I don t want to lose this relationship, how to give up a relationship that I don t want.

If you really love you, try to make his mother like you, otherwise it's an excuse, if you really can't get it back, give up, because you can't be nostalgic anymore, otherwise it's yourself who suffers, don't be deceived, not to mention that you shouldn't give up so easily if you love you. Or give him up, it's hard, I can understand, but sometimes there are things that can't be forced. And he made it clear to him for the last time.

Or he doesn't love you deeply, if true love will definitely actively strive for, such a person is not worth your pain, adjust your mentality, shake your head, wave your sleeves, start a new life freely, all the good will come soon!

I'm a man, I know, and it's an excuse to say that his mother doesn't agree!!

If he really loves you, he will marry you even if the whole world is against it. You see him sad, that's what he pretended, sober up, this big sister!

Before the Chinese New Year, I also encountered a similar topic like you, the situation at that time was that I had just resigned in order to be with him, and we had been to both families, at this time, his mother said to me when my son and I were going to get on the train: "I won't agree with you, even if I don't recognize this son in the future" For this sentence, I have never cried since I was a child, I was so sad on the train, I couldn't stop crying, and I was afraid that he would see it.

Later, I thought about it, emotional things, not how much you can get how many hugs, at least now I am very happy, he loves me very much, we go back together for the New Year, I am afraid of his mother's house, I am afraid of doing things, I am anxious to do things, think more about his mother, why I don't like myself, I have to hook up and understand more, and I am drugged in the right way!!

Excuses, if he loves you, can he give up for such a simple reason, love is so unfrustrated, yes, the difficulties are in front of you, then overcome them, work hard, you will definitely be able to be together, as long as you love each other. People who love each other will be happy together.

I want to ask your boyfriend, are you living with your girlfriend for the rest of your life, or with your parents for the rest of your life, what your parents said can't be said to be wrong, after all, they are all from the past, and you have a lot more experience in this area. But you have to think more about it for your future, you have found a person you love, and it is not an easy task. Why just give up so lightly, you're sure you won't regret it later!

Please forgive my sixth sense, I don't think your boyfriend really loves you!

If this is an ironclad fact, you have to face it and accept it!

Tell you how to break free from the pain of falling out of love happily, that is, immediately devote yourself to another relationship, maybe not everyone can do it, then you can make work or study to enrich yourself, you will have a different harvest!

Believe in your own beauty, and you will encounter an even more beautiful relationship!

Wake up

How long have you been talking? Do you know why his mom doesn't approve of you being together?

Is this problem simply unsolvable?

If it really can't be recovered, it's better to let it go;

If he really doesn't want to lose you, I think he'll figure it out.

If you feel tired of a relationship and don't want to continue, then you need to refuse decisively, don't hesitate, you can't let go at first, but it will be fine after a while.

Imagine the ending of continuing, is that what you want? Long-term pain is better than short-term pain, let go as soon as possible, otherwise it may end up being more painful.

However, this is your own life, and you can also choose to go on and do it for yourself.

What should I do if I don't want to continue a relationship? I don't think I want to continue a relationship, it means that you are not suitable, and you are tired of each other, and I think of course you should let it go.

Don't just let it go, what can you do if you are reluctant to do it, there will be no result.

The relationship needs to be intimate, the distance should be appropriate, and it should be just right so that they can really stay together. In any long-term relationship, there is a sense of boundaries. That's love and respect.

Each other has their own things to do, and it's the best relationship when they need to hug each other.

1. Don't have a fearless attitude.

Good relationships require knowledge. Cherish each other, understand each other, and this love will last forever. If it is said to rely on one's likes and dislikes, unscrupulousness and fearlessness, then no one can stand it.

Those who are fearless rely on one's preferences. Someday, this love will run out. If you don't know how to cherish it, even the best enthusiasm will run out.

Human passion is limited, and the love of lawlessness will naturally slowly fade away. A good love always needs to maintain each other, be sincere to each other, and understand each other's efforts. Only then does it make sense.

2. Don't be too proactive.

When it comes to relationships, good love should be balanced. How a person treats you, how you respond to the other person, this love can last a long time and produce results. If the relationship is unbalanced, naturally one party will be tired and the other party will be unscrupulous.

In the face of love, you can take the initiative, but you can't be too proactive, everything is too much. The right relationship will make the other person respect you. Overly obsessed love actually only touches itself, not the other party at all, and even allows the other party to enjoy it as a matter of course.

3. Don't rely too much on each other.

In fact, everyone is an individual, and no matter how much you love someone, you must maintain your independence. You rely too much on the other person, too much on the other person, which will not only cause pressure on the other person, but also allow yourself to fail, no matter how good the relationship is, there is a scale. In this world, it is not who always depends on whom.

People still have to learn to be independent and rely on themselves as much as possible. If you really want to maintain a relationship, you should maintain a comfortable state instead of frequent contact and excessive dependence.

