In front of the elders, why are the old people self righteous and smart

For example, our parents often remind us to dress when it is cold and bring an umbrella when it rains.

And we often say no, it's not going to be cold, and you don't look at who I am.

You see, it's sunny today, how can it rain, weather forecast.

Nonsense, you don't need to bring an umbrella.

It should not be called self-righteousness, first of all, the old people have experienced more than us, more experienced than us, maybe they think that the road they have walked is in the next generation, they can help the next generation to have better, secondly, the old people just care about us, hope to give us more good advice, because there is a generation gap, so communication, measures and the like may be incompatible with us, so, communication is the most important!

According to decades of life experience, they feel that their ideas are correct, but they do not pay attention to the changes in society, the changes in technology, the changes in people's understanding of life, and the changes in people's views on things, and their ideas are still not, so they stubbornly believe that they are right. Because he felt that he ate more salt than a young man would eat. However, we should agree that in many ways, the views of the old people are still correct, not useless.

However, many old people do not study, do not pay much attention to the news, and do not pay much attention to the development of society, so they make jokes.

However, there are also some elderly people who learn new things every day, and are even very willing to try new things. You can't see all the old people as one.

I think I'm old and well-informed, but I don't even know how to use a mobile phone.

Because they feel like they have more experience than we do.

First of all, their age and experience accumulation have caused their cognition of the world to be solidified, and it is difficult for them to accept new things, and feel that what they perceive is right and good. Secondly, because of this reason, some of the elderly are particularly good at face, even if they know that their cognition is narrow, and the wrong ones should be justified by strong words to prove the wrong young people, and there will also be some elderly people when receiving external information, the brain automatically translates into wrong information, for example, you say praise, the old people can listen to the opposite words and meanings, but they do not develop the habit of hearing clearly and listen again, but according to their own self-confidence and cognition, they think that the truth is like that. Part of the reason has nothing to do with age, there are also young people around who are not very good and still have to point fingers at others, if he has not been hit one after another in his life, for example, he was slapped like this, and he was beaten too much to form muscle memory, and then he was so self-righteous that he would recall the terrible punishment and never dare to do it again.

Otherwise, the problem will be more obvious when you get older. It may be that the elderly who have encountered these problems too much have formed the impression that the elderly think they are pointing fingers. The basic attitude of society towards this phenomenon is not to blame the elderly, generally saying that young people are not good, young people can't speak, and young people don't know how to avoid the elderly.

One morning, a citizen was walking in a country park when he accidentally saw a chrysalis on the branches and leaves of a small tree, trying to break open its cocoon. So, he didn't go anywhere all morning, but waited by and watched the moths curiously.

The whole process of breaking out of the cocoon. After a while, I saw only moths.

Always struggling inside the cocoon, it seems that it can't get rid of the cocoon's shackles, and it seems that it is impossible to get out of it again.

Eventually, the kind-hearted and interested man lost his patience and took out small scissors and cut a small hole in the top part of the cocoon to make it easier for the moth to come out of it. Sure enough, in less than a few minutes, the moth finally came out easily and lay on the branch, its body suddenly became very bloated, and its wings seemed a little shrunken.

Unfortunately, the moth that was helped not only could not fly in the air and show its beauty, but could only crawl slowly on the ground, and soon died of exhaustion.

It turns out that when the moth is pupating, its wings are shrunken and underdeveloped, and it must go through a struggle before the body fluids can flow into the wings, and the two wings can later spread their wings in the air and fly powerfully.

The kind-hearted citizen, according to his own will, went to help the moth out of the cocoon, but caused the tragedy of the moth.

When I was a kid, I thought I was smart, but now that I think about it, I find some things funny.

I remember when I was in kindergarten, in order to let us have a deeper understanding of plants, the teacher went home and asked each of us to plant a pot of flowers, and take them to the kindergarten three months later.

When I got home, I told my mother, and she said, "You can grow cactus balls, because it's easier to raise." Remember, don't water it indiscriminately, or it will die.

The next day, there was a beautiful pot of flowers on the balcony of my house, and the body of the cactus ball was like a big round ball of jade, and its whole body was covered with thorns like a needle, like a cute little hedgehog, I liked it. I was even more skeptical of my mother's words.

After that, I watered the cactus every day, thinking that the cactus would be thirsty just like people, and besides, didn't my grandfather water the vegetables every day? I think I am nourishing and caring for it, but in fact I am hurting it all the time. After a few days, I found that it slowly turned yellow, the thorns on its body fell off at the touch of it, the nutrients of the cactus ball were gone, and the body was deflated.

So I tried my best to save it and bask it in the sun every day, but it still didn't help. I was so sad that I almost burst into tears.

Later, my mother couldn't bear to see me sad, so she went to buy a pot for me. He also told me about the cactus; Because cacti grow in tropical or arid regions, in order to adapt to the lack of water, cacti store a lot of water in their thick stems. So water every half a month in summer, and don't need to water in winter.

After listening to my mother's words, it dawned on me.

I think that planting flowers also has such a great knowledge! I took care of it as written, and soon 3 months passed, and among the many children, my flowers were the best, and my heart was happy.

Ay! It's really clever but clever and mistaken by cleverness. This was my colorful childhood, and you must have it too! Come and share it with everyone!