Children s wisdom depends on parents, what kind of parenting style is scientific?

Respect your child's ideas and make some rules for your child, for example, the first thing you do when you get home is to write your homework first and then play, so that your child can develop good study habits; When you go out to play, no matter how much you like other people's toys and snacks, you can't ask for them, if you want them, you can ask your parents for them, and your parents will buy them as appropriate.

After parents have done some regulations, they should also strictly follow the regulations, so that such a concept will be formed in the child's thinking, "what can be done, what can not be done, and what things need to be done after consulting with parents".

When the child is playing, parents should let the child play to the fullest, and tell the child that "when learning, you must concentrate on learning, and when you play, you must also play well without distractions". For the development of children's wisdom, children are developed from all aspects, whether it is learning or playing, so that children can achieve "one thing with one heart".

To be a little visionary with your child, children's imagination and creativity are colorful, and when children come up with some wonderful ideas, even if adults know that it is impossible to realize them in reality, at least at present, do not destroy children's imagination.

When the child loses his temper, parents should teach the child patiently, and it is not recommended to "counter violence with violence", which will only stimulate the child's deep sense of rebellion.

Don't use too many rules and regulations to restrict your child, try to let your child live a little more freely.

With the acceleration of the pace of society, more and more families are only children, so children are burdened with various pressures from birth, in this context, parents may wish to reduce the pressure on their children.

At the same time, parents should pay attention not to always say that their children are inferior to others, each child has their own uniqueness, and fully affirm your child, so that he is more confident and has enough courage to face the future world.

There are many things in life that do not have a standard answer, so encourage your child to think from multiple perspectives and let him unleash his creativity.

Never extinguish your child's innocence, don't try to make your child sophisticated, give your child a space for innocence, and let your child become a kind and warm person.

Let children become polite people, look at people without colored glasses, and learn to respect is the most valuable quality.

Introduction: Many people are very curious and don't know how wise parents educate their children at home. If parents want their children to learn well, they must first understand their children's interests, interest is the best teacher for children, and children are willing to devote themselves to learning when they are interested.

Today, I would like to tell you how wise parents educate their children.

If parents want to educate their children well, they must understand their children's thoughts, and don't always sneer at their children, always sneer at their children, and children are not willing to listen to their parents. Parents are the child's teacher, what kind of parents have what kind of children, want children to learn well, parents must walk in front of children, help children make good rules, let children develop in the direction they specify, if children have no way to develop well, children will not devote themselves to learning, children will be very painful. Parents should set a good example for their children, so that children have a clear object to imitate, children will become more and more fond of learning, if parents do not help the children set a good direction, do not set rules for children, children will not have a way to study well, children will feel particularly painful to learn.

Parents should not always make some bad rules for their children, Huai Noise always makes some bad rules for children, and children will also be very uncomfortable.

If parents want to find a suitable method for their children, they must understand what kind of education their children need to be able to formulate for their children, and if their children do not want to learn, parents must not force their children, and if they force their children, their children will also be very uncomfortable. Parents should strive to communicate with their children, don't put too much pressure on their children, children will also be very painful, feel that they are not capable of doing it, parents can accompany their children more, if the economic conditions in the family are not good, parents can properly exercise their children's independent qualities.

Parents should create a good environment for their children to grow up, and parents will encourage their children, support their children, and respect their children.

Wise parents will use scientific methods to educate their children, they will follow their children's psychology, cultivate them, encourage children, and let children make their own decisions.

The first is to teach by example. Make a good example for your children in big and small things. The other is to pay attention to the old skills when the manuscript contains the child to talk to the pure one. Talk to your child on an equal footing and don't give your child the impression that you're on top of it.

Respect your child, support your child, understand your child, and encourage your child.

Wise parents will pay attention to their children's personal interests when educating their children, and they will also pay attention to the cultivation of children. In addition, parents will also guide the child to develop personal related abilities, all of which are of great help to the child.

Every day, we can see all kinds of questions about children's education on the Internet, which also makes more and more parents at a loss for their children's education. Then we should start with the problems faced by adolescent children, children will have some rebellion in adolescence, then we should properly guide children to educate children, help children look at problems rationally, understand children and help children better cope with the problems encountered in adolescence. Help children better deal with their own problems, grow up positively, and provide children with a better family atmosphere.

Instead of letting the child return home and find that the home is very indifferent, instead of-for-tat with the child to stimulate the child's emotions, let alone ignore the problems faced by the adolescent child, it should not be more detrimental to the child's education and guidance.

Children are the inheritance of parents to the world, parents should pay more attention to the topics that their children are interested in in the process of getting along with their children, communicate better with their children, guide children to broaden their minds, educate children to better deal with their own things, be able to better solve their own problems, and be able to face their own frustrations more positively. At the same time, parents should also be more active in providing a good growth environment to help their children face some problems correctly and be able to communicate with their children positively. In daily life, parents and children can participate in some game activities, some reading activities held by the library, or join some volunteer activities to broaden children's understanding of society and have a deeper yearning for the world.

In short, as elders, we should come up with more intelligent ways to educate our children and help them better communicate with the world and with our parents. Parents are the bridge between children and the world, and they are the guides for children to yearn for this world. Therefore, I think that parents and children need more communication instead of rigid education, and we should come up with better and better ways to guide children.

Parents will often be by their children's side, parents will also educate their children through some stories, parents will often communicate with their children, and parents will also influence their children when they do something wrong, so that they can effectively educate their children.

