Why is graduation season a breakup season?

To be honest, I really don't think the breakup has anything to do with graduation or long-distance relationships. There is only one reason, not enough love. In fact, to be honest, everyone understands it in their hearts.

You're not that important, not so important that I can give up my family or job, not so important that I use our relationship to convince my parents, not so important that I feel like I can't meet anyone better than you. I'm sure I'll be better in the future, and there are better people waiting for me, but there's a good chance that that person won't be you.

Distance is a knife, you have to admit that coupled with the increased burden and pressure on your body after graduation, many people just can't bear it. In this case, it is advisable to go with the flow, and there is no way to force it.

The reason for this is that I don't love it in three words. When girls no longer worship boys, it has already been decided that this love will come to an end. The reason for not breaking up is because of the sense of dependence caused by environmental factors.

And the longer the time, the stronger this sense of dependence, the more it will create the illusion of "I still love you, I am very reluctant, but I have to face life". But girls have found that their values are different from those of boys. The end result is a breakup.

With the broadening of horizons, the lack of love caused by different values is the ultimate reason for the breakup.

Originally, a long-distance relationship is difficult, but the financial pressure will be less during the student period, once you graduate, you need to make your own money, and you have to make a good decision about work or graduate school, so it is possible to encounter setbacks, so it is normal to be in a bad mood and break up.

After graduation, everyone went their separate ways and scattered. The romance on campus has gradually become cold because of the barrier of space, so that many originally beautiful romances are carefree at school, simply like not having any magazines, and everyone needs to go their separate ways, go their separate ways to face the pressure of employment, and the pressure of parents' expectations for their children, and finally become unable to be together, and end up without a problem. It's the season of breakups.

Your minds are constantly changing and deepening. If there is a big difference in values, you can't empathize with what the other party says at the moment, and both parties will feel that they are still lonely. Breaking up is a natural process.

I can't even take care of myself, my life is not guaranteed, and I really don't have time to estimate the other half. It is estimated that most of the breakups are the former, believing that people's hearts are still kind, and they are unwilling to let the other half be wronged.

Slowly mature thinking makes everyone look at love a little more rationally, and they have a more and more understanding and clarity of another person's values, and it is difficult to understand and comfort them when they deviate from their own values. This is a more regrettable love.

1.The person who is in love is different. When I fell in love in college, most of them were my classmates, and I could understand each other day and night, and there was little difference in age, and the topics we talked about were similar, so it was easy to have a good impression.

And after work, falling in love is often introduced by friends, and there is a lot of difference in ordinary ages, and it takes a lot of time to understand each other, and it takes a lot of time to really fall in love or get married. There is a lot of demand for running-in.

2.The concept of love in two stages.

It's different. When I was in college, I was more authentic when I fell in love, and I often insisted on a simple heart, not for the purpose of unreasonable needs and spending money on the other party, not to touch the garage and salary income, and not to touch the other party's parents. And when you fall in love after work, you will go to a lot of rules and regulations at the beginning, what kind of work is it, whether you can have a house and a car, and whether your parents have a pension.

Under these premises, I began to think about whether the other party was suitable for me, and I once lost the enthusiasm of love when I was a student. Differential key sedan.

3.The process of falling in love is different. When you fall in love in college, you can go to class together, eat together in the cafeteria, and play unscrupulously together, carefree.

But when you work and fall in love, due to the constraints of working hours and economic conditions, many things cannot be done as you wish, nor can you do them at will.

4.The result of a relationship. It's all about graduation season.

It's breakup season, which is not unreasonable, or because of a long distance, or because of parents, or even because of work, the love during the student period is always not optimistic, and the ideal situation is indeed like this, many college couples can't go to the end. And the love after work, considering each other in all aspects, is also Liang Qian's intention to fall in love for the purpose of marriage, so it is easy to achieve ordinary comparison.

Finally, I would like to say that if a college relationship can last until marriage, then we must cherish each other. If not, don't be a pity, there are many impossibilities in life, and you will definitely be able to find the right other half for you in the end.

This relationship should overcome difficulties by carefully planning for the future, empathy, strengthening communication, etc., and the relationship can still be sustainable and stable after graduation.

As long as the relationship between the two is stable, graduation is not enough to be a reason to break up. Graduation is just a starting point, although there will be many changes after graduation, such as location, job, and future choices may be different, and these are all tests, all feelings need to go through a series of tests, and after passing the tests, the future feelings will be more precious and will have a good result.

How to talk about a love without breaking up?

First of all, we must know that feelings are not child's play. When starting a relationship, it is necessary to think carefully, take into account both rationality and emotion, and avoid ignoring practical problems as soon as the mind is hot. Good emotions are based on the inner psychological connection between two sexes with mature psychology and sound personality, and responsible feelings can go longer and further.

Second, do a good job of planning for the future of the two people. Economy is the basis of love preservation, most of the students will be independent after leaving the college campus, both parties have to find a suitable job to obtain economic independence, to support and support their love, the city of work, the type of work, the income of the work, are to be discussed and decided by two people, and these need to be considered clearly in advance by two people in the junior year, and then graduate in order to move in the same direction.

Again, learn to compromise and give in. When it comes to a mature relationship, both parties need to be motivated and compromised for the love to be perfect. For example, after graduation, long-distance relationships and other issues need to be discussed slowly by both parties to find a way to solve the problem that is acceptable to both of you, and the necessary compromise and abandonment are the only way to love.

Finally, self-improvement and love preservation. A good relationship state is when two people are moving forward, and the relationship between one person struggling forward and the other person stopping and lying flat is destined to not last long.