It s really hard to forget someone, what should I do to forget, pain

Updated on psychology 2024-03-03
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't forget it, why break up, and why miss it if you break up

    If you love deeply, it is really difficult to forget someone, and separation will become a kind of longing. It's just that this kind of longing can never take you back to the way you used to be. Be brave and get used to it. One day when you find the one who really suits you, you will find out

    Be happy, girl, don't put too much thought into feelings, like me, alone, I was confused some time ago, but now I understand it. Why bother with yourself. Just be happy. Hehe. Support you baby!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Upstairs is so right, that's how I forgot my first two boyfriends, but how can I forget now? I still plan to use the method of empathy and don't fall in love, which is really effective. But when is the head? Depressed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I had the same experience as you, and I had the same experience as you! Although I know that it is Hou who is going to abandon me, I am very sad! But I persevered, started my new life again, and erased the shadow of the past!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can't forget you I can't go to the ends of the earth Just be by my side If love is a mire of pain Let's run away together.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Remember him, and you can live a happy life!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't force yourself to forget what you can't forget, the wounded heart will leave a scar that can't be erased, just let the scar become a good memory in the future

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There's only one way to forget.

    It's about falling in love with another person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's hard to try to forget love.

    It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

    Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

    Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love, like love songs, is the highest level of lingering. The most poignant thing is not revenge, but regret. The best love must have regrets. That regret turned into an aftermath, and I kept it in my heart for a long time. The most poignant love, you don't have to call the sky and grab the earth, just look at each other without words.

    Disappointment, sometimes, is also a blessing. Because there is something to expect, there will be disappointment. Regret is also a kind of happiness. Because there are still things that you regret. Pursue love, and then discover that love has always been a thousand things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Dear landlord.

    Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.

    Even if you go on like this.

    Not to mention that there will be no good results.

    Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.

    Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

    At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.

    To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

    Maybe it's easier said than done.

    But all I can say is.

    If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

    Maybe I was like you in the past.

    Time really can change everything.

    Learn to be strong.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you want your words to be in exchange for this result?

    I don't know, maybe you have the same problems as me. I just want to say, since you have chosen to do so, it means that you have decided to do this, to forget about someone you were deeply affected by but may not be able to love now? Then since you have done it, don't regret it, pain is inevitable, but Yiken will be much better than before, or why say separate?

    Hehe, time, time will forget a person's.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Forgetting a person either takes time or a new love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A person will fall in love with many people in his life, and when you truly find your own happiness, you will feel that the previous damage is a kind of wealth, and it will make you cherish it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello! Find more things to do for yourself! Don't let yourself be idle, just after a while.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Find someone who can replace him, or do something that keeps you busy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Forgetting is not forgetting, you can only find one person to occupy his (her) place.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Here's the process. You're going to meet someone else.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    From then on, nothing about him was mentioned.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Just wait for the time to pass, and don't talk about it with anyone else, because every time you finish it, it will only remind you again.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Go with the flow and don't put too much pressure on yourself. As long as everything is business as usual, even if you are not used to it, keep going.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Fall in love again, forget that you need something to fill.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Memory is not something you can forget if you want to, unless you have selective amnesia, the key is how to face it, you can not let it go, but you can't think about it, to be honest, I also stay in the stage where I can't let go, think about it, there is not only one important person in life, maybe it hasn't appeared yet.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......

    If you can't change anything with your efforts, just let it be!!

    I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

    In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

    Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote; I don't know what bad things I did to him in my last life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life, so I'm better.

    If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......

    Many people have had the experience of falling out of love, breaking up, and suffering, perhaps this is a necessary process in life, and only in this way will they mature and grow up ......Learn to forget, learn to give up ......Come out early and give yourself a little more chance! You'll reap another piece of ......You have to do it!

    Or you can keep these in your heart, treat them as an experience, and savor them until you are old, even if it is a bad thing, you may feel that it is worth remembering at that time! Anyway, it's also my own personal experience!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    .Try to seriously check yourself to see if you are living in a positive emotional situation. Count it again, you are also equal, cherishing that you have no regrets, silently caring and guarding you; Or someone who has nurtured or nurtured you?

    For example, family, such as teachers. Will you inadvertently ignore the people who have been silently and unconditionally caring for you? In the depths of their implicit hearts, will they also deeply care about you from time to time, thinking about whether you are peaceful, smooth, joyful, happy, and progressive in life?

    For those who truly care for themselves unconditionally. Have you reciprocated your gratitude to them in a timely and relative manner with sincere actions?

    Encourage you to slowly let go of your hands, and at the same time, also turn your attachment to this fate that cannot be forced for the time being into the driving force behind caring for yourself and the people who really care for you.

    Because I have experienced the same emotional distress, I have also been confused for a while. Later, I found that this would add a psychological burden to the person who really cared for me, so I actively compensated, and it turned out that I came out in this way.

    After a while, when you also discover and feel the positive value behind this trouble, congratulations, uncle is here to shake your hand.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Always trying to forget, in fact, is constantly reminding yourself, remembering this person, these things! As a result, the memory is deepened, and of course it cannot be forgotten. In fact, the best way is not to think about forgetting, at least not to forget deliberately.

    Go with the flow, divert your attention, and those people and things will slowly fade away. This is my experience. No one can forget anything!

    Time can dilute everything!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It is impossible to forget a person who has been with you for a long time, so don't say anything and want to forget.

    That's just self-defeating thoughts.

    You have to be brave enough to face it yourself.

    If you want to give up on your friends, then use time and indifference to treat eight, if you still want to redeem it, try again.

    Give yourself and your friends a chance eight

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I hope you can read my answer thank you If you really love, it is impossible to forget, only slowly forget with time, love someone for only a second, but forget even a lifetime of time, maybe: reluctant to forget the result will only deepen the memory of him, more and more miss him, everything let time slowly fade away, love has penetrated into the soul, forget the difficulties, it is better to forget, save the reluctant to the soul Love is not complete, there will always be courage to face it, Hurt is inevitable, it's not easy to give up, but the result is doomed What you have to do is not to run away from what you think. It's normal, it's easy to get back to zero and get together, and I think you'd do too.

    Then it will only take time to resolve your heartache. Or find the love you want. "I Like You" is signed, do not plagiarize

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