Do you have to like each other? What does it mean that we like each other?

Maybe it's different from person to person, but if you don't like each other, you might break up quickly if you are together. What is the meaning of mutual affection, that is, two people like each other to be happy together, if you don't even have a relationship foundation, you will soon regret it after being together.

And I think if you haven't liked it for a long time, then it's hard to like it even if you're together, and if you've known each other for a short time, then why don't you give each other more time to see if you feel like being together again.

It's better not to be too easy to be together, I don't approve of cultivating a relationship, because I tried to be with someone I don't like but like me very much, but then I still didn't feel like breaking up, and I tried to be with someone I liked but didn't like me, and then I found out that he just broke up when he just held it and tried it.

Think about it carefully, liking is the biggest reason to be together, if it's not liking, then why are you together?

Dating doesn't have to be mutually pleasing, you can try it first, but the premise is not to hurt the other party, cultivate slowly, and reconcile if you feel inappropriate, so you won't regret it.

But you can first communicate, and then take your time, you must be sincere.

Like it first, and then slowly cultivate feelings.

If you have feelings first, don't have feelings only to find out that you don't have feelings, and it will inevitably hurt one party, which is not good. A lover will eventually become a dependent, so it is better to become a "dependent" after being "affectionate"!

No, 200 a day She also has a very good relationship with you.

Yes, you're right, so let's take it slowly.

Personally, I prefer to answer this question from two aspects, one is your physical aspect, and the other is your psychological aspect.

Why would you like someone? Why do you feel like it? From a biological point of view, it's just that your heart is beating faster and you mistakenly think that you have a crush on him, why is it speeding up today?

It's nothing more than a little more adrenaline, so it's just that love is a little more hormones in your body, and two people seem to like each other, but in fact, the hormones in the two people's bodies are secreted a little more.

Of course, if you only look at it from a physical point of view, then sweet love doesn't exist, so let's focus now on analyzing why we feel like it psychologically.

There are two kinds of love, one is to see him and feel like he wants to be in love, and the other is to see him when he wants to be in love. The biggest difference between these two:

The first is love at first sight, which is what we most often say, like it when you see it, and this kind of love is generally relatively reasonable, that is, it may be that she has taken a fancy to a certain point of the other party's better characteristics, it may be that her appearance may be his words and deeds, it may be his character, this kind of love, I personally still recommend it.

The second kind of love can't be called love, if you want to fall in love and see him again, it means that you are lonely, you just want to find someone who can accompany you, the person who can accompany you the most, is your parents, is your friend, not this so-called person you like.

Two lonely souls walking on the same path are likely to be together.

Like each other to last.

Clause.

1. Full of affection

When one person likes another person, they may not behave so naturally when they are together, and they may also talk in a slurred manner, not because they stutter, but because they are afraid that they will say something wrong during the chat, which will make the other person unhappy. When you like someone, you can hide your emotions in your heart and not say it, but your eyes can't deceive people.

When a person likes another quiet person, they often secretly pay attention to the other person and always look at each other with their spare eyes, but when the other party sees him, he will show a look of indifference. But for people who like each other, they look at each other with affectionate eyes, and others can also see through their eyes that they like each other, even if neither of them is willing to express it.

Clause.

Second, it is full of the shadows of each other

When the people they like are together, they don't want to leave each other all the time, always thinking that two people can stay together every day, never separate, and pay attention to each other's dynamics all the time, and want to know everything about each other. Because in this way, he can always appear in front of him as soon as the other party needs help, and in love, especially for boys, many people are not good at words.

But they often prove their love for each other through actions, although they don't say it, but they like each other or scum, when two people look at each other, their eyes are full of each other's shadows, and they can hardly see anything else in their eyes, because they like each other, so they take each other very seriously, if you pay attention to observation, it is easy to see from their eyes that they like each other.

Clause.

3. Trust each other

Trust is the main bridge to maintain the relationship between two people, the most basic thing when people interact with each other is trust, if there is no trust, then they are almost annoying and will not have any friends around them. Two people who like each other, it can be seen from their eyes that they trust each other very much. But in love, if two people like each other and don't take the initiative, it is also possible to miss a good relationship.

When two people are together, if they like each other, then Cong Jie must have some good habits, or behaviors, that everyone has. Some people want to say that it must be late at night, especially when they miss the other party; Looking forward to the pants Zheng Rang and the other party to meet; Habitually invest in each other, regardless of gains and losses, etc. I think that because of this, it seems to give people the impression that it is the same thing, but it is more like Hu Ju's "hunger for the other party's body".

In fact, really liking each other depends a lot on some small habit details, rather than deliberately missing someone at a certain moment. Especially in the dead of night, it's just because you're too lonely.

Whenever you want to contact the other person, even if you can't meet each other, it's especially nice to hear the other person's voice. People who sincerely like each other, the time will make the relationship between the two deeper and deeper, maybe there will be more and more words, but the tacit understanding will be relatively high. It's not like these young couples who have just been together, they are as hot as they are, they want to meet every day, and they are "hungry for each other" when they meet.

Of course, if you like someone, meeting is a good way to alleviate lovesickness.

