How can you repay her favor? How about repaying the favor?

So be it!! Find a reason to treat her to a meal next time, and remember to hurry up and settle the bill yourself. Chasing girls requires four words: "hot and cold".

You can be nice to her, but not too much to her.

Then just invite her out for a good meal, of course, this time you will have to pay for it! By the way, it would be nice to send a little thing she likes!

Would she go and settle the bill herself if she was careful?

Don't take this matter to heart, it has nothing to do with love.

Listen to me, what should I do in the future, even if I invite her to dinner because of my crush and then settle the bill, don't mention this matter, let alone use this incident as a reason to invite her to dinner, otherwise she will definitely be disgusted.

Next time you eat, you just have to finish the meal first.

What a chance!!

You have a crush on her, and this is a good opportunity.

Just invite her to dinner later.

Back and forth

Huh

Friends don't care about small things, as long as they are sincere.

After you have made an appointment, go to the restaurant early to order the food and check out, and then call the food to order.

Next time I invite her to dinner, I will confess by the way!!

Find a chance to ask her out for dinner.

When you invite her to dinner or something, it's not enough. Friend, you've said it all.

Where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and where there are rivers and lakes, there will be human affection.

Human affection refers to the feelings, friendships, feelings, affections, favors, courtesies, gifts, help, and so on.

Being a human being in the world is indispensable for human contacts. And there are big and small human feelings, and how to deal with and treat human feelings also represents a person's emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills.

Returning favors is a technical job, and if you don't do it well, it will be self-defeating. Therefore, it is important to be different from each other and to deal with things.

In addition to the size of the favor, it is also necessary to deal with the degree of intimacy of the relationship between the parties. Personally, I think it can be done from the following points:

1. If you have a favor with a person with an average relationship, even if the favor is very small, or even a gesture, you must immediately thank and give back as soon as possible.

If you don't have the opportunity at that time, you should also pay attention to it in the future and seize the opportunity to reciprocate, so as to show that you are a gentleman who "receives the grace of people and repays it with a spring".

The good impression you make on the other person may have refreshed your relationship. Even if your relationship doesn't improve, you'll have a good reputation for others who will be willing to help you when you need it in the future.

2. If you have a favor with a person who has a good relationship, you can deal with it according to the size of the favor. If it's a small thing, just verbally say thank you, and don't take it to heart. After all, you are good friends, and small mutual favors often come and go, and they are very clear, but they will divide the relationship between the two.

But if it's a big event or a big favor, you need to solemnly express your gratitude and take some action. Although you are friends, you will have pressure in your heart if you owe a big personal debt, and it is very detrimental to maintain your friendship all the time.

And because you don't reciprocate, such a faux pas can cause your friends to have a change in their opinion of you. The boat of friendship may capsize.

In short, as the saying goes, "it is only natural to repay debts".

It is also natural and obligatory to repay the debt of human affection.

I am a relatively rigid person, that is, I will not accept the benefits of others at any time, and even if I do, I will try my best to taste it back.

Although it is only a material debt, it is relatively easy to repay, but the love that others help you may not be so easy to repay. In particular, some personal debts, which cannot be replaced by materials at all, and cannot be repaid with materials, are even more difficult to repay.

I don't know when I like to owe him; I don't know why, I always like to find him when I encounter trouble. I really feel weird.,How can I be dependent on him.,A lot of things I can find someone else.,But I just like to look for him.,It's like there's no one who can help me except him.,In short,It's a matter of course to find him.。 Over time, when I found that others were talking about it, and I felt that this was really not good, I remembered that I was no longer as simple as an ordinary friend to him, and I would think of him in everything.

I don't understand what is going on, as if it was just how it happened, as if it should be like this. Now when I think about drawing a line with him, it seems a little embarrassing, and it's not so easy. It turns out that I have always accepted his kindness, and I have unconsciously owed him so much personal debt.

Now I don't know what to do, do I want to go on like this? How can I repay the favor I owe him? If so, how do I pay it back?

