A girl can t calculate others at first, and since she was hurt by others, she has become calculating

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
63 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A girl doesn't know how to calculate others at first, which means that this girl is very kind, but this society is very complicated, sometimes too kind, you become a fool, others will laugh at you behind your back, work in the same unit, some people are not willing to do heavy work, they will be in front of the leader, some people are unknown, always working on their own, but this will not please the leader, the person who slaps the horse, shows himself everywhere, and always thinks about how to calculate others when he doesn't work? You didn't think that there was anyone who was much more stupid than whom, you could calculate others once, and who could make you calculate a second time? Conduct things for people.

    It won't be a few days before people see who you really are. So I think it's still down-to-earth, one step at a time, people who work hard can stand, we should not count others, but we can't let others calculate themselves.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is normal, after experiencing many times of crawling and suffering, I have also grown up and learned that people need to grow. But as long as you do things worthy of your conscience.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It shows that this girl is very simple at the beginning, but when she enters the society, she will change after suffering a loss, and this girl has become treacherous.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I can only say that everyone will grow, and then in fact, everyone changes, because he was actually very good at the beginning, but that back is hurt by others, and then of course it wants the blood elves to learn to be smart, and they don't want to be hurt by others, so our class has to learn to be smart, so it's normal to keep saying this.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone will grow up, but they can't all be calculated, some people will double the grievances they have suffered, but some people are trying to protect themselves from being easily calculated, and they are smart and finally used by others with guns.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It can't be said that you can calculate, you can only say that you have grown, and you will protect yourself when you become mature.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's how much people hurt, so there's experience. will calculate others. In the way of others, return the body of others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Experience teaches. This is the philosophy of life, if the same thing is hurt by others again, then there is a problem with the IQ of the earth, and everyone is smart. There will be no second time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A girl can't be called calculating, she has been hurt by someone and she has become protective of herself,

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That's right, eat a trench and grow wise, but the calculation also scores people, can't be anyone's calculation, honest people can't bully, that's too lacking in morality.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some people don't calculate others for the rest of their lives. Some people start out with no chance or no one to calculate. As soon as there is a chance it will change ...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People have to go through the tempering given by life, and only when they are honed will they grow, as for what they will look like, it depends on the person's heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil, be kind to others, treat and tolerate others, recommend the book "The Four Teachings of Fan", you can learn it, Nan no Maitreya Bodhisattva.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Emotional attachment makes us intimately connected to other lives. Those who claim to have nothing to care about are actually the saddest, they live a light and empty life. Compromising with mediocrity is often done unconsciously.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's normal for people to change slowly with their environment.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    People always have to grow, whether you want to or not.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It may be that this girl has changed her mentality after being hurt by others.

    Inside, I want to balance myself in this way, so it's mainly a matter of mentality.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A girl can't calculate others at the beginning, but since she was hurt by others, she has become calculating, the so-called eating a trench and growing wise, which shows that he is constantly growing.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Maybe I've been exposed to it since I was a child, so I'll change it slowly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A girl can't calculate others at first, but she becomes calculating after being calculated by others, and that's because she has learned a lesson and knows how to protect herself.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Everyone grows, and no one is a fool.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    How can we say a woman who can calculate?

    If he doesn't know how to calculate with you, maybe you still feel some comfort in your heart.

    But she calculates others if too much.

    What others think of her, then you also have to bear the way others treat you.

    I don't know if you will bear this kind of perception of people at that time.

    What's more, you can be sure that her feelings for you are genuine and will not be calculated against you.

    Today's women, especially those who can calculate, generally don't have true feelings.

    But if a woman who can calculate, if she only calculates emotionally, it doesn't matter, because after she gets you, there will be no more calculations.

    In any case, it depends on whether you are reluctant to give up on her, and the power of love is often greater than everything.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Make yourself more calculating than she is.

    If the other person is pretty, don't be fooled by appearances.

    The other side made a sugar-coated cannonball.

    Eat the icing and return the shells.

    It's nothing to like someone who is smarter than yourself.

    I'm afraid that I like to calculate more than myself, and you don't even know if you're deceived.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    The best way to deal with someone you like is to surrender as soon as possible. Blindly be good to him, let him believe in you, rely on you, it's good, love is not a kind of conquest many times, it is more about the other party consciously and voluntarily put you in his heart or even as a part of himself, after getting this result, what is he still calculating with himself?

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Divine love, to love a person is to embrace everything about her. Loved everything about her.

    Buddhist love guides her back to the right path.

    Worldly love really can't go on, so I let it go.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Slowly use examples to influence her, and if she loves you, she will find her own shortcomings.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then she's not a good person, you shouldn't like her.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Ditto! Well, it's up to you, do you have the ability to influence him?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No one should look good, male or female.

    This girl shows that she looks simple and ordinary, but in fact, the city government is very deep and scheming, and ordinary people really can't handle her. She should be well-liked, otherwise it would be difficult to use everyone's relationship and trust to dig holes for you everywhere.

    On the contrary, you may have an average relationship, otherwise you would not be calculated by such a little girl. If you have a good relationship, others will be on your side, and you will unite to expose her machinations and expose her hypocrisy. But the reality is not, because your relationship may not be as good as her, everyone is willing to believe her, not you, you have to think about your personality and character.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A girl with a lot of scheming and high emotional intelligence. But if she were such a person, would she still have friends? Suffering or taking advantage of the advantage must be seen dialectically, if she is really like you said, why will everyone think she is right!