People who like each other usually know each other on a deeper level than they know themselves. Sincerely liking the other party is not a good form of expression for the girl to have herself, but to understand each other's bits and pieces and give each other the most ideal. Love in reality is never huge, it's all simple, understand each other, understand what each other likes to eat, what they don't like to eat, what they eat will be allergies, and all kinds of growth habits.

Understand everything about each other, then adapt to each other, and finally can't leave each other, this is love in reality.

If you like each other, you will generally know that Lu will chat at night, usually go out together on weekends, and be the first to appear when the other party needs help.

If two people like each other, the disturbance will respect the knowing party, understand each other, tolerate each other, learn to consider the problem from the other party's point of view, and will be very tacitly aware of each other's eyes and actions to know what to do.

will understand each other's interests and hobbies, will surprise each other, and two people will chat for a long time and care about each other's every move.

1.Respect each other.

Before doing something, he will ask you first to see what you think, and at the same time, he will respect your opinion, and the two people have a discussion, rather than making decisions for each other, and will not make decisions for each other. Feelings are mutual, and as long as you respect each other, you can last a long time.

2.Both care about each other.

When the other party is depressed, one party is always by the other party's side, and when the other party needs you, they will appear, both people care for each other, and the two people share weal and woe together. If you love each other, you care about each other, and caring is also a way to love each other.

3.Trust each other.

No matter what you go through, you can trust that each other's love is still there, and no matter what happens between the two, you can believe that your love is worth it. Always believe and stick to your original vows, although the process of fulfilling them is a bit long, and liking is a fact, but trusting each other is more important.

4.Equal efforts for each other.

In the two-way love, each other has an equal amount of dedication and investment, no one owes anyone, no one detours and perfunctory, everyone has full devotion and sincere dedication. Only when you have each other in your heart and are willing to pay for each other can you go both ways!

5.Be tolerant of each other.

No one is perfect, and everyone will have more or less shortcomings. But in a two-way love, each other is willing to tolerate each other, even if he is not as beautiful as he imagined. And the tolerance of each other also makes their hearts closer.

Love is a matter of two people, in the world of love only to go to each other is meaningful, and only two people respect each other, both care for each other, trust each other, give each other equally, and tolerate each other to achieve the happiness of two people.

I myself experienced marriage in 16 years last year, the decoration market door quarreled loudly and started a fight, wedding shoes bought unsatisfactory in the middle of the night at the door of the store and a fight, received a variety of blessings when getting married, received the wedding ring when the payment was amazing, but basically do not bring, the days after marriage are quite comfortable, together tacitly cooperate a lot of things, tacit understanding to ten years together through various difficulties and quarrels and changes, brush up do not know how this person is old under the nose. Pre-wedding decoration, wedding photos, wine, etc., etc., that is the source of all kinds of quarrels. If you're not careful, you'll have to keep a quarrel for the rest of your life.

But that's how most people, most ordinary people, come over. Many people have passed that hurdle and got married. Some people don't get past this hurdle, and they don't make it.

The key is to run in each other's personalities, life is to accommodate each other, two people grow together and get better together. ‍‍

The three views are consistent, the goals of life are the same, even if they quarrel, they still miss each other, and they can give in to each other; Don't choose someone you don't like for material things or anything else, and you won't understand what it's like to face someone you hate every day until you actually live together.

Character is also important, once there is a major difference in the direction of development of two people, being together is torture for each other. A common language is also important, introspection is important, communication skills are also important, two people are evenly matched, and each other's families are also important.

When in love, see if two people can have similar interests, whether they can accept each other's main shortcomings, whether they can take a step back when the other party loses their minds, and whether they can rest assured of each other, these are all two-sided, if a person can not do enough, if you can determine these, you can basically enter into marriage, marriage is a long process, and knowing how to humble each other contains a deeper level of love.

The level of love between the two parties should be equal. It's a pity that some people are looking for a partner, he also loves each other, but he is born to be a person who doesn't love so much, so you love others 100 points, others love you more than anyone else, that's only 60 points, he loves you, and he doesn't love others, but he will never love him as strongly, in this case, I suggest you also slowly, whether you are the one who loves others or the one who is loved, you don't get the corresponding return or can't give the corresponding pay, It's a thing worth waiting for, you may be crushed by other people's expectations, or you may be unbalanced because you expect someone else's equivalent love.

Because I had a chef like him at home, I began to be more and more picky, and when I went to the restaurant, I always felt that it was not as delicious as what he cooked. My colleagues made an appointment to bring food from home to eat, and as soon as my lunch box was opened, it was always snatched up like crazy, and the curry beef and roasted white he made were addictive. We often imagine the future together, plan when we will achieve financial freedom, and then go freely together.

We also imagine what life would be like if we lived with each other's parents, whether our children would be boys or girls, good-looking or not, never smart, and disobedient. Of course, no love is perfect. I'll get angry because he's too busy at work and won't sleep with me for more than ten days in a row, and he'll get annoyed that I forgot to close the toilet door or didn't wash the dishes for days.

When the financial situation is very bad, both of us are very stressed, disappointed and doubtful, and we will also think about our current life, whether our current partner is what we really want. But these are all part of our lives, as are those happy memories, and they are an integral part of our lives. And every time we come out of the negative emotions, our hands are held firmer. ‍‍