I ve always felt lonely inexplicably lately.,Why do I often feel particularly lonely.。。

Oh, that's right, it's because of boredom that loneliness, when you're bored, you will have a lot of feelings, helplessness, loneliness, loneliness, helplessness.

But you have to find the joy of life, you have to know how to enjoy life, you can be alone, you can also live a lot of fun, the key depends on how you live.

Sitting in front of the computer, working hard, struggling, the front is bright, tired, just play casual games, chat with others, drink some Coke. 7-Up, Sprite, and other drinks, at night, look at the night sky, and relax your mood. Don't let that loneliness come out of boredom, you have to put it behind and have fun!!

If a person is happy all his life, no matter what he does, then he is a great person!

Loneliness eats away at people's hearts.

It comes unconsciously.

It's going to slip away before you know it.

When you come, you won't leave easily.

What matters is how you get along with it.

Think of it as a part of your life.

Get along well and wait until it wants to go, and then it will naturally go.

You don't get along with it.

You're the one who hurts.

Origins and origins will fall.

Good party, good dispersal.

I think it should be boring and ghostly, in fact, it's normal to be bored, you just listen to it.

It's because dependence leads to loneliness, you rely on external people, things, activities, etc., and you feel lonely when these things are not there. Loneliness can be escaped through the things you rely on, such as dreams, goals, careers, work, study, art are good choices, and the rest are listening, watching TV, playing on the computer, social entertainment, followed by smoking, alcoholism, drug abuse, addiction, and so on. Throw yourself into life, forget about yourself, that's all.

What's wrong, I'm still longing for solitude.

Just because you have more friends doesn't mean you have friends who can confide in your heart, friends who can say everything, and friends who can help each other. Then, if you don't have such friends, life will inevitably feel very lonely, because there is nowhere to say the words in your heart, and you can't vent your feelings.

Life is like a person who drinks water and knows himself only when he is cold and warm. Some words, some things may only rot in the stomach and cannot be told to others, but these things will always exist and will always affect your mood and life. Gradually, these things that are suppressed in the heart take root and sprout, and people will become more and more lonely, more and more lonely and depressed.

Learn to enjoy loneliness, I often feel that there is no opponent around me, I feel very lonely. I learned the comings and goings of friends, and the merger and the merger. This may be life. It's hard to find a confidant.

Reality is not what you like, so you will run away, but it is precisely your heart that is closed to you, and you can't find the inner world, you are closed in reality and the cavity of your heart, so you will be lonely, you will be depressed, you will have a lot of distractions, if you don't like reality, then you will try to open that door in your heart.

There is always a time when people copy from time to time.

It's normal. Some people learn to enjoy solitude, while many more learn to fit in. You can try both, read more books by yourself, read philosophy if you have nothing to do, learn to think about some philosophical questions on your own, loneliness is actually not bad, it will give you more time to think and study.

So as to become unique and excellent. If not, you can't enjoy it, then you try to blend in with the crowd, lower your requirements for friends, make some fox friends and dog friends, and it doesn't hurt to drink and meat friends, get to know more people, and you will always meet someone with similar ideas and interests, so as to expel your loneliness. In short, it is to keep yourself busy, once people are busy, they will not be so hypocritical, and they will not feel lonely...

I think loneliness is given by oneself.

People who are not firm in their beliefs will be cranky and too indecisive.

There is no optimistic mindset and always wants to rely on others.

No hobbies, no goals.

Don't talk, don't communicate.

Close yourself off and deny others.

All in all, in a word.

If you have nothing to do, you will be alone.

Less abundant amateur life causes.

It's not just you, everyone feels that way.

It takes someone to listen to your inner voice.

We can find an explanation for loneliness is that it is a complete state, the lonely person is a world of his own, a self-contained system, not only manifested in a depressed mood, feeling empty or regretful, loneliness is a state, in the spiritual world of the lonely, they have a free soul, a high degree of thought, busy during the day and alone in the night to face the mind, the quiet loner is always alone, no matter what kind of situation they are, they can find their own fun. In a society with a rapid flow of information, people rarely communicate directly and become lonely individuals.

Human beings are social animals, we live under the same blue sky, in the same society, communication is essential, but nowadays people are suffering from the pressure of life every day, the surface seems to be alive, but in the psychological world only exist themselves. Why do we want someone to be with you when we are scared or nervous? Because someone is talking next to you, your nervous nerves will be reduced, your psychological fear will be reduced, and the symptoms of loneliness will be reduced.

So, why do people nowadays always think that they are lonely? Kierkegaard, the father of existentialism, said that every human being is a lonely individual, who is born unique and irreplaceable. Throughout one's life, everyone is experiencing all kinds of pain and tribulation in life anytime and anywhere, making human beings aware of their own uncertainty and finitude, vulnerability, and from"Death"to realize the ultimate tragic end of human beings.

In the society of the fast era, people will always feel that they have no sense of existence, as long as they feel that they are not loved, they will produce psychological emotions such as frustration, despair, heartache, anger, hatred, etc., step by step emotions are superimposed, and people even make harmful behaviors in the end. After encountering such emotions, people will enter into the belief that they have too high moral standards, which is manifested in excessive repression, excessive humility, excessive flattery, and desperate efforts to weaken their individuality.

With a strong sense of loneliness, we cannot let it erode our ontological mind like this, but must find a solution from ourselves.

First of all, we need to recognize the main body of the self, the self is an emotionally driven energy**, understand what we like, what we are interested in, if there is none, find something from the side and take it as your hobby. The second thing we want to do is to preemptively inject positive emotions into the depths of your heart as a benchmark for emotional triggers. Finally, we need to learn to dissipate negative energy charges, to understand others, to respect others, and to have compassion for others.

In fact, lonely patients will always huddle together for warmth, but everyone's psychological tolerance is different, there will always be someone who jumps out of this circle first, and then the last person will be completely abandoned. Therefore, if we want to overcome loneliness, we cannot choose to give up ourselves in order to cater to the collective, and it is most undesirable to get rid of loneliness in this way, because in the end, we make too many choices and have no choice. Only choose the right one, choose only the right one, so as to find your own group.

Give your soul a vacation. If you can't be independent and quiet, you can't know what you really need, and you often feel lonely because you have no hobbies.

Adjust your mood, go for a walk, make more friends, communicate with people, integrate into the team, and don't be alone.