I want to forget him, the crush on him. How do you have a crush on someone, how do you forget him?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-19
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Forget about him, why let yourself be so stupid and like him anymore, he doesn't have himself in his heart, keep himself busy, don't think about him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, the crush is the hardest, the so-called can't get is the best, maybe you are not as good as you imagined after being together, but if you don't want to have any regrets, then make it clear to him, if he will laugh at you as you said, then you just completely die, I don't know that the person who cherishes you has nothing to do with you, it is better to forget about each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The best way is to find a boy who loves you better than him in a short period of time, show off his power in front of him, it is best to let him see from your eyes that "this girl is not rare for you to be a rotten grass" feeling, if you can't find it, it doesn't matter, you can make a few more friends of the opposite sex in the class, look away, just like you said "why do you like him so much, so care about him", why use you as a laughing stock, you should turn it over and treat him as a laughing stock! He is not the only man in the world, there are more men who are better than him, go find your own grass, I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You ask him about his attitude first, maybe you are too sensitive to feel those bad aspects.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forget about him, it's actually quite simple.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I used to have a crush on a guy for four years without any results. It's a lie to say that you don't regret it, and the best years are wasted on crushes. Now that I'm mature, I'm older, and I know what to do.

    Girls must live with self-esteem and ignore him. The best thing to do is to forget about his existence, or find someone to replace him, not really like it, but once you think of him, you can transfer it. You live well and live happily, which is the best irony for him.

    I hope you can get out of him and live a happy life of your own.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Forget what you should forget, and let go of what doesn't belong to you in the first place.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As long as you dare to face many things, what if you like him, if you don't like him, you should forget him, tell yourself that you shouldn't think about him anymore, tell yourself that you still have friends around you to care about and contact, tell yourself not to snub your friends for him, tell yourself that you don't remember who he is anymore, tell yourself not to pay attention to him, tell yourself that you want to indulge one last time, care about him one last time, and then ask him to get out of the memories.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Actually, you don't have to think like this, from a boy's point of view, the more girls around you, the more you can show your personal ability, satisfy a kind of vanity, you can try to show a little affection for him, if he refuses, of course, you need to be observant, after all, he will not do a very good job, tell you bluntly), if you want to forget him, just leave, try to start a relationship, pay attention to your side, maybe there is a nice boy who is silently watching you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You've been liking a guy for seven years and now you want to forget about him, but you can't, so what to do? First of all, strictly speaking, you are a person who is very cautious about feelings, and likes a person for seven years, which is not an easy thing to do in the current pace of fast life. This fully shows that you are a person who is very responsible for your feelings, and you will not like others easily, but once you like it, you will not change easily, and this kind of character is rare.

    If the person you like also happens to like yourself, it is undoubtedly a happy thing for everyone, and everyone wants to see it, but the person you like doesn't like yourself, so now that a few years have passed, you want to forget that he has never been able to do it, what should you do? This question can only be answered by yourself, it is not easy to forget a person, you need to forget the previous living environment, if you want to completely forget him, then you must take the initiative to avoid him from the heart, don't always remember his good side, think more about the end of the world where there is no grass, maybe another beautiful person, a more excellent person is waiting for you in another place!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I've liked someone for 7 years, and I can't forget it if I want to, and for this situation, you should do this.

    Go out and make more friends, meet more people of the opposite sex, and understand that love is mutual, if you are too entangled, you are torturing yourself, so if you don't get entangled, you will slowly find that it will pass.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then just don't think about it, it will fade into oblivion, and the more you think about it, the more you can't let go. It's like sleeping, the more you try to fall asleep, the more you can't sleep. When you relax and your tiredness hits, you will fall asleep easily, so I advise you not to think too much, and slowly when you have a new lover, you will forget.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't know if you've ever made a relationship with him (but he refused), or if he has someone around him. Or that you can only look at him secretly in a no-man's corner...It doesn't matter, the important thing is that you're stuck in a kind of unobtainable tangle. The more you can't get it, the more you can't forget it.

    This is caught in the shadow of his creation, what to do? Get out of the shadow he has created for you. After all, there are a lot of good boys in the world.

