good at uniting people, being empathetic, and being kind to others are all manifestations of a good-tempered person.

However, a good temper does not mean that there is no temper, being able to tolerate does not mean that there is no principle, and being good at uniting people does not mean that there is no distinction between good and evil, so a good temper is a virtue, a kind of dedication, and a willingness to unite, not a waste, nor is it an accommodation without principles.

Hope mine can help you.

Du Yuesheng once said: First-class people, have the ability but no temper; second-class people, with ability and temper; The last people have no ability and temper. Don't fight with the world, don't quarrel with others, don't be angry, don't force things, keep a good temper, don't get along with yourself, health and happiness will come.

Manage your emotions well, and you will be elegant; Control your mindset and you will be successful. Don't be angry when you encounter problems, be less persistent, be more easy-going, put your mind at ease, and broaden your horizons, so that you can dominate your life. It is a blessing to be one step higher in life, and to be lenient with others.

People with a good mentality, everything is fine! <>