8 An ugly thing about my mother s family that left me speechless!

I am Jinnan District, Tianjin, our side is what you said, male: room, decoration, electrical appliances, but the bride price is generally 100,000 yuan (this money for the woman to bring back, so the two of them have 100,000 yuan when they get married), the women's delivery vehicle (generally Xiali), in the male to buy a gold chain of about 10,000, the woman to bring money is sure how much to bring 30,000 or 40,000 looks, so in the end, the man is more on the house, your situation is not a woman has a bad family conditions, is not her family and younger siblings to save money, In fact, money is not important, the key is your girlfriend's character is the most important, don't think about anything else, get married with peace of mind!

You are too stingy to speak as a man, what is it called buying a daughter-in-law, you can pull the marriage to the word "buy". It is a Chinese custom to give a bride price, but it also depends on the conditions of the woman, and it is normal for people to wait for your bride price to hire their daughter.

As long as your wife can live with you until you are old, you will earn it (a lifetime of happiness, it is hard to buy a thousand dollars.)

I wish you happiness and happiness, don't mention money, don't have money, you can have it. After marriage, I wish you to have your own little treasury o( o haha

First of all, congratulations, I don't think it's a big problem, it depends on what the girl thinks, and it depends on whether you still want to cherish her, don't measure it by money, and then look at whether the girl values your family's money, it's as simple as that.

I think the Chinese custom is disgusting.

Why do you need to pay for marriage and the man and the woman pay.

After getting married, isn't it a family?

Why divide yours and mine.

Interesting? I think if you fall in love, you can negotiate.

You can decide on wedding expenses and other expenses according to your financial situation.

I got a used TV, a few plastic buckets and face plates, a few quilts, and nothing else, it doesn't matter, why do you want to do so much, create it yourself, rest assured that you use it, comfortable!

First of all, the landlord has admitted that he is"Buy a daughter-in-law", then this wedding is just a business relationship.

The customs are different in each place, and they are not expensive on our side.

If I were your wife, I wouldn't marry it directly.

I think this can be discussed by yourself, even if there is something to say in each place, but if the other party's family does not have so much money to give, can it be said that the marriage will not be concluded? In fact, if you get married, you are a family, and you don't need to be so clear, anyway, the parents of both families give how much you give is your husband and wife. The juniors should also think about the juniors, and take as much as they can.

They all said that they were buying a daughter-in-law, and they were counting on buying one and getting one free.

Don't worry, landlord....Hehe, congratulations to the landlord first....How can I say it, my average woman's dowry is relatively thick...The system is based on what you said about the wedding car, and it is ...... separatelyIf you really love her, just put up with it, there are things that money can't change, and your generosity this time may make your wife feel that you are a real man、...Wish.

Bring your parents over for a day of play, and they should all be gone, if they want to save face.

Why should I stay with you, and is there any reason for that?

Do you love him? I think you should think twice about not being ... Carried away.

A piece of advice to you, don't be with her. She has a family, don't tell me she doesn't have a good life in her current family, she is tired of this life. You should go out for a walk, maybe you can get rid of this kind of thing!

Love has a bottom line, don't be blinded by this kind of indiscriminate peach blossoms, why not talk about a normal love? If your aunt is divorced and you have been in love for a long time, it's a different story. Lost little flower duck, your love will come knocking on the door.

Are you married? If you are married, please cherish your current life, and if you are not married, please go and find your own happiness!

They are married.

Then you'd better not provoke.

Not the slightest good for you.

Be smart.

If you want to have a daughter-in-law, don't mess with her, and if you don't have a daughter-in-law, don't be afraid of your husband beating you.

It's like you have feelings for her, and you don't feel like you care about what she does.

Are you willing to be a junior boy???

Of course not.

Look at your family, what it's like.

I don't care about you.

You just go back, and he'll be dumbfounded when you go.

I have a little ambition to learn, and I will go back when I go back, and I won't go back to my mother's house

Ignore him, go out and play by yourself, and come back early.

Ignore him, take his salary card and go shopping, and then go back when he is angry.

You remember! Whoever comes to me again is the grandson!

I think you still have to come back, because if the child's father finds another one, it will be troublesome, the child is still so young, even if she beats her and scolds her, she doesn't know, and the child's father must also go to work and can't watch the child every day, isn't the child dangerous, the child follows you, even if you find another one, you will definitely have to take care of the child, so the stepfather will not treat the child well, you should have seen the news, how many children have been abused by the stepmother and even died, not that you can't find a good man with the child, Can you guarantee that you can find a good person without children, when you were looking for a husband with you and didn't have children, you also found such a man, if a good man doesn't have children or not, he will love you and your children, if you are not a good man, even if you don't have children and never married, then he will not be good to you, think about it yourself.

It is best not to leave, communicate more, resolve conflicts, and reach reconciliation.

If you want to leave, you can't take children, otherwise it will be difficult to remarry, especially with a girl.

Not all Chinese men are like this, there are too many concerns that limit your thinking. Your husband should also be responsible for raising his daughter together.

Give me your daughter, right? I am unmarried, and it is difficult to find a Chinese daughter-in-law now, so give me your daughter, and I will raise her as my own daughter.

The divorced child should be brought to you because the child is still breastfeeding.

The question is do you want a divorce? It is better for the child to be given to the parent who is in a position to take care of her.

There are too many men in Gansu, and there are men who want them when you take your children.

Inseparable is temporary, don't worry about waiting for the child to be older before leaving,

Break up with him, there are many good men in the world.

It's okay! This is a problem with the husband's personality, so let you have more responsibility!

Communicate more with him, communicate more with his mother's family, and have something to do.

Family, why do you want to do this.

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