Is it really hard for people to forget the past? Why can t people forget the pain of the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
3 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Whether you like someone or love someone, there's no way to forget it anytime soon! After all, people are flesh and blood! No one can be truly ruthless!

    Me too! I love someone psychologically, but he doesn't love me! He deceived me!

    But I don't hate him, I still hope that he can live happily and happily! He won't turn back even if he knows what he's doing, but he'll do it anyway! I remember a line from a TV series that said, "Sometimes there are things that we will do even though we know that there is no result, and I just hope that you will remember all the good you have for him, even if it is only a little" I like this line very much!

    I wish he remembered that I was kind to him, but he didn't! It's hard to give up, but you have to do your best to forget! Even if you really can't forget him, I will sincerely wish him happiness from the bottom of my heart!

    If you like or love someone, you don't have to be with him, as long as he lives happily, you will feel content! Time can dilute everything! I've always believed in this saying!

    Don't think about the happy and unhappy things, you will never forget them for the rest of your life! Think about other things and let yourself focus on one thing! It's going to fade away!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you can't forget it, remember it, since you think that what you can't forget is pain, then it means that you are living better now than in the past. In a person's life, there will always be some things, since you can't forget it, put it in your heart and take it as a small episode in your life. People always have to go through ups and downs.

    That's the real life, and that's a necessary stage of your growth. Don't think you're the most painful, have the most painful memories. Everyone has an unspeakable painful memory in their heart, but it has not been expressed.

    Believing that their future will be very happy, should be those that are already in the past. You're one of the lucky ones!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

    True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

    True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

    Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, we must learn to use perfect eyes to appreciate a person who is not perfect.

    If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

    Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

    Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

    If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Maybe a person's innocent confession will not have a second quarrel.

    Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

    It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

    It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

    In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

    With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

    It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

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