Don't complain about the other party's shortcomings, and then you must not belittle the other party's character, don't slander the other party's family, you must master a certain measure, you must keep a certain distance from the opposite sex, do not remain ambiguous with the opposite sex, and then you must be financially independent, don't rely too much on each other, don't take too initiative, and be sure to maintain a sense of mystery.

Don't always be unreasonable, don't doubt the other person, don't be too sensitive and inferior, don't always find fault with the other person, don't always blame the other person, these behaviors are very hurtful.

Don't complain about each other's shortcomings, don't belittle each other's character, and don't denigrate each other's family, don't deceive each other, and don't get close to the opposite sex without measure.

In fact, the best way to give up this kind of feeling that you want to give up but are a little reluctant is to think about how you want to make a trade-off. For example, if you give up on this relationship, how uncomfortable will you be, and if you continue to hold on to this relationship, will you continue to be happy?

In fact, the kind of thing that bothers you now is nothing more than a matter of choice and choice. That is to say, you feel that there is no fun for two people to be together, at this time you originally wanted to separate, but there is still some reluctance in your heart, and you may feel that the other child's child can bring you a certain amount of happiness.

The opinions that others give to you are always what others say, and the real things are often up to you. So, this kind of thing is that you have to give up and persevere, and there is a better ratio between the two.

If you really feel that giving up will make you feel happy and relaxed, then it will make you more comfortable, which means that you made the right decision, and you should not regret it.

If you are really reluctant, then you should try to think about the happy things you are together, after all, thinking about this kind of happy things will make you feel more comfortable.

So I think that no matter what decision you make, in the end, it is up to you, others can't advise you too much, and no matter what decision you make, as long as you don't regret it, it's actually okay.

In fact, what his family said was also timely.

If you think about it, your education is higher than his, and no man can stand it, and his girlfriend is better than himself, in fact, like you are successful in your studies, and you will go to work in a good place in the future, I believe that your boyfriend will be more stressed, and he may give up by himself at that time.

Because I don't think I'm worthy of you.

It's been seven years, and that is indeed a hard-earned love.

But your experience is still too little, the past seven years, that is when you are still an ignorant teenager, love is innocent, but when you are employed, when you have been tempered by society, you will also change, maybe you will learn the reality (this is inevitable) at that time

will also feel that there is a generation gap between the two of you together, and you will give up.

None of this is predictable.

Pushing him like his parents did again must have been hard.

You can also persuade him to let him continue his studies, this Yang will at least be a close relationship with you in the future, after all, I want you to be still young, and you are more emotional than rational.

Seeing that you are so hard, I also hope that your long pain is better than short pain, and breaking up does not mean that you can no longer contact many people, but after the breakup, they will become good friends.

One more blue face yourself, why not.

Think twice for yourself.

These pains will slowly disappear over time.

It's really hard to let go of a relationship.

But if it's the right decision.

Then let's do it.

It's good to gather and disperse. You're both going to be a little bit better off that way.

Your fate won't run

Can you guarantee that you will not change your mind? When you meet more people, you don't necessarily want to like her like now, I think his family is right, after all, you still have to graduate in three years, if you really have love and each other, come to him after three years, if you have you in your heart, he will wait for you, but there are not many people who do it, bless you.

Do you believe in love? If you believe, you will persevere, and if you don't believe, you will give up, because people who go to school and those who don't go to school will have many different opinions. Don't believe you can try.

You can communicate with his parents well. There was nothing bad about communication, find a way to impress his parents. (If that man is worth your job) there are some things that you don't want to be ruthless about, and it's yourself who hurts yourself. Be brave, it's not easy to be together for seven years.

In fact, in this day and age, is there still a family that interferes so strongly with the freedom of love and marriage? It's all a pretext. The innocent girl, the kind girl, lost her way in purity and lost her mind in love.

If he really loves you, he will not tell you this, but will actively do the work of the family. You're worried that he's going to have a falling out with his family, doesn't his family know how much it hurts to lose his son? Because of marriage, can you still have this son?

Besides, you're a college student, a very good girl, and his family has no reason to oppose it with all his might. Here's a suggestion: leave the choice to him.

If he makes the decision to break up, you don't have to feel sorry for it, because fundamentally he doesn't love you, and you can't be sad for such a person. I hope you can wait and see what happens. I wish you a happy and happy study!

It's the opposite, then you have to be ruthless, otherwise it's not good for you and him, since you love him, then you have to be the ruthless person.

No matter how sad it is, it will pass after all, don't hurt. 、

His family's worries are not unreasonable, he doesn't go to college, and you go to college, your starting point after you graduate, the people and environments you come into contact with will be different, you love him now is likely to be in the future because of each other's inconsistent pace, resulting in you no longer love him, of course, there are two people who end up together, but not too much on a large scale, if you are sincere, you don't put pressure on him, and you still have three years to graduate You can't get married yet, and verbal promises are also the most insecure, Tell him that you will wait for him, and if he really loves you, he will wait for you, and the pressure of true love between two people is a kind of motivation.

The two of them chatted more and chatted calmly. Communicate more with his parents, in fact, you can get married and continue to go to school