Can this debt be repaid? It's really annoying, and I blame myself, why do I accept the good of others so easily, why don't I know how to refuse. But now there is no regret medicine to take, just wait and see what happens, and the bitter wine brewed can only be tasted by yourself.

Favors are a matter of courtesy, you can't say that you owe favors today, and you can make up for them tomorrow, this is a long-term thing, so you can't say that you have favors, you can pay them back immediately, so when people encounter something at home, you can make up for favors at this time.

Another way is to give support when someone else is hit. It's also a way to return the favor. For example, if someone else is treated unfairly in the workplace, you can stand up and help your friend, and everyone will like this way of repaying the favor.

First, when the other party has something to ask you to pay back, if people don't ask you to do something, there is the second, wait for the opportunity.

You can give him something or something he likes, and usually give him a nuanced greeting to keep the affection.

How to repay the favor? If you accept a gift from someone else, when the time comes, they will have to add more things, or even double the amount of money they have to pay back, which is to repay the favor.

Just go with the flow, there is no need to think of a way to repay the favor, if you are willing to help him when his skin is difficult in the future, this favor will naturally be returned.

I am a classmate who has helped me during the holidays and have helped me when I was in trouble.

1. There is never an excuse when it comes to the issue of knowing the grace of the picture! No matter what you say, you must take the initiative to create opportunities to repay the other party, unless it is an immediate family member (immediate family members do not need to be in a hurry).

2. The other party's verbal politeness is not sincere, our principle is that only others can bear me, we can not bear others, not to mention that the help of others is when you need help the most!

3. Although friendship is priceless, friendship needs to be maintained, so appropriate and timely returns are very necessary, don't wait for the other party to complain psychologically, and we will make up for it too late.

4. One more friend and one more way, which is based on self-interest, it is very important to let the other party clearly know the sincerity of our hearts, so sincere friends will not hesitate again and again on the issue of reciprocating friends, and act slowly.

5. If we don't have the economic conditions to return, we can also use small-scale details to express, such as buying a few ice creams when it's hot, giving each other a meaningful little gift, etc. Kindness has interest, and it will grow over time.

Not much to say, for the sake of friendship and your long-term development in the future, we must cherish this relationship and love carefully, this is the gift list of life! Good luck friends!

1. In reality, the saddest misunderstanding is that many people regard inviting dinner as a favor. Please eat is not a return of favors, remember this sentence. What is a meal, if so, even if it is a favor, the favor in this world is too good to repay.

What's more, if you have a treat, it is impossible to invite only one person and a bunch of people. Eating is just an attitude and a ritual.

2. Suggestion: The first step is to invite you to dinner, whether the other party is willing to attend or not, you must at least invite, and you can also ask the other party to bring someone, you don't arrange anyone to accompany you. Whoever the other party brings, it is possible that there is consideration of repaying his own favor, so that your meal is worth something.

If the other person insists on not attending, don't force it. Considering what you call introverted and can't speak, then don't be entangled, you are a supporting role and a waiter at the dinner, just serve them well, the leader is there, he will lead the dinner, he will not be cold, you don't think of yourself as the protagonist, don't think that you should be one of the protagonists because you pay the bill.

Step 2: Regardless of whether you have successfully invited a meal or not, proceed to the second step and give a gift at the right time. Don't give it too deliberately, don't give a gift immediately, it will seem like a transaction, it will be ugly, it will make the other party uncomfortable, it will seem too cold, it will seem that you can't hold your breath, and you are eager to return the favor. Wait for a period of time, such as two or three months, to choose a time and send some gifts to express your gratitude.

There is no need to even mention why it is being sent, otherwise it will seem too utilitarian. Let's just say, it's a holiday, express your heart, thank you for your care, etc., and you don't need to mention specific things.

The third step is to express your stance first, saying that you will contribute to the other party's usefulness to you, and then prove it with actions, and wait until you have helped the other party once or twice, and then the favor will be returned.

