What is the psychology of those who are not smart and refuse to read?

Not smart and not reading and studying, there are many such people around us, from childhood to adulthood, I try to have this kind of person around me. Sometimes, find yourself too.

My roommates, since the first day of college, haven't read books properly, every exam is a cheat sheet, and very lucky, every time they pass, unfortunately, they may unfortunately be assigned to the first row, under the teacher's nose, can't copy, and then fail, but this is only a rare one or two.

In most cases, the family has money, either a company, or a store at home, my lower bunk roommate is, I don't have to worry about anything, and the boyfriend I found is also rich, they think it's useless to study, the family has money, the job is down, the boyfriend is rich, maybe I don't have to work in the future.

There is also a kind of psychology that feels that reading is useless, going to school is forced by parents, and going to school and studying cannot be exchanged for money.

There is also a kind of family that has no money, and does not want to read, and also thinks that reading is useful, but every day is also a muddy wandering, I think this situation is a funny personality, its own fault, lazy to do, I sometimes make this disease, such a hot day, I don't want to go there, I don't want to read, I want to rest every day.

Society is cruel, out of school, we can only rely on ourselves, we can't rely on our parents for a lifetime, and we can't rely on our husbands for a lifetime, the recent very popular drama is called the first half of my life, Luo Zijun was still abandoned after being raised for ten years, heartbreaking, helpless, I had to start from scratch in my thirties, this drama profoundly satirizes reality, we must have independent ability at all times.

It is precisely because I am not smart that I will encounter a lot of setbacks in my studies, so I hate reading even more, so I simply break the jar and break it.

Reading is a good thing, but it's not the only thing, they may have their own ideas.

I can't accept the new world.

The first point is the difference in quality, those who read a lot are of high quality, and those who read less are of low quality. The second point is the difference between speech, and those who read a lot speak with the Tao. People who read little speak vulgarly.

The third point is the difference in income. People who read a lot work well and earn well. People who study less work poorly and earn low.

No. It's just that people who read more have more knowledge, and reading more can save us from many detours.

A lot of college students work for people who didn't graduate from high school or college.

In real life, some people like to read, while some people don't. There will be some differences between these two kinds of people in terms of personal status, which can be analyzed and judged by three aspects: personal knowledge level, personal speech and behavior, and attitude towards life and work.

1. There is a difference in the level of knowledge between those who read and those who do not.

The difference between those who read and those who do not read is the greatest in terms of knowledge. ......Books contain all aspects of knowledge, and reading books is the best way to acquire knowledge. Therefore, those who read will have more knowledge, while those who do not read will have relatively poor knowledge because they have not learned knowledge.

In this regard, the biggest difference will be made between those who read and those who do not.

2. Personal speech and behavior can reflect the difference between reading and not reading.

Reading books can enable people to learn more knowledge, and at the same time, they will also become more cultivated and wiser. ......Because of this, people who read books will appear more cultivated, speak and behave in a gentle and polite manner, and give a good impression. People who don't read books tend to be more pragmatic in their speech and demeanor because they gain more knowledge from practice.

This is another significant difference between those who read and those who don't.

3. There is a clear difference between those who read and those who do not read in their attitudes towards life and things.

A person's words, deeds, and actions are influenced by their own abilities and qualities. There is a difference between those who read and those who do not read in terms of ability and quality, and there will be even greater differences in how they behave and do things......Specifically, people who read books are more stable and organized, but they may lack innovation. People who don't read dare to think and do, dare to break through, but they often don't think about doing things and are not too ...... be a stable personThis is the most intuitive difference between those who read and those who do not read in their daily life and work.

The temperament is not the same. People who read books are knowledgeable, intelligent and wise, and their speech and demeanor reveal a kind of cultural atmosphere and cultivation. They often have green lights and yellow scrolls, accompanied by books, moisturized and stained with the fragrance of books for a long time, and their hearts are also surrounded by the fragrant fragrance of the ruined wisps, and they naturally have a unique elegant charm on their bodies.

The spiritual world of people who read books is rich and colorful, and they can withstand the ups and downs of fate, and the beauty of "the book has its own Yan Ruyu" and "the belly has poetry and books" will not pass with youth. 2.Second, the angle of looking at the problem is different.

People who have no culture look at the problem and drill the horns of the bull, and a volcanic road goes to the dark. And cultured people can always find the best angle, always jump out of the circle, and always survive in a desperate situation. A propaganda cadre who participated in the self-defense counterattack against Vietnam, after coming down from the front line, it was already dark, he sat on the bus, opened the window, the cold wind and oblique rain hit his face, he looked at the gloomy street lamps and the warm yellow light from the residential buildings on the side of the road, some people may think that he is homesick and lonely.