    Besides, there is no one who can not be offended, there is always a disagreement between people's three views, will she have good friends if she is so tactful? Then I will be very tired in my heart, always wearing a mask to be a person, thinking hard enough, I don't like such a person.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You said that targeting her can be understood as an attack on that "simple girl", right? If that's the case, it's normal to receive that simple girl countermeasures, why attack people for no reason, as the so-called people don't offend me, I don't offend people, this girl is very smart and low-key (ordinary is low-key), angrily praise this girl.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Green tea, our mother, of, very scheming, not easy to deal with, let's mess less, the farther away the better. You can also learn her ability to meet left and right, take the essence of it and remove its dross, we don't hurt people, but someone comes to harm us, we at least have a way to deal with it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    A girl is easy to be deceived and calculated.

    You can improve yourself, learn more, think more, and talk less.

    Or find a strong boyfriend.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The girl who is easy to be deceived is a very simple girl, and if she is calculated, she will be calculated according to the situation, if the problem is big, call the police, and if the problem is not big, be careful in the future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Use your mobile phone to watch more news and increase your life knowledge, and you will be more mature and able to identify all kinds of **.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then you have to learn to be surprised, grow wise, learn to look at the problem from the side, and know from the front...

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Society is the rivers and lakes, if you are too simple, you will be deceived, make more friends and go out more!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's good to find a way to make ** suffer.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think I should still improve my ability to deal with people and things from all walks of life, and improve myself.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you are deceived a few times, you will have a long memory.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    The brain is relatively simple, the social experience is insufficient, the knowledge is not concerned, the understanding is too little, read more books, enrich yourself, enrich yourself.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Be more open-minded, and don't trust others too much and talk less.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Don't be too simple, too simple

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Suffer a loss once, don't make it next time.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Become stronger, smarter, and more confident.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Think about the why, and what someone else would do.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Look at this face is a person who loves to calculate people, no matter what he looks like and what his body is, you feel a little tired in your relationship, then it's best to stay away from him, if you still want to continue dating, then you have to treat me in a heartfelt way, I don't know why you still have to stick to it, a girlfriend can be found at any time, and everywhere it doesn't mean that you can't find a girlfriend, you have to hang yourself on a tree, since you don't feel like it's right for you, then don't continue to pay so much, Will there be a catch in the end?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    To put it mildly, this girl is stingy from the face, giving the impression that she loves to care about it, so that the girl may be a good hand in life, but it may not be handled properly in other aspects. If you have a different personality from him, there will inevitably be conflicts in the future.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    A wise woman is better than a stupid woman, and for the sake of future generations, please think carefully.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If you approve of her and accept her, continue to dating, otherwise you can break up.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    In the course of the relationship. She loves to calculate people. There may be some things that you are thinking too much.

    Girl. He'll be spoiled. Some things can also be overthinking.

    You talk to him a lot. See if it's this? The one you said.

    Love to calculate others. Maybe it's just that she likes to joke. It gives the impression that a girl may be a good hand at living, but it will not necessarily handle it well in other ways.

    If you have a different personality from him, there will inevitably be conflicts in the future.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Calculators, some girls are not reliable, you have to pay attention.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Scheming, calculating, indicating that this girl is smart and clever, and will suffer less when she enters the society in the future, if she still has a clever mouth, she will be very open in the future, whether it is work or others, and she will be very good at handling things He is a person with eight faces, a smart and clever person, and he will definitely do something in the future, but he is smart and eloquent to see what he is used in, and he will be retributed sooner or later.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    A good start is half the success, you have worked for a long time, you will find these problems, then you must be cautious, do not force yourself.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    I don't think such a girl can continue to date. Look at that person, the girl is not really dating you. Such a person, he will hurt your feelings. Trick your money. You can't give a true relationship to a girl like that. Otherwise, he will harm you.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    A calculating girlfriend is not to be socied with. After getting married, he was always picky and willful. You'd better pick a good girl. Life can be happy.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Today's society is an era of mutual use and mutual trust, you can have a girlfriend who has scheming, because she is afraid of being hurt and does not get your help, so you have to be nice to her in the future, because how you treat her will do to you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    For this kind of girl who found her very scheming and calculating at the beginning of the relationship, the consequences are unimaginable after a long time, separate from her as soon as possible, be careful of being deceived by her, choose the object or choose a girl who is kind and sincere, appearance is not the most important.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Between people, whether it is a colleague, or a boyfriend or girlfriend, sincerity is the premise. There is a mind, but not a scheming. People are not as good as heaven, and it is themselves who are ultimately calculated.

    Although the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend is a little special, a person in a good disguise, lies have been exposed one day, scheming girl, it is better to leave, the country is easy to change its nature is difficult to change. Don't follow the right path in life and work.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    The aesthetics of people are different from each other, and there is something in the eyes of lovers. I think the woman on the left is better-looking. If it is not important to find a partner, the important thing is the beauty of the soul, whether there is filial piety or not, whether you can live with you wholeheartedly, this is the most important thing in a person's life.

    You are looking for a beautiful woman, look: good-looking, if I don't have a good time with you, what will I do? The treasure of the ugly woman's house near the ground.

    It's not that if you look beautiful, you can't keep it. You have to see what you're capable of.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Both parties in love should be honest with each other in order to go further, people who love to calculate others are a bit selfish, and after a while, if she is indeed that kind of person, you have to reconsider whether to make such a girl or not.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    People should be sincere when they get along with others, after all, boyfriends and girlfriends will have to live a lifetime in the future, and they will be very tired if they calculate everywhere. Now that you know it's not too late, it's better to leave early to avoid big losses in the future.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    Looking at the face of this girl in **, I feel that she is not simple! Like you said, a calculating girl! There's a saying in China: "Born from the heart!" Thank you!

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