Troubles What should I do if I have a good male friend and I like a guy at the same time?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You don't have to ask her so directly, you have to talk about unimportant issues first! Then slowly talk about the topic, for example: ask her how she works.

    If he's willing to say it's okay. But if you don't want to talk about it, then you have to talk to him more, when people are unhappy, they need care and support the most!

    He wouldn't have been so excited! You care about it, even if you say something wrong, he will understand, because you are better, so everyone's character is clear.

    If you feel that what you say is not good! Then text it! Because texting has time to think slowly!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't go beyond the level of an ordinary friend, and you have to be very clear about what kind of person he is, such as whether he is very sensitive, and then help him when you understand

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You don't have to talk to him face-to-face, it's okay to use email or QQ or something.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since he's like that, you go and comfort him, and he probably wants someone to comfort him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really think of him as a very good friend, then you don't have to worry about him misunderstanding you

    You can tell him in a joking tone beforehand that you are just comforting him as a friend and asking him not to misunderstand you first

    It's no wonder if you twist and twist like this, and he doesn't misunderstand

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, we have to help each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You don't have to think about comforting him, he is a man, he can hold up, since he is a good friend, then you just need to chat with him, I think it is the greatest comfort.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Men are depressed so short names.

    It's best to let him not be depressed, and he can find an opportunity to chat with him, but don't talk about unhappy things and say that he is happy.

    Or go have fun and find a few friends together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's useless to be angry Your girlfriend didn't seem to have a very deep relationship with you before, and people didn't care

    Angry with you like that shows that you still care about her

    But there's no need to be angry like that right now, because you have a new her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Listening to you say that, I think he probably loves you the most.

    There is a kind of guy who changes girlfriends a lot, but he actually knows very well who he likes the most, who he loves the most, he keeps you by his side, and he doesn't easily have other relationships with you, maybe because he really cares about you.

    He doesn't want to do anything to you like other girls, and he certainly doesn't want to hurt you easily.

    If you really like him, it's better to find a suitable opportunity to talk to him honestly, but I think it's better not to say that you like him easily, I just don't feel like it, but after all, I don't know you, I still want to wish you happiness, come on!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    、、、 no one can force this kind of thing, so let it be.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He really only treats you as a good friend, but it's probably a good thing that a girlfriend doesn't get your turn in exchange, really.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then be his best friend.

    Either you're one of the trade-ins too.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It doesn't matter, height is not the standard for others to measure you, you will be loved and noticed only if you have a beautiful inner and outstanding talent, your height is given to you by your parents, and of course there is also an acquired effort (exercise more, there is no other way Since this kind of problem is not easy to change, then you can improve what you are easy to change, such as mood, cultivation, and figure. Attitudes can be changed so that your life will be more brilliant, and you can develop yourself in other ways and find self-confidence.

    The important thing is the mentality, you are not at a young age, and mood problems will also affect your height.

    Actually, I'm not tall!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If he is not yet old, let him pay attention to his diet, exercise more, and develop a good routine; If you do, take a look at Wang Zu Basket.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Encourage and comfort him to help build his self-confidence.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Be brave enough to chase and figure out which girls are suitable for you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Just send yourself over and you're OK

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you want to look at the inner beauty, I think I'm very good, but I still have friends, you think he is your friend, he must have a shining point.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Tell him jokes and make him happy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Find out the guy's attitude first, and if not, pick on your friend, tell her that you like her too, and offer fair play, no matter who gets her, she will still be friends.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Tell your friends that you are interesting to him. Maybe you'll think that you'll be rivals and won't be good friends. But think about it, if that guy likes you and you get along with that guy, what your friends will think of you.

    Make it clear to your friends that they will bless you if they really think of you as a good friend.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Be brave enough to tell your friends or you'll regret it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Words from good friends.

    I'm not going to rob her.

    Friends are much more important than boyfriends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In your opinion, is love or friendship important?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Boss, feelings are not games, nor are they things to give away.

    Why don't you tell her you like that guy too?

    Quit? Maybe that guy happens to be you, so what are you going to do?

    Even if he doesn't like you, are you willing to give up what you love, aren't you afraid that he will not be happy with her?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Classmate, when I was in school, I also had a crush on a boy, just like you!

    I use my experience to tell you that love requires courage and hard work!

    If you really like him, you should tell him that it is best for him to accept it, and don't be discouraged if you refuse, this is courage!

    Silently care about him, and tell him with actions that you are his most suitable object! That's effort!

    Don't take friendship too seriously, real friendship is not lip service, missing the person you love the most is regretting it for life!

    People's hearts are flesh and blood, I believe you will be happy!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Either compete or share together. Friendship may not be as good as desire in the short term, but after desire is satisfied, there is endless emptiness. Friendship is what can last a lifetime.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Ask yourself if you really like him in your heart, and if you do, then go after it boldly

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you like it, you will be brave enough to accept it! Let's face it! The kind of friends who ignore themselves because they like someone at the same time and don't make friends, really!

    People are selfish! She ignores you because you're her rival! Then you don't have to give up love for the sake of friendship!

    If you hold back! In the end, you won't get anything from love and friendship! You remember:

    Let go and love! Believe in yourself! Don't be a loser.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, if your friend could discuss with you privately how to solve this triangular situation, this matter would be over.

    But it was clear that after you told the truth, she was still angry. Based on this result, you and your friend are both at fault and half at fault, and you are at fault for not understanding your friend's jealousy as a woman; Your friend made the mistake of not calmly doing what to do with you in private, and presumptively rejected the boy.

    But to your credit, your first motive was for the sake of this friendship, which is why your friend rejected him, so you told your friend the truth in the first place. The intentions were good, but it backfired.

    Focus: If you are inspired by these words of mine, please sort out your emotions now, don't care who is right and who is wrong, take the initiative to communicate with your friend, and apologize to her not because you are at fault, but because you want to cherish this friendship, because now, friendship is more important than that boy.

    I really hope you and her can be reconciled.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Didn't do anything wrong, dear.

    It's wrong for her to scold you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    No, there's nothing wrong with liking someone, as for what your friend does, that's up to her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The average boy doesn't want a female friend who isn't his girlfriend to send something too expensive or what he needs most at the moment. So, I think according to your actual situation, if the boy is still studying, it is better to send a pen, assuming that he is not studying, he is already working, and he will give a tie or something.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Wallet lighter watches, these things are more practical and available at any price, buy according to your affordability, and the packaging is more exquisite.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Men's assistant instruments, how creative.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course there is! Forgive me for being naïve: you can pick one thing first, and then spend some thought and effort in it, and just get your mind to it!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's best to give him your heart, and what he needs most is definitely this

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Whoever that man loves, he will be with him. Is this a question?

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Love is selfish and best friends are no exception.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Let him choose.

    Girls better find a man who loves them so that you don't cry.

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