I am 20 years old

In this life, happiness is the most important thing.

However, we must have a responsibility, a responsibility to society, to our family, and to ourselves. Your current situation should be considered to be too stressful, and the fast-paced work life in Shenzhen may not be too adaptable. We must learn to adjust ourselves, including lifestyle habits and emotions.

You can read some psychological books to analyze whether your current personal state is as you want, and if you can improve, where you should make adjustments and make efforts.

Suggestion: first make a short-term phased goal, the implementation process is set in three months, in these three months, move towards the goal, this goal should be set for your current situation, such as you feel unwell, one of your goals can be to strengthen physical exercise, run more in the morning and evening, and work and rest system reasonably; In response to your psychological confusion, you should actively communicate with your colleagues, ask them if they had such a situation at the beginning, if they have any good advice, you should often call the family, even if there is nothing, even if it is to talk to your parents about trivial things, home will always be the source of your strength.

If the short-term goal can have a certain effect, it is helpful to solve your confusion, and then set the long-term goal in a targeted manner, during which there may be new situations and timely corrections, the final result should be positive, upward and beneficial.

If you've tried all the hard work and still can't achieve your goal, consider changing jobs. At the beginning of the work, don't think about making a lot of money or something, you have to believe that God rewards hard work, you have made efforts and paid hard work, even if you can't see the benefits in the short term, but its benefits to you are subtle, and there will be a day when it comes naturally.

Struggle! Don't give up! Encourage you.

Hello, I think that with your current ability, only limited to the computer, you can first experience a variety of different jobs, exercise all aspects of ability, accumulate experience, help you survive and work in the society in the future, and then decide what to do for a long time, so that you will not feel uncomfortable, because after experiencing various jobs you can compare to see which job is more suitable for you, you will feel satisfied, instead of working every day in a boring situation, my opinion is this, I hope you try it, change the environment to experience where you are suitable in this society!

In fact, there are only three core choices in life The first important choice is what kind of person you choose to be, in this life, if you want to live a peaceful, healthy and happy life, you must choose to be a kind, responsible, and enterprising person, and be a person who is beneficial to your family, society, and yourself, which is the most important thing, this choice is right, and in the future, you will not be confused in the face of any choice; The second important choice is to choose what kind of life partner, the partner of life is the person who depends on each other for a lifetime, you must choose a kind, caring, responsible person, you must choose a partner who knows how to respect each other, care for each other, and understand each other. Third, it is very important to choose how to train your own next generation, not to spoil the next generation, not to spoil the next generation, and to teach the next generation to be a serious, responsible, and kind person. Let them know how to be grateful, understand that income and pay are equal, and let them realize that the wealth created by their hands is the most valuable.

This will be our most important choice in the second half of the year, and it will also be the most valuable choice.

Content preview: Teachers who have just seen the title may immediately be unable to restrain themselves from scolding, so rein in your professional habits first. I'll list a few numbers and you'll be able to turn your cheekiness white in no time.

Now I will calculate for you whether education is for the education of students or for the purpose of feeding schools and teachers. The teachers in this article include school leaders, teachers, staff, etc. This makes sense, as this article uses averages.

If you don't go to Kaibu Li Xue, you can still get 200,000 yuan? Is there such a good thing? And so it is! Just list a few pieces of data and you'll understand. In this article, only the 2009 China Statistical Yearbook released by the National Bureau of Statistics is used to illustrate this.

There are too many teachers in China now. Why do you say raising? Most people probably understand.

Teachers belong to the establishment of public institutions, and the characteristics of this establishment are that both in-service and retirement income are guaranteed by drought and flood, and teachers now earn more when they retire than they do on the job. Of course, this refers to the normal salary, not including the black money collected by teachers. Of course, many teachers who have withdrawn from the cheats and talked about taking leave of absence have made up for extra money and played their remaining evils.

Teachers' salaries are borne by two entities. Part of it is borne by ** finances, and part is borne by students and parents. Of course, the part that is borne by the finances is actually delayed in the end, and it is borne by the people.

The money from the treasury is handed over by the people to the people, and then to the teachers.

China's current education ......Above.

I'm also 22 years old, a rural kid, still in college, but I'm going to wander - it's all nonsense.

First of all, you make me admire! Because you have done a lot of things that I have not done, such as your tolerance and forgiveness of your family, because there is something wrong with what they are doing, of course we can't blame them, because people are affected by the environment, probably because of the rural areas, and the preference for sons is more serious. Your independent spirit and ability are beyond my reach, and you have to be proud of yourself.

Secondly, I hope you don't lose faith, fate is such a thing as believing in it and not believing in it, I believe that with your ability to change all this, for parents, I think you still give it, after all, they gave you life, for your brother, you need more communication, but I don't think you have to be humble everywhere, after all, you have the right to be yourself, the right not to be bound by others.

Finally, I would like to send you a word. Heaven is fair, you are bitter now, you will be sweet in the future!

Reality is the reality in front of you.

Be self-reliant and work hard.

Don't complain. Adapt to life, adapt to society.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read. Your personality is truly impressive. Your brother's business may be very profitable, but it is extremely risky.

It is advisable for you to financially separate yourself from the home, stand in the outer ring, and give the family an extra insurance. Your parents gave birth to you, so you have no reason to blame. Connect with your family as much as possible.

If you are independent first, it will be easier to deal with the rest. Go for it.

Tell you, it's better to beg the pig and the dog than to go by yourself, leave your garbage brother alone in the future, fight for it yourself, work hard, and use your wisdom to refute.

I can feel your feelings, and I won't let myself be so angry when I look at it. Maybe your brother is just immature and doesn't think about his parents, but it doesn't mean that he has been so confused all his life.

Relatives are close at all times, I used to be with my beans, 4 years not to hit a ** and my sister is also not in contact, now my husband is in Beijing, my family in Henan, 1 year only to go home once now I feel how wrong I used to do, in how my own family to say everything, don't simmer in the heart, the longer the more misunderstandings.