Faced with a major choice in life, how to choose?

In fact, there are some things that are useless to ask here, especially things like feelings. The answers given to you can only be used as a reference, but what you need is to listen to your own inner voice.

Still, I can give you some advice.

If I were you, I would choose the second one. Because it's a life after all. If you don't have any financial strength, it is not easy to go to other places to work hard for a career.

In this way, both of them have a bad life. Another point is that because you haven't seen each other for a long time, distance produces beauty, and you may not be able to live your life. So, choosing the second one is my idea.

But it's better to decide for yourself.

You first ask your heart, who do you really like? I think you must not have figured out who you like, which is why it is so painful. Or maybe you don't like any of them, but the idea of having a home has been haunting you, so you just want to find a partner as soon as possible, not a lover.

A marriage without love can only be a grave, and you can't experience the warmth of the home you want. If you really like the first one, you can overcome all difficulties and go to her side, and if you like the second one, you can smooth her temper and influence her. In fact, have you ever thought that the first girl does not love you as much as you think, if she loves you, she will consider coming to you, the determination and courage that women pay for love is unimaginable to men.

Alas, no one can make decisions for you, and you should listen to what your heart is saying.

Aren't you the legendary "two boats on your feet". To put it mildly, the contradictions and pain are your own faults, and you deserve them. Even though you already have a girlfriend and go on a blind date, it means that you don't love you at all and love your girlfriend from afar, I advise you not to delay that good girl, let her go.

You should let this girl who has been on a blind date with you let her go, and from your description I can infer that she doesn't like you and is unlikely to fall in love with you in the future. True happiness can only be found by ending the painful love triangle and starting anew.

None of the options. They are not the ones you are meant to be with.

So you have to wait.

There will be results.

It's so hard to choose, so I don't want either of them, I'm looking for one.

Love is not a game, on this special day, you have to think about which one you love. Don't care about the pain, since you have made your decision, you must always stick to it.

If you know a girl who has been known for 3 years, she is kind and gentle by nature, and she loves you, you have to bear it, I just want to tell you that such a girl is not easy to find,

It's up to you to make the choice, ask yourself what you really want? Do you just want a "home" or a "home" after falling in love?

Listen to Xu Meijing's "Sunshine is always after the wind and rain".

Don't do neither, don't wait quietly for the next one to appear, I hope you are happy.

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The time is not yet ripe, so let's wait and choose.

The first one, since you said that you can't be together, of course you don't choose.

Do you still have a choice?

Two more do not choose the time is not yet ripe.

Drowning three thousand, only take one scoop!

Think about it for yourself.

Don't you think you've let down the girl you've known for 3 years?

If it were me, I would definitely feel guilty.

I think there are three important choices in life: major, marriage, and career.

First of all, professionalism. The choice of major is at the beginning of our life, that is, when we are studying, and the choice of major determines the direction and circle of our early career. However, this is not absolute, and many people are engaged in jobs that are not the majors they studied after graduation, so the choice of major is not the most important choice.

Secondly, career. The choice of career determines the direction of my future career, and even determines whether the future economy is stable. This is a very important choice for people.

However, if you choose the wrong one, you can still have the possibility of changing careers, and the time and energy spent on changing careers and choosing again is controlled within two years. Therefore, this choice, although important, is not the most important.

Finally, marriage. The choice of marriage determines whether the future of a life is happy and the career is successful.

Some people choose the right one, live a happy and safe life, have a smooth career, and have no worries.

And some people who choose the wrong one and get caught up in a situation of fighting with their spouse all day long, how can they still care about the feeling of happiness? **Can you still take care of the management of your business? If you choose again, you need to pay at least 5 years, whether it is the cost of time or energy, it is relatively large.

Therefore, I think that marriage is the most important choice of my life!

The above is always Yu's humble opinion, I hope it can bring you inspiration, thank you for reading!

It depends on how you define the right decision in your mind, and there are usually ways to make the right decision

1. Find the decision of your own choice in your heart, and turn the decision into the right one after choosing;

2. Refer to some people's suggestions and think from different angles, preferably with practical experience;

3. Rational analysis, select the best plan, bold attempt, or choose a decision that is close to the right one.

If you want to make the right decision, there are many ways, everyone makes a decision in a different way, and there is no completely correct decision in my personal opinion, my experience tells me that I am in the routine, and I can also choose the right decision by using the social rules in the routine, but the process is very sad, especially in the face of life's heavy choice, we must maintain rationality and the correct choice to easily fight the strange script, and try not to step on the pit.

Step on the pit for a while, and make up for it in a lifetime.

When we don't know how to make the right decision, we can first ask ourselves what we want, what is the right decision in our hearts, for me, the right decision is to choose the most beneficial choice for themselves, and I don't know which choice is the most beneficial for themselves, I will assume the responsibility and planning route after each choice, to help myself make the right decision, when making a decision, I will also collect relevant data and information, reduce the external impact of the information gap, and increase the probability of choosing the right decision.

We must understand that if we want to make the right decision, we must have sufficient awareness of the so-called correct decision and wrong decision, most people refer to external information when deciding, which leads to the difficulty of making a choice without sufficient cognition is the right decision, at this time it depends on how lucky you are, it is not recommended to take this kind of gambler psychology, once the gamble is lost, it is easy to destroy a person's mentality. In a rational situation, the decision chosen will at least leave a backup plan for yourself.

When I face the re-choice of life, I also hope to be able to choose the right decision, everyone hopes that their choice is the right decision, and there are very few people who can always choose the right decision, when you make a correct choice, the next unknown choice will still appear on your life road, so we must have the mentality of striving to choose the right decision, but also have the right mentality to accept the wrong choice, the wrong decision is not terrible, the terrible thing is that we cannot change the status quo, and we will be in a slump from then on.

Tell yourself that all decisions are the best arrangement.

In these re-choices, you should still listen to the advice of some people around you, because everyone will have different opinions on things, analyze the pros and cons according to the opinions they put forward, and choose for yourself.

Not every decision is right, but we have to act according to our hearts, because then we will not regret it.

When faced with a choice, no one knows what is right and what is wrong, and you can only know when you have made a choice and worked hard.

Hello, dear. You will ask such questions, I wonder if you are facing a major choice in your life. When we are faced with a choice, we must first consider the pros and cons that may be involved in all aspects, and if the impact of these pros and cons on our lives is within the scope of our tolerance, then follow our heart.

Only when you think about it yourself, will you not regret the decision you make in the future. Of course, if there is advice from others, we can listen to it appropriately. But don't sock people just suggest, they can't live this life for us, right?