But he said, "I am enjoying the beauty of melancholy, the cold wind, the slanting rain, the street lamp—a melancholy song!" ”3.

Tolerance is not the same. People without education often cannot withstand major difficulties, setbacks, and blows. Two days ago, I saw an article about a farmer who died drinking pesticides because he had no money to treat his children.

If a literate person encounters this situation, he will raise funds and ask for help through various channels such as **, lack of suspicion, and rescue agencies, and will not give up his responsibilities and obligations to find short-sightedness. 4.The depth of the problem is not the same.

People without culture have no depth of seeing problems, they can only see the immediate benefits, but not the long-term interests, and often lose the big because of the small. And a literate person, like a master of chess, can see that after ten or fifteen moves, or even further, their chances of winning are higher, and their chances of victory are greater. 5.

The quality of life is not the same. Readers have a broad horizon, elegant and romantic. They have deep accumulation, precipitation, aura and style, even if they are not rich in life, they are "expensive but not rich", those who do not study, even if they earn some money, can only be called "local tyrants", called "rich but not expensive".

Scholars pay attention to food culture when cooking, pay attention to decent and generous clothes, pay attention to romance and comfort when going out to play, and like poetry, calligraphy, piano and painting ...... in life

1.Thinking ability: People who read books are more likely to have richer thinking skills because they read regularly, making it easier to think deeply, whereas people who don't read books are more likely to stay on the surface and not be able to think deeply.

2.Vision: People who read books are more likely to have a broader vision because they read regularly and thus have easier access to more knowledge, while people who do not read books may only stay in their own small circle and lack fresh knowledge.

3.Self-confidence: People who read books are more likely to have self-confidence because they read regularly and thus have more knowledge more easily, while people who do not read may lack self-confidence because they lack the accumulation of knowledge.

It may be a little difficult to travel thousands of miles, but I can read thousands of books, see the life of the world through the descriptions in the books, and understand life.

He is a well-known brain scientist, a leader in the creative economy of brain science, and the first person in the application of brain science in Japan.

1. When people read, they constantly absorb a large amount of knowledge, and then store it, so that the temporal lobe of our brain (which is in charge of human memory, hearing, and vision) becomes larger.

If the temporal lobes are damaged, it can lead to a variety of diseases, such as epilepsy, speech impairment, memory impairment, and hearing impairment.

There is also the hippocampus, which plays a key role in learning and memory, which will also change and increase due to the increase in reading.

It can be said that the more you read, the more obvious the structural change becomes. So the more you read, the wiser you get.

Because they are all more diligent, and diligence can make up for their shortcomings.

Because reading books can broaden our vision, we can learn some knowledge that we didn't know before, and at the same time, we can also learn the poet's vision and state of mind.

Not necessarily, there are a lot of nerds these days.

It is recommended to cultivate children's interest in learning, do not exert too much pressure, accompany the child to read together, establish a correct learning concept for the child, and let the child have more or the benefits of reading books.

If this happens, I think the parents should create a good family atmosphere, and the parents themselves should also set an example to love reading, so that the children can be imperceptibly influenced.

I think parents can guide their children, and then if they can lead by example, children will go to school when they see their parents doing this.

One is that I don't like to read, and I hope that others can't absorb the wisdom of others like myself. The second is that I find that I have learned a lot from reading, but I don't want others to surpass me.

This is easy to see when we compare the difference in the lives of a non-reader with a reader. A person who has not developed the habit of reading is imprisoned by the world before him in terms of time and space. Readers are often brought into a state of thought and reflection by books.

A good reading material has a soul, which can immerse us in the desire for books, and reach the realm of having its own Yan Ruyu in the book and ** house in the book. Don't listen to people telling you not to read!

I don't like to read, or I have my own opinions, such people also have a selfish side, but everything must be listened to good or bad, it is better to judge it yourself, if you don't read and have no culture, you will be eliminated by society, so you should read books well, and you can have a stable income in the future.

People who don't read will always lack energy mentally, but whenever they are free, they can only pass the time by playing games, watching dramas, and sleeping. And those who love to read, no matter what kind of lonely situation they are placed in, will never lose their last conversation partner, that is, themselves.

It must be that you don't like to read, so you should not read.

I'm afraid that you will surpass him in the future, but it is still very useful to study more, so study hard

Because reading is a kind of effort, and in reality, hard work can lead to success. The inertia in people's hearts makes people want to believe that they can achieve success without studying (without trying). The theory of the uselessness of reading is the psychological comfort that people find in order to give up the hard work of studying.