    Then you have to say again, they can't give you feelings. So I'm going to smile, expand the reach, receive, find, and there's always the right person waiting for you in the distance. I am a professional emotional psychologist, and I am happy to continue to help you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you like him, why don't you confess to him, how do you know that you love him if you don't confess it, go and confess it to him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Never forget because you haven't faced it, you have gotten it. Why don't you ask him directly, there can be a result for good or bad, and there is a decision.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Crush on someone, is a kind of longing and unattainable helplessness, if there is some hope, will summon up the courage, to confess, because there is no hope, afraid of rejection, afraid that in the end even the humble crush on the other party can not do, so choose not to confess, so choose to bury this affection in the heart. In fact, if you want to know if someone has a crush on you, look at some of the other party's external performance, and you will know in your heart, you know, the more you have a crush on someone, the more these conspicuous signs will appear, do you understand?

    Paying too much attention to each other.

    If you don't have a favorite object in your heart, you can naturally put all your attention on your career, you can do what you like to do, and you will live a good life alone, live at ease, and there will be nothing wrong.

    When you are truly in love with a person of the opposite sex, but you dare not show this affection, you bury this feeling in your heart. However, you have a fierce affection for the other person, and you are always aware of the other person's news, so you can't help but pay attention to the other person and understand their every move.

    The more you have a crush on someone, the more you can't help but pay attention to the person you like, and often "overly" care about the other person, even if you rarely chat, however, you will know everything about the other person, because you have long remembered the other person's affairs and will not forget them for a long time.

    Obsessed with gifts or used items from the other person.

    When you are not in love with a person of the opposite sex, you can interact with each other with a generous attitude, maintain courtesy with each other, and dispose of gifts from the opposite sex at will, without being too careful.

    If the opposite sex gives you a gift, you may casually give it to someone else or give it to someone else, without paying too much attention to the meaning of the gift.

    However, when you secretly like a person of the opposite sex, you will often regard the other party as too important, you will be very attentive to the other party's affairs, often love the house and the black, treat the other party and the people around the other party, cherish the gifts given by the other party, and you can't help but be close to the other party's used items and residences, that is, the more you have a crush on someone, the more you will be obsessed with the gifts or used items given by the other party, don't be stupid and don't understand.

    There is a "halo effect" and fantasies about being with each other.

    When you get along with the opposite sex, if you are not emotional, you do not secretly like the opposite sex, when you get along with the opposite sex, you can look at each other rationally, will not exaggerate each other, will not belittle each other, you can remain rational, and at the same time, in your relationship, you can keep a good distance and take a good measure.

    On the contrary, if you secretly like a person of the opposite sex, you will regard the other person's affairs as very important, and there will often be a "halo effect", you will focus on the other person's strengths, and always feel that the other person is the best.

    At the same time, you will repeatedly imagine the situation when you are with the other person, you will look forward to the future, you hope that the other party can have a good impression of you and be able to take the initiative with you, however, you will be afraid that the other party will not be optimistic about you, you are afraid of being rejected, and you are afraid that the other party will see through your mind and be alienated from you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Set learning goals for yourself, constantly work hard towards the goal, read various extracurricular books, or set a goal to surpass, as long as you surpass the other party, you can relax, so it is easy to forget a person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Now that you are in the period of studying, you have a crush on him, which means that he is very good, and you secretly like him. But knowing that he has a girlfriend, you and him can't be in love. I hope your love for her will become the motivation to learn.

    I am determined to be the first in the exam this semester, and if I study hard, I will forget him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you really like him, you can confess to him, but now medicine will also be important, it is better to confess your thoughts, put your mind to study, the two of you can work together to encourage each other, so that you will plan for the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The throbbing of the mind makes you unable to forget him, don't control yourself from thinking about it deliberately, respect your inner thoughts, think about it, you should not think about it, if you always remind yourself not to think about him, then you can only think more and more.

    If you don't believe it, you can try, control yourself not to think about a big white bear in your mind, control yourself not to think, you will feel that the more you control, the clearer his outline will be. Right.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Glad for your question.

    Calm yourself down first and don't get carried away by love. Ask yourself why you like him, if you really like him, and if you like him very much, you can become friends with him first and get to know him up close. Don't rush, take it step by step, everything is possible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you want to forget the other person, the best way is to start your new life, or have a person you like, as long as you like this person, you will directly forget the other person, this is the main way to forget.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you want to forget someone, it's easy to do things desperately. Keep yourself busy and you won't think about it. For example, if your main focus now is to study, then study hard.

    In your spare time, you can read a book or go for a run. Then you will slowly forget about it, even who he is. If you want to forget, you will naturally forget.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's hard for me to forget my first love, but as time goes by, you'll gradually restrain yourself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Replace him with a new, better one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe he likes you too.

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