Left ear in, right ear out! What s the problem?

Parents shouting for a long time have a certain impact on their children. Children are afraid of criticism from their parents, and they are protecting themselves.

It may be because the child is not interested in what you are saying, or the child is not paying attention and does not hear what you are saying at all, or is not speaking in the right way.

The first point is that he is not interested in this question, so he goes in the left ear and out the right ear, and the second point is that he doesn't listen to your question at all, so he forgets it after listening to it, and the third point is that such a person doesn't care about you at all, so he listens to things in his left ear and listens to the right ear.

Left ear in and right ear out: one ear in, one ear out, as the saying goes, meaning figuratively not taking other people's words to heart. Explanation: The parable does not take other people's words to heart.

Additional information: The sayings are as follows:

1. Hundred stars are not as good as January.

The light emitted by a hundred stars is not as bright as the light emitted by a moon, and the metaphor is that quantity is not as good as quality.

2. Pull out the radish and bring out the puree.

Pulling out the radish and bringing out the mud is a metaphor for He Yuan's unclean and unfavorable work, and bringing a patting brother to implicate other people or things, and it is also a metaphor for causing unnecessary trouble.

3. A full man does not know that a hungry man is hungry.

Parables cannot put themselves in the shoes of people in need.

4. Regardless of white cats or black cats, catching mice is a good cat.

This sentence is a common saying in Sichuan, and it is a visual expression of everything based on reality.

5. The saddle does not leave the horse's back, and the armor does not leave the general.

The horse does not unsaddle, the man does not unarmour, and the metaphor is always in a state of high vigilance.

6. Don't put your eggs in one basket. Stupid attack.

Warning people not to gamble, to put all their energy and capital into one thing, should make multiple preparations, and leave a few back roads.

7. Don't hang yourself from a tree.

When you encounter a difficult situation, you should be flexible and do not cling to one choice.

8. Catch sparrows with closed eyes.

The metaphor is to do things blindly.

9. Sing white face.

White Face: The villain character in Peking Opera. It refers to playing the opposite role and taking a harsh attitude towards things.

10. Sing against the stage.

The metaphor is to take action contrary to the other person, or to deliberately bring the other person down.

The left ear goes in, the right ear goes out, and the problem is that his attention is not on you. You need to look him in the eye and tell him what he needs to do seriously, and his attention will be on you before he listens carefully to what you have to say.

It's not that the child doesn't eat oil and salt. When he is criticized, he is also very sad in his heart, so he will automatically block some things that make him unhappy and forget about them as soon as possible afterwards.

Because what the other party doesn't like to hear, or doesn't consider it from the other party's point of view, it's blindly instilling their own ideas.