Life s troubles Choosing a dilemma?

In fact, many of us at this stage are similar, not long after graduation, on the one hand, I want to start from the basics, learn something, on the other hand, I have to start thinking about what are very realistic things, facing pressure, sometimes I feel that I am too bad compared with my peers around me...

Life is inherently unpredictable, and there is a cost to everything. After working, I found that the most difficult thing is not that there is no room for choice, but that there are too many choices and I don't know what to choose in the end.

I'm in your case, and my current job pay is poor, but I've been doing it all the time, because I think I'm very good at learning something. But when I see the grades of my classmates who graduated together, I may have better opportunities to choose from, so I don't know how to decide.

During this period of work, I personally feel that I should know that every job is not as good as it seems. Or rather, because people are not satisfied with the status quo. We must first understand what kind of life we want.

When thinking about this issue, you have to think about those practical issues, such as buying a house, getting married, and raising a family. It is estimated that you have not worked for a long time, and your age is not too old, in fact, you don't have to rush back. If you feel that your current job can indeed improve your ability in all aspects, you can stay and do it for a few years, accumulate experience and ability, and wait until you feel that you have a similar level, and you are looking for a job that you feel you are qualified for.

If you feel that you can still get the opportunity to improve and grow like your current job when you go back to work, then there is no need to stay, to be honest, it is definitely better to go to a place close to your home, all kinds of contacts, feelings or something than outside.

Choices are risky, and opportunity cost should be the main issue we consider. Stress and worries are there, it's just how you look at it and solve it.

The main thing is that you have to know what you want, what are you doing this job for? Ability improvement or good treatment? To believe in yourself, have a medium and long-term plan for your life, and decide not to be easily affected by other factors, but to constantly overcome all kinds of difficulties that arise.

The most important thing is to compare yourself to yourself, and think about the situation you are in where you are now, and maybe what you were pursuing a few years ago, and then it will be worth it.

First of all, you have to set your own goals. It's not necessarily bad for you to be here, and I can see that you're quite satisfied with your current situation. If you go back, you won't necessarily have a better way out than you do now, just rely on relationships?

Now this society is not just about relationships. And, as you said, you're mixing now, and you can think you're in a new place where you don't mix? At that point, your mix won't be good.

Relatives can sometimes be much more troublesome than strangers, because there is affection between you and you owe something back and forth. As for girlfriends, you don't have to worry about it, there will always be what you should have, how can you guarantee that you will meet a good girl when you go back? It's hard to say about fate.

Isn't it?

In general, I still want to know which job you like? As long as you have confidence in yourself and can work steadily, I believe that you will definitely have gains, and you have the ability and capital, are you still worried about not finding a girlfriend? The key is yours!

It's a terrible thing for a man to be unmotivated, and as a woman, I think so, at least I don't think there's much future in marrying you. Is your current life very comfortable and has a lot of room for development? Will you be able to support your family in the future?

Measure it yourself, if you are a man, you have to be responsible and have a long-term vision.

Upstairs, what is no future, there are more men in the world who can support their own women, people call it calm, understand? Since he has raised this question here, it cannot be said that he is not self-motivated

As a man, I look down on you

As the saying goes, if you are riding a horse to find a horse, you can take time to see the job, and if you can, take a sick leave to go back and find out about the situation

After the comparison、I don't think you're a fool either、

People go to high places, and water flows to low places

Girlfriend、I think、、When you do these things well、

You don't need to worry about not finding the girlfriend you're looking for

Because she'll come to you herself

If you go back and have better development, it is better to go back, and it is unlikely that you will grow from the bottom. After all, society is like that.

Then do what you want!! Go your own way and let others say go!!

There is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of those who have a heart!

Since you have listed the two choices one by one, it proves that the psychology has already been prepared, everything must be taken into account the consequences, re-reading, which is equivalent to consolidating the meeting again, and not learning again, there is nothing bad about this, but for the various pressures you said, I think you have to understand, "there is pressure to be motivated", maybe pressure will bring two sides, but, ** did not bear? Lift the pressure high and be a real giant.

People will say: if the teenager does not work hard, the boss will be sad. There is only one life, but in fact, there is only one time to learn, and how to gain a foothold in the future spine society without vigorously experiencing a struggle? Take advantage of your youth to learn more, and you have to be cruel to yourself when you are young!

Love, although it is a rare emotion in life, if both of them are academically motivated, love it is nothing, but can encourage and help each other! The opposite is ...I think as you, also very clear!

I would like to praise that the future life is colorful, first bitter and then sweet...

As for your last sentence, it was very wrong! Do your parents want you to go and live without being baptized? Having learned, succeeding, and sitting in the office, parents are truly blessed.

Your hard work is equal to the hard work of your parents. Don't think that entering the society has brought benefits to anyone, in fact, there is not...Finally, I wish you to find the direction of your life, and then you will unswervingly go on, and don't be afraid of what has not yet happened.

Step by step !!

I am the first batch of sleepy Qinqiao 3+x You still know the score before you report the volunteer, and I also talk about these bird things for the first time. We didn't know the score at that time, so we had to apply. If you don't have enough scores, it's all over. That's like you guys volunteering.

What to do, what to do.

China's biggest failure is the expansion of university enrollment. The school is all making money. College students are all of low quality. Damn, I'm half a college student, I feel ashamed, I stopped studying in college for 2 and a half years. Waste of time.