Is it hard for women to forget their first love? Why?

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her will make you happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

I've tried, and I've succeeded. I don't know if it's feasible for you, right? But you can give it a try.

First lovers often make people only remember each other's strengths, and even the shortcomings that make people linger will slowly fade with the loss of time. Between first lovers, they generally show their best side in front of each other, and hide their shortcomings or shortcomings, so young boys and girls often see each other's advantages. Even if you think of the other party's willfulness and stubbornness or other problems after the breakup, you will often be covered by its advantages, and then you feel that your reasons for breaking up are too superficial.

And most people will deeply blame themselves for their lack of understanding of the other party, blame themselves for not communicating effectively with the other party properly, and blame themselves for being too naïve for rashly proposing to break up with the other party. It's just that he refuses to bow his head for the sake of face.

The characteristics of first love are first of all innocence, without the slightest secular immersion, two hearts attract each other by nature and sincerity, and often have the longing mood of "not seeing each other for a day, such as every three autumns". As long as the two sides look at each other for a moment, thousands of words will be in it. When he was 16 years old, a man fell in love with a delicate and dexterous girl, and every day he was thrilled to see her. That girl also loved him, and once equated herself with Lin Daiyu, with lingering feelings and teary eyes.

After the two separated, the young man couldn't hold back his longing, and actually knelt on the ground and wrote love letters on the edge of the bed, pouring out his love without a teacher. The first love that is so engrossed in is really touching. He later paid a heavy price for the relationship - suffering from a severe nervous breakdown and mental depression, and it was not until he became more mentally endured as he grew older and did he regain his health.

The first love is the first opposite sex that young boys and girls can contact with their true hearts in addition to their families. It's like suddenly seeing a bright light in the vast sea, which will make people involuntarily yearn for infinity. Therefore, first love is often the most sincere and selfless, the most desperate, and the most loving.

First love is like the ripples caused by throwing a pebble into a calm lake, or like scribbling on white paper with a pencil, even if you try to wipe it with an eraser, it will still leave traces, and this kind of trace can be unforgettable, unforgettable, or regretful for a lifetime.

First lovers often feel the beauty of the other party and feel their heartache only after the breakup. People tend to have a kind of paranoia about things that are difficult for them to get, and they tend to be indifferent to the people or things they can face every day, and once they lose them, they will be heartbroken and regretful. Therefore, in the process of heartache and regret, what is often thought of is the other party's advantages, and what is often thought of is often one's own faults and shortcomings.

The first love is often the perfect and ideal partner in their initial life planning, the ideal color is often greater than the reality of life, each person designs the world of first love according to their own imagination, there is neither the hardships of life nor the trivialities of life, and there is no real life that brings all kinds of unexpected and difficult difficulties that need to be overcome, some are just romances in the world of the two, and some are just fantasy of you and me. Therefore, what is left in the memories are beautiful pieces that do not eat the fireworks of the world.

For the first love after the breakup, most of them will adopt a passive duplicity attitude because of their own face and the ancient adage of "good horses don't eat grass", even if they are very reluctant emotionally or in their hearts, they can never be the first to admit defeat on the surface and in words. Because of this, there are only a handful of first lovers who can successfully enter the wedding hall.

The first love lover is also the first opposite sex that boys and girls love when they first open their love, the kind of brain thinking that is stimulated by hormones, is completely the impulse brought by the first experience of boys and girls, this kind of heartfelt concern for the opposite sex, without the slightest philistine vulgarity, without the slightest emotional impurity, even if it is the ideal of weaving and the planning of their own life is also colorful, full of ideal colors. Therefore, the feelings of first love are often the purest and most intriguing.

Personally, I think it is more difficult for boys to forget their first love, don't look at the boys' usual grin, and they always know how to cherish it more when they lose their feelings.

Women and men who miss their first love more, I believe that many people have first love, first love is very beautiful, and this relationship may always be remembered in their hearts, no matter what the final result is, people who have experienced first love, will remember the first love time, in my personal opinion, whether it is a man or a woman, in fact, it is generally difficult to forget the first love in the heart, because the first love is very sacred, inviolable, especially men, don't look at the feeling of not caring about anything, in fact, the heart is still more delicate, especially for feelings can not be ignored.

When most men find their first girlfriend, they are relatively young, such as when they go to college, they will talk about their first love, that is, their first love, at that time, everyone's feelings are hazy, because they really love each other and are willing to combine with each other, and they are also quite uncomfortable after breaking up, of course, there are many reasons for breaking up, and most of them are because of practical reasons.

Under normal circumstances, men will miss each other more, even after marriage, they may sometimes think of each other, because what they can't get is always in turmoil, and this sentence describes men better.

