A boy who doesn t feel good suddenly becomes very good, will you be tempted?

First of all, I have to understand your two concepts:

What does it mean to not feel anything? Generally refers to the appearance or something.

2.What does it mean to be excellent? Suddenly becoming rich (powerful) or something?

Judging from the above two points, you are a complete money worshipper. An inconspicuous boy suddenly became famous and rich, so in your eyes he became"Excellent"Finish.

Hehe, if such a girl looks at me, I will never ask for it.

knows what kind of boys are the most popular, and they are definitely not the kind of honest and vicious.

Boys with high emotional intelligence usually don't show themselves too much, and when they start to contact you, you will feel that this man is not a good person.

But when he changed so casually, he was responsible, he was serious when he was doing his job, or he was actually kind to others, and the girl immediately began to change her opinion of him.

This kind of effect is by no means the effect that an honest person can do to anyone from the beginning. Because everyone feels that this kind of person is good to people for granted.

Therefore, your question, people's judgment of a person, in addition to coming from the outside world, more comes from comparison, when a person's behavior before and after is obviously contrasted, your good impression of him will naturally come, and it is inevitable to be tempted.

I don't know, it depends on the situation.

The impression at first glance is not always an accurate reflection of a person's totality, so it is not wise to use the first impression as a criterion for judging whether to continue the relationship.

Although first impressions are not ideal, if you and the other person have the opportunity to spend more time with each other, you may find the other person attractive and charismatic, or that you have something in common and complementary. In addition, people's appearance, behavior, language, etc. may also be affected by different culture, environment and other factors, so the evaluation of a person should be comprehensive and comprehensive.

Therefore, if you meet a boy or girl who you didn't have a crush on at the beginning, you might as well give yourself and the other party some more time to carefully understand each other's personality, hobbies, living habits, etc., maybe your relationship will develop differently. Of course, if you have no interest in the other person, there is no need to force yourself to try, it is a matter of personal choice and feeling.

Maybe you haven't touched it yet, but the key is the sense of resonance.

When a person is good enough, then he will definitely have a lot of admirers, so if you like a very good boy, but the other party has no feelings for you from the beginning, then you should find a way to get his attention, let's take a look at it together, when a good enough boy is liked by you, but the other party doesn't seem to mean anything to you, then what should you do?

As mentioned above, when a person is good enough, there will be many admirers, and many people agree with this sentence very much, because after a person reaches a certain height, there will be many people who also expect to reach that height, and slowly they will have some admiration for him, like people often say that if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come. To a certain extent, this also reflects that if you want to get a good person, then you need to make yourself excellent first, when you are good enough, you can get his attention, if you like him, he is already very good, then you should redouble your efforts, if you are just ordinary, he will not notice that you want to make him like you.

Then the most important thing is to get his attention, so you need to raise yourself to a certain height in a short time, if you can't do it, then you can also work hard slowly, anyway, in short, you just need to carry out a certain promotion of yourself, after you are promoted to a certain height, he will notice you, notice you will have the possibility of communication, when he finds out your existence, then you can formally pursue him, you can first tell him euphemistically, you appreciate her very much, admire her very much, Then you can ask him to study together and make progress together, if the two of you are making progress together, you find that the other person can help you, and you are happy when you study with the other person, then to a certain extent, you have succeeded most of the time, because you have both attracted his attention and helped him.

The above views are personal opinions only, and we apologize for any errors.

If you don't have a girlfriend, then be friends first, and watch him silently on the side to see if it is possible to turn the spare tire right. If he has a girlfriend, forget it and stay away from that man.

I'll take a while to make myself better, and during this time I control myself from thinking about him bothering him, and then when I'm good enough, maybe he'll like me, or I'll let him go.

I may take the initiative to pursue it, I will write him a confession letter first, and if he rejects me, I may be by his side every day.

If you like an excellent boy, what you have to do is not worry, nor hesitate, but redouble your efforts, in order to one day be a girl worthy of him, only if you are excellent will you be more confident. It's useless to be blindly humble, to make him look down on you, you can only work hard. You have to observe the character of the boys, and don't be carried away by the hot-headedness and admiration.

If the boy deliberately attracts a lot of people of the opposite sex around him, he must be strategic and concealed when observing, and indeed the boy has another purpose, you must withdraw as soon as possible and break off your feelings as soon as possible.

If the boy didn't do it on purpose, then this is your chance, so many excellent people of the opposite sex didn't succeed, which means that it's not his dish, maybe it is. Of course, it is normal to fail to confess, so many excellent people of the opposite sex have not attracted his attention, he is just a passerby of yours, take care of your mood and look for the next lover. Many times the opportunity will not wait for you to be ready, because many people are paying attention to the better things, maybe you take a nap, take a distraction, and your eyes may be empty.

So when God arranges something and meets the right person, don't hesitate, fly against the wind and work hard. Anyone you meet in this world, if you catch it, it is fate, and if you miss it, you are a passerby.

For low self-esteem, it's just that you didn't find your shining self when you grew up, because of a kind of anxiety caused by lack of self-confidence, but it doesn't affect your ability to meet love. When a person really meets someone he likes, it becomes the courage to move forward. In a lifetime, there are really few days when you can love someone purely, don't choose to escape when you have the ability to love.

I hope you can find your own happiness. You also have to think about whether you have the ability to bear the consequences of your failure to confess. Of course, many things need to be done boldly, but you have to pay attention, no matter what, you have to protect yourself, this is not selfishness, this is self-protection, it is self-love, no boy will like a girl who does not love herself, do not learn to love yourself first, how to love others.

Hopefully, you'll get your own answer.

If this guy is also interesting to you and says that he wants to have a good future with you, it means that you will definitely have results with him.

If you like it, you're together. Because you wait until you go to college for a master's degree, and you find that the good-looking ones are not in your school. The premise of being together is that you are positive.

Learn from each other and make progress with each other, the general love in junior high and high school is fruitless, although a little pessimistic, but this is true, but it doesn't mean that you can't like him, if you miss a young first love in your life, then there are regrets in this life, you have to make yourself excellent, so that even if your relationship in the future is fruitless, you will not lose too much.

I think at this time, it is still necessary to communicate and communicate with this boy in a timely manner to see if there will be any problems when the two of them get along together.

It is okay to hint at him, consciously or unconsciously, to ask him to come out and play alone, and if he does not refuse, and it is fun to go out with you, then there will be results between you.

Take the initiative to confess to this boy, if this boy agrees, there will be results, and if he doesn't agree, there will be no results.

Be bold and proactive. If you like a boy to take the initiative, you can start with a friend and slowly understand it, if he is also interested in you, he may show something, if there has been no response, you can boldly ask if you have feelings.

You can tempt him. See if he has feelings for you. If you feel it, you can have results.

You can confess to this guy. You can know if there is a result in this matter. This is the only way to get it.