I m so annoyed and confused right now I ve been annoyed and confused lately, and I don t know what I

Talk to him and tell him what you think.

Let him know that you need him.

Good communication, for people who love each other, this is not a problem.

Also, you have to have faith in yourself and don't think too much.

The pressure on him should be quite high.

Therefore, you need to care for him gently and considerately.

It is recommended that you stop smoking, not to mention that it is not good for your health, and it will also have a negative impact on your image.

Really, no man likes his wife to smoke.

What do you think? Have fun.

How can two people who don't communicate last long You talk to him about your troubles Is there any solution Can he change jobs Have time for your job It's not that you don't think about him It's not that you're willful It's that you're looking for a way out of your love Talk to him.

Let's go for some fun and shift your focus, but sometimes the feeling of emptiness in your heart can't be solved by relying on these, you still have to rely on yourself to adjust slowly, or find a job to pass the time.

I think it would be better if you could find some entertainment for yourself, such as surfing the Internet more, chatting with others, and communicating with others, you won't be thinking about it all day at home.

Don't be so sad, everyone has their own things, you can still see your boyfriend every day, my girlfriend I only see once or twice a year and I don't have much time to be together, you are already very happy. Let's talk more.

Sometimes I have this situation too, and only by finding the source of the annoyance can we cure it. Here are a few possible scenarios:

1. It may be that the body is uncomfortable but you don't realize it, because people will be annoyed when they get sick.

2. Maybe something bad has happened recently, but no matter what happens, remember a truth and go with the flow.

3. It may be that the previous things or contradictions have not been resolved, so as soon as you think of something, you will be annoyed, that is to say, that thing will annoy you, you just need to remember what the unhappy thing you think of is, and think about whether there is still an unresolved part of those things, and then solve it. That's all for now.

People's mood is a difficult thing to control, sometimes the mood will be inexplicably upset, feel that they can't control their emotions, and feel upset because the patient has been living in a high-pressure environment for a long time. For example, students are burdened with heavy academic work and expectations in all aspects, and their psychological mood fluctuations will be very abrupt; Then there are the emotional pressures in life, such as parents' expectations and pickiness, marital trivialities, and physical health, which can cause sudden upset.

Genetics. Anxiety disorders are closely related to family history. Studies have shown that in identical twins, if one person gets the disease, the other person has only a 50% chance of getting the disease. If one of the parents has an anxiety disorder, the chance of the child getting the disease is 25%; If both parents are anxiety patients, the incidence of the child increases to 50 to 75%.

Studies have found that patients with a family history of genetic anxiety disorder have abnormalities on chromosome 11.

Childhood experiences. Studies have found that separation anxiety in childhood, that is, anxiety, panic, physical discomfort experienced when separated from parents, as well as going to school or even before going to bed, and in adulthood, these people also feel anxious when they leave a "safe" person or place.

Parents show an overly cautious attitude.

They pay too much attention to some potential dangers around their children, such as "be very careful of the people around you", "don't go out when it rains, you will catch a cold". The more frightened and overly cautious you are in front of your child, the more your child will see the world as a dangerous place.

Parents are overly critical.

If parents are too strict and too perfect, their children will not be very sure that they are accepted or not, and they will work harder to win approval. As an adult, I always feel insecure, afraid of "losing face", and often restrain my words and deeds.

Accumulated stress over a long period of time.

Accumulated stress can be caused by unresolved psychological conflicts that last for years, or it can be due to difficulties experienced at a certain point in life. It is common for a person to experience 1-2 events in a year, but a series of events that occur at the same time can lead to chronic stress and exhaustion.

Short-term precipitating factors.

Long-term factors, such as genetics, childhood experiences, and long-term accumulated stress, are precursors to anxiety disorders, but short-term factors are often the real cause of panic attacks. Significant personal losses: death, divorce, separation, unemployment, illness, severe financial hardship, can cause the first panic attack.

The road is your own path, you are the only self in the world, and when you do something, you can't bring the emotions of life to work.

If the mood changes, it will be pleasant, and if the mood changes, it will be annoying.

The road is not under your feet, the road is in your heart...

Actually, you're worried about work! I also feel that my parents can't help you in your work and don't support it!

People are confused sometimes! But frankly speaking: always working will not achieve your dreams, and you will work for others for a lifetime! Because you will slowly find that the money you make is never enough for you to spend!

Life is realistic, and money is needed for both dreams and ideal lives! Now I suggest you find a way to make money first! Only if you are really financially independent and don't rely on your parents!

Your personality can be truly complete! Set a time for yourself! Failing to achieve your goals and ideals within the allotted time!

Then don't waste any more time, listen to your parents, and maybe you'll find new fun in your new role!

Make money and make yourself strong learn to grow! I'm sure that's what your parents would love to see!

What's the most important thing for you? The easiest step you can take for the most important thing to work towards it.

Tell me what kind of things are bothering you and give you an answer.