Do you pay your child when he does the housework?

Updated on parenting 2024-04-26
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No. Although it is a good thing to get paid for labor, but doing housework at home is also an obligation, you can't instill this inappropriate view of money in your child, it is a right to get paid for labor, but doing housework at home is an obligation, if the child has been getting the corresponding remuneration for doing housework by himself, then one day the child will not be willing to do housework anymore if there is no pay, just imagine, if one day the parents are old, there is no money, the child grows up, but his concept is that without money, you can't be filial to your parents, It's scary to think about.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    When the child is doing housework, I will not pay the salary paid to the child, because let him know that he has to do his own things, and the family belongs to our common affairs, so he has the right to do things, and I can't pay him a salary and let him develop bad habits.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    My children will never be paid when they do housework.

    There is also a housework is also a kind of exercise, because after the child becomes a family, it is also necessary to do housework, at this time they should be allowed to exercise, and the child is a separate family for the parents, I am also the first child every day, should not play for himself all day long, should share some things for the parents, this is a good and well-behaved child.

    I feel like it's good to let my kids exercise.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I will never pay my child a salary, he will not pay it, and I will tell him that doing housework is the responsibility and obligation of every family member, and there is no salary problem. If he still insists on a salary, I'll ask him:

    I gave birth to him, raised him, washed and cooked for him every day, and sent him to and from school, did he have to pay me a salary? For children, we must establish the correct three views for him from an early age.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If my child helps me with housework, I will not pay my child's salary, because if the child has the ability, he will help me complete some housework within his ability, I think this is what he should do, if he wants to learn to grow, he should start from small things, start from the little things around him, and help parents do some housework, which is also normal.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Have you ever seen a big ear Tutu? I remember that there was an episode that was played like this, in order to let Tutu develop a good habit of hard work, Tutu's mother educated the child by brushing the bowl for 1 yuan, sweeping the floor for 5 cents, and beating the back of his mother and father for 1 yuan, but in the end, when the child's piggy bank was full, he thought he was rich, and then he didn't want to do anything. Later, there was no way, Tutu's mother wanted to pay attention, no matter what Tutu was going to do, she needed to pay her own money, such as washing fruits, dressing, cooking, etc., and later when Tutu knew that life was not easy, she gradually understood her mother's hard work.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, because as a member of this family, this is the obligation that the child should fulfill, and helping his parents share the housework is also an exercise for himself, which can make him develop a good habit of hard work, if he even has to pay a salary for cleaning, then over time the child will feel that it is taken for granted, and will feel that the housework should have been done by the parents, which is not right.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't pay my children when they do housework. The child's education should be grasped from an early age, he lives in this family, and he is unconditionally supported when he is young, but as a member of the family, she is responsible for housework. If everyone in the family needs to pay a salary for housework, then who will pay this salary?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When the child does housework, I will not pay the child's salary, let him know the meaning of the family from an early age, the child is also a part of the family, let him understand that in the family, he has the responsibility to do housework, so that he can also cultivate his sense of responsibility in the family when he grows up.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't give my kids pocket money for housework. Because I want them to know that doing housework is an obligation, not a job. Children can effectively exercise their own abilities when doing housework, and it is also really helpful for their future growth.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't pay my children because I don't have anyone to pay me for housework, this home is a place where everyone lives together, and everyone has the obligation to keep the house tidy, why do you have to pay him for housework? In this way, the child will become a special philistine, will he have to pay for housework when he grows up in the future, and if he doesn't give money, he won't do it?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I will reward him in disguise, because the child should cultivate the habit of doing it by himself from an early age, and he can't grow up to know nothing and do nothing, exercise their ability to do it himself, and let the child know from an early age that it is not easy to make money and cannot spend money indiscriminately.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents should give their children some rewards appropriately and consider giving their children some money appropriately. The process of each reward needs to be considered according to the age of the child, if the child is in primary school, it is not suitable for parents to give their children too much pocket money.

    The child can be rewarded with a dollar for each chore, and the child can save all the money from the reward. Cultivating children's financial management behaviors from an early age will also be of great help to children's future growth. <>

    In today's life, some parents will also urge their children to develop the habit of doing housework from an early age, in order to cultivate their children's hands-on ability. Once many children have completed all their homework, they like to watch TV and play with their mobile phones in the future, because parents consider that children often do such behaviors, which does not help them in learning. It will also lead to the phenomenon of children addicted to playing with mobile phones, in order for children to experience the hard work of adults, it is necessary for children to help adults do housework appropriately.

    When the child does housework every time, the parent should not ask the child for a reward, but wait until the child asks for a reward, and the parent should ask the child what he wants to do if he asks for money. If the child talks directly about himself, he just wants to save some money. In the future, when the child grows up, the child will no longer have to ask his parents for pocket money, which is beneficial to the child, and the parents should also support the child's ideas.

