Because my girlfriend is so messed up My girlfriend used to be messy, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The girl has already said this to you, you shouldn't doubt it, if you are still in the mind, it is too ungentlemanly, the boy should be generous, she is telling you the truth, just because of the first feelings hidden in her heart and reluctant, you should also think about it, what if she doesn't tell you the truth? What if she really saw him come to her and gave up on you? What should you do?

    You like her, so you care a lot about her relationship with others, but don't be too deliberate about how others deal with things, although she is your girlfriend, but her affairs have to be handled by herself, people have already told you, like you, what are you afraid of, what are you worried about? And love is a thing, it's yours is yours, others can't snatch it if they want to, it's not yours, how can you worry that it's not yours in the end, so everything is fate, what you have now, just grasp it, don't worry too much, it's useless, you can do your best! Best wishes!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Take her for a break and go on a trip that might help her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Girls have their own way of dealing with problems, she doesn't like to do things too badly, and she can't bear to hurt others, it doesn't mean that she still thinks about A or that she doesn't love you, she doesn't hide her connection with A, it's that she is willing to tell you, communicate with you, and don't want you to misunderstand when the time comes, but obviously, you still misunderstand her, be nice to her, and apologize to her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <> "Let's see if you really love her, if you really love, then you have to learn to be patient, otherwise it's better to separate." Since you mind her past so much, then when you face her, you will also think of her past, and then come to torture yourself and torture her. Because of your mind, there will be a gap between you and you, and you can't be honest with each other as lovers should be.

    You'll think for a split second that she might have done some intimate behavior with that guy, and then you'll be miserable. Since she now chooses to be wild and loves you, you should cherish her, holding on to that incident will only make your relationship fade, make you both tired and torture each other, do you hope that your life will always be in pain in the future? Or do you want to see her hold someone else's hand and live a sweet life in the future?

    Since you can't let go, don't let go. Live your life with peace of mind and make your life happy. Don't let your future self regret the current hesitation, don't delay the precious time you spent with her like this, and let the past pass.

    This mind is like a thorn in your heart, no matter how well two people get along, it will also make you feel a pain from time to time. When this pain is accumulated to the extreme, you will become unscrupulous and say some ugly things to hurt your girlfriend's heart. So since I mind it very much, I choose to break up, let myself go, and let go of the girls.

    Wait for you to leave her for a while, and then look at your own heart. Is it that I love her more, or do I care more about her past? If you can't stand life without her, then congratulations, you are truly in love with your girlfriend.

    Compared with the person you love, the past that bothered you will become insignificant, bravely go to her to get back together and ask for forgiveness. Of course, if you are in a relaxed and happy mood after separating from the girl, it proves that you really can't accept it, and breaking up is the right choice. In the end, I just want to say that if the relationship between the two is long, why bother holding on to each other's past.

    Looking at the point, most people have been in love several times.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The result in your mind is only one Tired of playing Throw... 100% so.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To love her is to accept her second chastity.

    As long as the heart is yours, it is enough.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You just have to think clearly about whether you love her or not, you said that you can't do without her, and if you really love someone, no matter what she becomes or what she has done, she will forgive.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your wife, take your own attention!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you love her, don't care about her past, everyone has a dark history, if you love her, then love her well, protect her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love her, you should accept everything about her, including her history.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ah, what do you want to say??? Why is there nothing!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Does he really love you now? If so, please don't worry too much about her and love her well. If you keep struggling like this, I guess it won't end well.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When the interruption continues, it is chaotic. If you like her, she likes you, and she is willing to guard you like a jade, you try to open your mind to accept it, if not, you will make up your mind to break it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Okay, give it to me, and I'll show you it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you love each other, don't care about her past and experience, grasp the present well, and live the future well.

    If you really mind her past and can't accept her from your heart, separate decisively, don't just contact each other anymore, so that you will live a relaxed and happy life.

    In fact, no one is right or wrong, there is no good and bad, everyone has their own experience and unique life, if you like it, you like it, if you don't like it, give up, it's so simple, don't get entangled, you can't suffer yourself, happiness is the most important thing.

    It can be seen that she should be sincere, give her a chance to see if it is possible, such a thing, only you know best in your heart, you can make a choice, others can't help you.

    In any case, you still want to take it lightly, don't take it too seriously, life is rare and confused, there is no perfection, there will be regrets and shortcomings, just slowly adapt to acceptance, don't be too difficult for yourself, learn to love yourself.

    Meeting is fate, especially not easy, we must do it and cherish it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    But a word of caution, if you can't promise to be the last one, it's best not to be one of them.

    Because anything is possible.

    The seed is the cause, the harvest is the effect, and everything is made by the mind.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Do you think you can take back her heart yourself? If you hesitate, you have no confidence. She's not for you.

    You make it clear to her. Find a girl with a good character and a good heart! Don't let yourself regret it.

    In the past, she cared about a man. Don't feel sorry for her. Nothing.

    You have doubts about her, even if you are together after marriage, the conflict still keeps happening. If you don't believe her, don't delay each other. She doesn't deserve your liking.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Look for yourself. Look at her too, don't care if it's true love. But for the sake of happiness in the future, for the sake of reality, no one can live without anyone, give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you really love her, don't look at her past. Look at the future. If you look at her past and are disgusted, then you don't really love her. I hope you think it through, otherwise you will harm others and yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you love her very much, you won't feel that she is dirty and come here to ask questions, so follow your heart, if she really likes you, she won't do these things, if she does, she doesn't really love you, but are you sure you really love her?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    All that came before her. There must be a reason for that, too. It's forced by life.

    She didn't hide it from you either. You didn't dislike her before. Why do you think about it again now?

    Since the two of you love each other, you don't have to worry about her past. The two of you can go to a place where you don't have acquaintances. Start your new life.

    I wish you all happiness.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can accept this kind of thing, you will be together, and if you can't accept it, you will be separated. You feel like you love her now, but after a long time you realize that love can also be easily spoiled.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    is talking about something else In order to satisfy your desires The desire is too strong How can a prostitute be friends Find someone who loves you can you casually You will be satisfied Modern men live for sex Women live for money And the righteous and kind people of cultivation are to stay away from desires Which are you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Give her to me, I like such a wife.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    **, there are many kind women, they can give birth to children for you, there is no need to surround one person.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Hello friend.

    1. Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect it to be complete, but we can make it true.

    Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What the future holds, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money...

    At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers. . .

    When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it.

    2. If one day, someone who can't come back disappears, and someone who can't leave is gone, it doesn't matter, leave a wrong person, in order to meet a right person, time will bring the right person to you. Before that, all you have to do is to take good care of yourself, make yourself better, I believe that there is a person who is walking on the road to meet you, life is a grand encounter, if you understand, please cherish it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's better to honestly admit your mistakes.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's okay, just explain it to her!

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