In reality, how many people fail to repay the favor, will not return the favor, and slowly no one will be willing to help you. I say this, not because of the sleek world, but as long as you are willing to empathize, you are natural and transparent, many people only have "me", and they are completely out of state and speechless when they interact with others.

To put it simply, if others help you when you are in trouble, you need to help others when they are in trouble. The relationship is very delicate for colleagues, and in the process of helping each other, they will trust each other more and deepen their friendship. In the future, such a relationship will be very useful for both of them.

2. Show gratitude.

This is something that is often overlooked. Someone else has helped you with this, no matter whether you can return the favor or not, at least you can express your gratitude verbally. This is a necessary courtesy, and a thank you and a proper smile will greatly increase the favor of others.

If you behave too bluntly, it will appear particularly rude and make people's impression of you worse.

3. Taboos that cannot be committed.

In the process of returning favors, there are some things to pay attention to. First of all, you can't exchange favors, Qingfeng doesn't feel like helping others pay off favors, and he doesn't owe anything to others, and the relationship between people is not so simple. Secondly, you can't pay it back for the sake of paying it back, others have helped you, maybe just because he is a helpful person, don't care about finding a way to pay it back, so it seems that the relationship with others is too strange.

Finally, remember to accept this kind of favor with peace of mind, if others are in trouble and you don't help, then the result will be that no colleagues will want to get along with you in the future.

Relationships are deepened in the course of each exchange, and if you really don't want to owe someone anything, it's best to refuse someone's help at the beginning!

Anyone in this world who does anything for you, you have to be grateful.

Therefore, there is no need to divide the kindness into large and small, since others are kind to you, you only need to be grateful, treat others sincerely, and cherish such fate.

Marriage should not be involved because of repaying the favor, which is one of the taboos in marriage.

The people who have truly helped you selflessly do not ask for anything in return.

I've met a lot of people who have been kind to me, and it has only strengthened my positive attitude towards life. And I've been helping others within my power right now.

So don't be burdened by your thoughts and live a positive life. When you can, help those in need.

My first reaction was a little shocked, then thankful. I have found that people nowadays are more and more reluctant to accept help from others, afraid of things that are too big, and people can't afford to pay favors, and things that are too small don't have to trouble others. Returning favors has become the reason why people are reluctant to speak, but have you ever thought that if you don't give others the opportunity to help you, how can you have the opportunity to establish a deep friendship with others?

China is a humane society, you help me and I help you, so that as the days go by, they will be more familiar with each other, and the relationship will be better.

It's not too big, and it seems that according to the logic above, you will feel that it seems to make some sense. But in the face of the help of more strangers, and the help of gathering sand into a tower, gathering armpits into a fur, can you be relieved?

Last year, I had a friend who had a serious illness and needed a huge amount of medical bills to go to **. In fact, a large group of our friends wanted her to start a fundraiser as soon as possible, and then try to help her a little, so that it would not give her too much psychological burden. However, this fundraiser waited for about half a year to be launched, because she really had no choice at that time.

It didn't take long for the ** fee fundraiser to be almost over, and with the help of the fundraiser, she successfully underwent the operation, but she couldn't calm down.

Although it is very heartwarming to be helped by so many people who know and don't know. However, as long as she remembered that she couldn't repay this kind of favor, she was very sad and couldn't go. Not only financial help, but also moral support, psychological comfort.

She couldn't have peace of mind.

One day, our teacher gave her **, talked about it, and also expressed this complicated emotion in her heart. The teacher told her that you should be happy, and although on the surface, it seems that everyone is helping you, but in fact, you are helping everyone. Seeing this, you must be as confused as I am.

The teacher went on to say that it was your illness, your suffering, and your fundraising actions that inspired the good thoughts and compassion of the people, and you helped them accumulate merit. Moreover, today you need help, so many people who you don't know and know are willing to help you because you have accumulated good in your past life or before. When the teacher said this, she burst into tears and was relieved at once.

When you encounter difficulties, people can take the initiative to help you, which is a recognition of you and an expression of their kindness, and we should gladly accept it, rather than have other ideas.