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Hello, in fact, everyone will do things according to their familiar patterns, and they will unconsciously use their past experience to live. So the girlfriend you said is always in charge of you, and then it is a little too much, making you feel that you are not free, and it is very likely that your girlfriend has been in charge of her ex-boyfriend like this before.

This is just a personal guess on my part, as it's easy to speculate. I think you should have a good talk with your girlfriend.

Either that, you're more unreliable and make your girlfriend insecure, that's why she'll do it. Either that, or your girlfriend is actually used to it.

So this is not the reason why we outsiders know, so I suggest you communicate with your girlfriend well.

If you really don't have freedom and you can't accept it, you should choose to separate, so that you can be quite comfortable alone.

In this case, you can communicate with your girlfriend and tell your girlfriend that she is also an independent individual and needs to be free.

I think you should have a good talk with your girlfriend and tell her that you should give yourself independent space, otherwise too much pressure will affect the relationship between the two of you.

This is a manifestation of your girlfriend's love for you, I just want you to share anything with her, such a girlfriend is very good.

You need to talk to your girlfriend and tell you what you think and feel, I think if she really loves you, she will naturally respect you and will agree to give you more personal time, if she still doesn't make any changes, and you still can't accept her discipline over you, then you have to choose to break up.

The first thing you have to know is that the least thing two people are together is trust, and if two people don't even have trust together, then the relationship won't go too far. Trust is the most fundamental element for two people to be together for a long time. If you don't trust your girlfriend all the time, then your girlfriend will feel that you don't love her anymore and you will be suspicious of her.

If this continues, this relationship will break down sooner or later, and on the contrary, your girlfriend doesn't trust you, so of course you will think the same way, which is understandable, human nature.

But if you're trying to control your girlfriend all the time, then I don't think it's the right way. First of all, you should understand that your girlfriend is not a child, he has the ability to think independently and has his own life. You can't just keep your girlfriend in charge of her and tell her what to do.

Because your girlfriend is also an adult, adults need to have their own independent space, which has nothing to do with the family, no doubt others. Maybe what you want to say is, then she's my girlfriend, then she must listen to me and tell me everything. That's not right, because you also need to have your own independent space, your girlfriend takes care of you every day, no matter what you do, you have to report to him, so will you be happy?

Of course you won't, so if you think about it the other way around, then your girlfriend will certainly not be happy either.

So what I want to say to you, don't care too much about your girlfriend, give him some space to think independently and live independently. In fact, sometimes give him some independent space, which is better for your feelings, because only after two people have a distance, can they feel the existence of each other more, can they feel the other party's goodness more, and how convenient they are when the other party is by their side, so they will feel that the other party is more and more important. But if you stick together all the time, you may feel that it is inconvenient for each other sooner or later, because sooner or later there will be some small frictions in life, then these small frictions are because the two of you have been staying together, if suddenly one day he will feel that if he doesn't stay with you, these frictions may be gone.

In this case, it is not good for emotional matters, so you don't need to control her, just give her some advice when appropriate.

People need their own privacy space, and people need to have their own independent living space. In fact, the same is true for boyfriends, because everyone needs to have their own quiet time to come and think calmly about their own problems, if you keep managing him, then his ability to think and solve problems will be missing. If it goes on like this, it's not good for you and for her.

So my advice to you is to leave your girlfriend alone.