    When the child does housework every time, parents can give the child a reward of 1 2 yuan. If parents give too much money, it is easy to cause children to spend money lavishly, because once the child has money, and then sees other classmates always buying all kinds of snacks to eat in school, the child will want to spend at will as long as he has money. Parents should let their children have a correct understanding of the concept of money, so that children can understand the hard work of parents to earn money, and it is not easy for children to earn money.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is no need to give money. Children should do housework, parents should not be pampered, must let the child have a sense of responsibility, you can properly reward the child with a book, you can reward the child violin, you can give some physical rewards.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't give money, parents can give their children physical rewards, buy books for children and buy toys for children, if you give money, it will make children develop incorrect values, will make children pay special attention to money, is not conducive to the healthy growth of children.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think that parents can give money to their children to do housework, because it can motivate children to do housework; The most reasonable way to give money to your child is to give your child pocket money, or let your child buy some school supplies.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Regarding whether children are paid for housework, each family's approach is different, and each has its own reason, in fact, there is no right or wrong, and it is right to suit the specific situation of your own family.

    When my son was in elementary school, he also mentioned to me the issue of his remuneration for housework, saying that many of their classmates were paid for housework.

    I told my son that he should be paid for doing things. But I want to ask you a question, should I get paid for doing housework? If so, who will pay me? The son thought about it and said that you are an adult.

    I said, yes, I'm an adult, you're a child, but we're all part of the family, are we all responsible for the family? He said, "Both." Then why can't I be paid, you should be paid for what you do?

    He said, "I'm a kid, and there are some things I won't do." I said, yes, you're a kid, you can only do what you can do, what you won't do, give you money, you still won't do it. I'm an adult, and I can do a lot of things that you won't do, but should we all do what we can?

    He said yes, I should do housework, and I shouldn't ask my parents for money.

    I say, remember, it's right to be paid for your own labor, but not everything has to be paid. Before you work, you need to use money, as long as it is reasonable, I will and should give you money, you can ask me directly. After you work, you can't ask me for money anymore, because then it's your business to earn money.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    1. A bonus is money used as a reward, and in the final analysis, it is money. Labor is the most glorious, if it is only for money, if you don't give money, wouldn't you not do housework? Giving money to do housework will make the child more utilitarian and mislead the child's values!

    Voluntary labor should be proactive, and in the future, we should have a sense of social responsibility and contribute to society.

    2. Primary school students are a part of the family, and should help their parents do some housework within their ability, reduce their burden, and share the burden of their parents. My parents worked hard outside to earn money to support us, and they had to take care of us when they returned home. Do we have to ask our parents for bonuses when we do a little housework?

    Your parents have paid so much for you, do they want a penny from you? Our parents gave birth to us and raised us, and we should also help them do some housework within our ability.

    3. If we ask for a bonus for housework, then we do housework for money, not to help share the burden of our parents. Asking for a bonus for housework also goes against the original will of labor, so isn't giving a bonus for housework equivalent to parents hiring a part-time worker?

    4. Primary school students are still immature in their thinking, if they give them bonuses for housework, they will only spend money indiscriminately, it is better not to have bonuses, and let parents use these bonuses to us better than to let primary school students spend money indiscriminately.

    5. Doing housework to get a bonus will make the child raise a banquet and become the concept of paying in return, so that he will not easily help others when he grows up. We should cultivate a sense of social responsibility from an early age, take the initiative in voluntary work, and not care about material rewards for everything, but also have peace of mind.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After the child does housework, if he is paid, it will make the child think that no matter what he does, he will be paid, and it will have an impact on the child's personality and outlook on life. Parents should guide their children correctly and do housework appropriately, and they can give praise or encouragement, but they should not be paid every time they do housework.

    It is not a good idea for children to do housework and give money, which will make children mistakenly think that the family is linked to money, and will make children have such misunderstandings. Children also don't learn what teamwork is from doing housework. Children should not do housework by giving money, but let children feel that doing housework is what they should do, and cultivate children's sense of responsibility.

    In fact, many of the things family members do for each other cannot be measured by money. Letting children do housework is also to exercise the hands-on ability of Shoukong children, and to cultivate a sense of responsibility as a family member, after all, doing housework is the obligation of every family member.

    Parents should teach their children that it is not important whether they are paid or not to do housework, and that it is important to help parents reduce the pressure of life and take the initiative to share housework and training. Completing housework with children is also a kind of interaction between parents and children, education is a slow process, and parents usually have to guide their children with practical actions.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, doing housework can be praised, and giving money changes its nature, like hiring child labor. Weird.

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That's how it should be! Of course, if you find someone who is willing to help you with the housework, won't you not have to do it?