When people are faced with the contradiction between their wishes and their own wishes, how can they

This problem is more tricky, such a problem many people will encounter, parents always expect very high, but sometimes parents expect not what they like, at this time the most needed is to be calm, find a time to have a good chat with parents, in fact, behind the contradiction is the parents' care for themselves, just graduated will inevitably have their own ideas, but also when young, young and vigorous is easy to be arrogant, can not listen to the opinions of others. Of course, this is only in terms of graduates. From the perspective of parents, parents' views may be too outdated, unable to keep up with the pace of the times, and will not be able to analyze the future employment development trend well, which is the deficiency of parents.

I think the best way to solve the contradiction is to communicate, don't follow your own temper to stubbornly do things, listen to the opinions of many parties, learn from each other's strengths, and strive for the result to be acceptable to both parties, to achieve an ideal win-win situation. Hope this helps.

From your description, it can be seen that you are an independent, rational person who has his own unique views on things.

I think that when this kind of contradiction arises, graduates should not blindly follow it, and do not arrange some ideas imposed by others too much to make choices, which will become more and more chaotic.

Rather, it is necessary to put aside these and analyze their own situation, including their own professional quality, their own work ability, their own professional aspirations, their own personality characteristics, their own development planning, and then analyze the current employment situation, opportunities and difficulties, the direction and career gap of the future national economic development, the development dynamics and industry composition of related industries, etc., and then combine their own situation with the external situation to make a judgment. Trust that even if the final choice conflicts with your family's wishes, your family will support your choice.

I also have this kind of contradiction, I think so, although I have to respect my parents, when I don't live for the previous generation in this life, I only have one life, and I can't do it again.

Then you should know what to do.

Hello landlord! Self-feeling: What's the big deal! Without you, the earth will not fail to turn! Like just faint to learn to forget!

If you don't like it, you will never choose, but you will only hate it more and more.

Because when you choose, you still don't like it. Wait until you've chosen. You find that you don't like it as much as you thought before.

Follow and you'll love it slowly. Got it.

Although it is true that sometimes people cannot follow their own wishes in life, when you have your own choice, why not choose your own sincerity? Life is too short to indulge yourself!!

Life is like this, people's psychology is contradictory, and there are often hesitations and concerns, so no matter whether you choose the right one or not, don't regret it.

This kind of is still up to you, and it can't become a rule.

No way, people in the rivers and lakes, if you make adjustments, and you benefit from it, it means that it is still right, if you really can't change it, don't force it, be your true self, how to do it There are people who like you and people who don't like you, the so-called flowers into their own eyes, don't lose "yourself".

After more experience, you will naturally know how to face some things that you don't want to do, and few people are willing to do things that you don't want to do, as long as you don't cross the bottom line.

In fact, that's when you start to know how to behave and live, and there are a few people who can do whatever they want, and it's actually good that you're like that.

That's great!! As long as objective facts are the criterion.

Don't be afraid of broken bones, you have to leave your innocence in the world.

Li Bai's An Neng broke his eyebrows and bent his waist to deal with the powerful, which made me unhappy.

is also good at what he has done, although he has not regretted his nine deaths - Qu Yuan's "Lisao".

I smiled at the sky with my horizontal knife to leave the liver and gallbladder two Kunlun

Poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds.

Thousands of blows are still strong, and the wind is ——. from east to west, north and southZhushi Zheng Xie (Qing) will sometimes break through the wind and waves, and hang straight on the clouds and sails to the sea.

Poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds.

Don't be afraid of broken bones, you have to leave your innocence in the world.

I smiled at the sky with my horizontal knife to leave the liver and gallbladder two Kunlun

Poor and strong, do not fall into the ambition of the clouds.

Thousands of blows are still strong, and the wind is ——. from east to west, north and south

(There will be times when the wind and waves will be long, and the clouds will sail into the sea) to encourage themselves.

Don't do it again. Hurry back to reality