We must know how to set an example for our children, know how to handle family relationships well, praise and encourage our children appropriately, and criticize and punish them appropriately.

Parents should set an example, take themselves as the standard, set an example for their children, let children form a correct three views and good habits, and develop a reward and punishment system, when the child behaves well, parents should encourage in time, should give a certain reward, when the child behaves badly, parents should point out the mistake in time, let the child correct.

Parents must be sensible, must choose the right education method according to their children, do not compare their own children with other people's children, usually Finchkey should read more, and then or the age of the core should also communicate with the child patiently, do not blindly cover up or pamper the child.

When educating children, they should have a particularly good attitude, and they should also have a rational mind, and they should make their children become very rational through words and deeds, and they will also make their children very good.

It needs to be determined according to the child's growth, according to the child's intelligence, and according to the child's learning situation, and make reasonable arrangements.

Parents pamper unprincipled children, obey their children, put clothes on their hands, put food in their mouths, and don't even wash their own clothes when they go to college, and take them home for their parents to wash. Parents put the responsibility of education entirely on the school, only managing the cost of living, regardless of education, and letting it develop. Parenting Buddhism, the father's mistake, parents are the child's first teacher, the words and deeds of the parents have a great impact on the growth of the child's life, so it cannot be just raised.

Some parents think that filial piety comes from the stick, and it is unreasonable for the child to make a mistake and serve with the stick. This simple and crude education method cannot form a healthy personality of the child, and even has the opposite effect.

Forward-thinking parents regard their children as a major event in their life planning, constantly exploring ways to educate their children, and educating their children with new ideas. They go to the parent school to read discourses about extracurricular activities, participate in parent-child activities, talk to their children, and treat them as equals. There are no principles, do what you want.

Not only is there no principle in love, but there is no principle in punishment, everything depends on the mood of the parents. Criticism, praise, love, and scolding are all improvised. A few years ago, I often went to the neighbor's house late at night to listen, and my father reprimanded his son, and later learned that whenever my father came home from drinking, he had to teach his son a lesson.

Recently, I heard two people shouting again, my son has grown up!

I am most afraid that my child will be wronged and that my child will suffer. When you fall down when you are eating and chasing, you will be helped, and you will eat and drink on your behalf. How many parents are running hard with their children's games at home?

In particular, the elderly believe that "if you don't eat purely, you won't get sick", they don't understand the knowledge of scientific hygiene, and they don't talk about the concept of hygiene, and they sneer at him, it's terrible! Accustomed to bullying and oppression with power. Parents are the truth and irrefutable.

In short, Chinese parents are accustomed to coaxiality without a bottom line (cessation of doting), ranting without reason (patriarchy), and deception without a long-term vision (ignoring the child's personality). Of course, Chinese parents are active in educating their children diligently, being frugal and simple, respecting the old and loving the young, and so on, and should continue to carry them forward.

Stimulate the desire to learn and guide the formation of a "I want to learn" tutoring model. Parents are positive, serious in work, good in study habits, and children are guided by positive energy from an early age. Children in this kind of family have the psychological need of "I want to learn".

They are concentrated when learning and are several times more efficient than other children. The children of this family have a common feature and do not have to go to cram school. Along with the extracurricular tutoring process, the tutoring model of "I want to learn" is formed.

These parents believe that their children's learning behavior is different from what they expected, so they psychologically decide what to do with their children, and choose the accompanying "let me learn" method. Strict control of the "forced learning" teacher model is formed. These parents do not focus on being role models in their own learning, or even pursuing their own development, and do not show positive role models to their children.

Some parents think that they are working hard to earn money to support their family and improve their family's financial strength, and they work very hard. Children also have to study hard, so if you hate iron and don't make steel, you will form the fruit of "forcing me to study".

Scientific family education should be a combination of morality, intelligence, physical fitness and beauty, and do not blindly focus only on learning, but at the same time will not forget learning. Combine work and rest, and adopt a reasonable and scientific concept of education.

Parents should keep their children happy when educating them, and at the same time, they need to train their children purposefully, so that they can grow up healthier. There are many parents who think that educating their children should let them work hard towards the goals they want in their hearts, but in fact, this kind of education is not right, and parents should pay attention to the state of their children when they urge their children to learn. If the child can learn happily, this harvest will be twice the result with half the effort, so parents must educate the child in the right way.

Parents can choose to train their children in a purposeful way, for example, if the child is not good enough in a certain aspect, parents can choose to encourage the child to work hard in this aspect. Children may indeed be timid when they are very young, and parents can choose to help their children overcome their fears and guide them to challenge their limits little by little. In this way, it can help children overcome their fear of certain things, and at the same time, they can also feel the joy of success, and believe that they will be more competitive in the future.

And there are many parents who like to perfunctory their children, and when the children ask their parents questions, parents will also casually fool the children. In fact, parents should explain the relevant problems to their children in a scientific way, so that children can understand a lot of the current situation in society in advance. Parents should try their best to help their children overcome psychological barriers, and at the same time let their children slowly understand the current situation of this society, which is also of great help to their future growth.

Parents are indeed prone to emotional problems in life, and in the case of emotional ups and downs, they should not educate their children, otherwise it is easy to get angry with their children. Adults should learn to control their emotions and should not be angry with their children if they are wronged outside. I hope that parents can restrain themselves, only in this way can they bring better education to their children.