In fact, in a relationship, it is not said that boys are more difficult to forget or girls are more difficult to forget. It should be said that people who are more emotional and give more people will find it more difficult for them to forget this relationship.

First of all, the attitude towards a relationship depends on a person's personality. Some people have a big personality, and some people have a more delicate personality, so he pays great attention to this relationship, and then it will be difficult to get out of it in the subsequent process.

The second also depends on the amount of time that the two people in the relationship spend together. If two people are together for more than a long time, it will be difficult to get out of this relationship, especially after a few years of unforgettable love, then this relationship will not be forgotten.

Third, it depends on who gives more in the relationship. Because it is difficult to achieve a complete balance in the relationship, generally speaking, there will be a party who pays more feelings or experiences to take care of the other party's mood and grow up with the other party.

In the end, it also depends on the factors of the two people's families, or who gets in touch with the next relationship faster. If the family can relieve the pressure of such a relationship, or if he quickly finds a substitute for the next relationship and enters the next relationship, then it can also promote him to come out of the previous relationship.

Therefore, whether you can get out of the previous relationship depends on the surrounding environment and your attitude towards this relationship. So these combined factors depend on whether you can come out of it, or if you can get a lot of pain.

Actually, I think this question. It varies from person to person. Whether it is a boy or a girl, according to his own situation, he will have different ideas. Generally, women are more memorable for their first love, because women are more sensitive and emotional.

The answer is definitely that boys are more memorable in their first love.

In fact, due to the difference in the way of thinking between men and women, it leads to: men are amorous and infatuated; Women are infatuated and heartless.

Most of our general impression of men is that they are easily distracted. It seems that it is easy for them to see one and love the other, especially for the opposite sex with good looks and figures. The boy falls into empathy.

That's because boys are in an immature stage, and their thinking is easily disturbed by other factors. So when you see something you like, you will be inclined.

That's why we often hear men say: Although I have been in a lot of relationships, I am wholeheartedly in every relationship.

In fact, for first love, it is the first time that a man comes into contact with ignorant feelings. This is a relatively large touch on men's emotional experience.

So men are amorous and infatuated.

Women's way of thinking is more emotional. I care more about how I feel at the moment.

When a female friend is in love, she may enjoy the happiness of the time very much, and there will be an extremely painful stage ......... after the breakup

But after a long time, if a woman has a new boyfriend or starts a family, they care about what they are experiencing now, and they don't think about their first love or the situation at that time. There will even be some women who will be disgusted and reject their first love.

From this point of view, women are actually more inclined to be infatuated and ruthless. When you love, you love vigorously, and when you don't love, you let go completely. (Actually, I appreciate the free and easy love of female friends, unlike boys who pretend to be calm and deceive themselves.) ）

Therefore, men are amorous and infatuated, and women are infatuated and heartless.

For first love, it is often more difficult for boys to forget.

Kiss hello boy.

Boys should be more forgettable, first love in the hearts of boys can be described as sacrosanct, maybe things have changed, the heart is still thinking about the first love of her, speaking of first love, many men have tears in their eyes, first love in their hearts is never get the pain, speaking of forgetting, then those women make men unforgettable? What do those women look like?

In the modern world, both men and women are disgusted by such abusive behavior, and on the contrary, everyone yearns for loyal love. Women who are very serious about love, who swear to defend the woman they love, even if they break up in the future, they will still want to find such a woman as their lifelong partner.

Lolita-style women should be said that there is no one who will not like it, they are like a kind of holy light appreciated by both the elegant and the vulgar, quietly taking away men's pride and trampling on men's self-esteem to worthless. Despite this, modern men's pursuit of such women has risen to an extreme.

Maybe many people's first love happened in their teenage years, and the woman at that time should be the cutest. A savage woman may not be liked by many people, then you are wrong On the contrary, such a girl can arouse the boy's desire to conquer more, so such a girl boy also likes it very much.

No matter what our attitude is towards the first love, but at least there is one thing we understand very well, that is, the first love brings us a lot of beauty and reluctance, the beauty is that the pure emotions at that time are not mixed with any material, and we are reluctant to be young and frivolous and do not know how to cherish, and we can only lament for the first love.

As the saying goes, "The hardest thing for a man to forget is his last woman, and the hardest thing for a woman to forget is often her first man." ”

There are many such examples in real life, and it is often men who like the new and hate the old, and most of them are women. It's not that men have bad character, but it's related to men's adventurous nature.

Women are more cautious and strict in the choice of spouses and the examination room, and once they are in love, they will be deeper and more unforgettable.

In contrast, men's physiology allows men to spread their genes widely without having to be focused on one.