A girlfriend who makes me happy and makes me sad

In fact, you can tell her that the past is in the past, but you have to walk into the future hand in hand, and you have to look forward; The past can only be a memory, you can allow her to treasure, but don't always compare the past with the present, if so, then the future of both of you will be very tired.

Also, since you've broken up, it's best not to contact again, this requires you to do your homework; This is not to say that men are not stingy, the main thing is that it is easy to have problems, and women have always been irrational, not that there is no rationality at all, but that they are relatively much smaller than men;

From your analysis, I can feel that your one she has not completely given up on her previous feelings; Personally, I feel that fish and bear's paws are really incompatible, especially emotionally; There aren't many suggestions for you here, just that you should be careful and calm down at this time;

Let me tell you a little bit! Actually, I don't know much about it!

In fact, it is difficult to say about the relationship between men and women!

There are some things that you can't do with hard work!

Some really depend on fate!

Your girlfriend's situation is complicated!

After all, she has been in a relationship with her ex-friend for so long!

You'd better talk to her about these things!

Maybe it's the man's return to the carbine, and I don't know!

It's hard to say about feelings!

Weigh it yourself!

Others just gave some advice!

Good luck!

Talk to her more!

Coax her more! Spend more time with you!

Is your girlfriend **? Is it from Hunan? If yes, then tell her that her ex-boyfriend is not a thing at all!! Tell her to stop paying attention to him!!

No one else can say this question, only let him think about it clearly and think about it himself, after all, it is a process of growing up

If you love her, cherish her, and if you don't, give up early.

Love needs to stand the test, it needs to stand the wind and rain, love needs courage, it needs to be confessed, love needs to be cultivated slowly, it needs to be understood, it is just a process of love. Happiness still has to be fought for by yourself, and there is a share of fate! Grasp it well and cherish it!

Grow slowly through the experience, bless you!

It's not that the marriage with the house as an introduction will not be happy, regardless of the antecedents, it is a kind of fate for two people to be together, and whether they get married or not depends on whether they are suitable or not, it depends on the feelings of the two.

First of all, it's understandable that you think you're a backup, at least I feel the same way after reading your description, but people have to be restrained, they all say that impulse is the devil, the two can sit down and talk about it, you have to hope to get her true thoughts from the bottom of your heart, understand her, and express your views to her, you must speak calmly, rationally and in a context (provided that you have the will that the two can form a family in the future). If you don't handle this matter well, you will have a pimple in your heart in your married life in the future.

Secondly, I think that in reality, people live for themselves, and they will more or less take care of the people close to them, and don't feel sorry for others and lose their own happiness in their lives, and earn their own happiness. It is very painful if there is domestic (cold) violence in married life. I also wondered about the miscarriage, I didn't understand it very clearly, you said that you were sorry that she had a miscarriage for you, and then asked why she had a miscarriage.

And then the house problem, I think maybe your girlfriend is more in pursuit of material life, but also she wants to leave a bottom for the future life, investment is risky, at least the house in hand, will not worry about nowhere to go in the future, so that the heart of having a child will be stable, most women seek a solid life.

Finally, I must state that this is just my personal opinion, it is always impossible to be exhaustive, and it will be difficult to achieve it in reality, you can only use it as a little opinion given to you by others, you have to analyze it yourself, make your own conclusions, it is best to communicate more with your parents, find the elders in the family, who are older, see a lot of things, have an open heart, and will think about others, and let them give you some guidance and take the right path.

No, there are many good women.

I... Alas, seriously, I can't tell me, it's just... Uh,I think.,You still try to love.,Although love can't be forced.,Standby.。。。 That's what it means.