My daughter in law threatens to leave me and disagree with my parents, what should I do?

What to do about this, what age is it now, it is normal and reasonable not to live with the in-laws, the living habits and concepts of the two generations are completely different, you may think it's okay, as a daughter-in-law living together will definitely feel very uncomfortable in all aspects, after all, for the daughter-in-law in-laws are just strangers who are not related by blood. The person you want to live with until you grow old is your daughter-in-law and not your parents, and it is very clear how to choose. Besides, most of the elderly who understand human accidents will be very conscious and will not disturb the lives of their children.

It's just annoying. Individuals still like the kind of independent elderly, their own space, children often go back to visit their parents when they are free, love and care should be more reflected in mutual understanding, the law of nature is that people grow up to leave their parents, form their own family, and our children should be the same in the future. Besides, who doesn't get married to live their own little life, has their own little world, and doesn't like to be disturbed by other people.

Since the daughter-in-law said so, there must be her truth, everyone wants to have their own private space, you may feel that your parents are old and distressed, and your father wants to take them to their side to be filial, but when you really receive a series of trivial things after you are around, I don't believe that you will not be tired, at that time you will not be happy, your wife will not be happy, your parents will not feel comfortable with the elderly, it is necessary to maintain a certain distance between people, filial piety to the elderly does not necessarily have to be by the side, At that time, was it you filial to the old man or your daughter-in-law serving her parents? Or that your parents took care of you like they did when you were younger? Anyway, I feel that the probability of you taking care of your parents is very low, so let's live separately, no matter who buys the house, the couple must always have their own private space, and the distance produces beauty.

Libei, now threatens not to let me live, and in the future, there will be no pension money and no medical treatment ......, sooner or later, you have to leave.

Talk about your heart, beat her up if you can't be convinced, ask for the bride price back, blow her away, and divorce (tsk.

From getting married, living together, all kinds of inconvenience, all kinds of helplessness, it's really tiring, two years ago, I said let's go out to live, and then together there will definitely be problems, but he always uses various excuses not to go out, and then the contradiction escalates to divorce, but everywhere I say I don't go out, and all the responsibility is put on me, in the eyes of outsiders, he is the best man, but the helplessness only knows the despair when I experience it, and I can't see a little hope for the future, I can only choose to divorce, Now in the eyes of outsiders, I am in the blessing and do not know the blessing, but only when I experience it knows that as long as I can live with the elderly, it is still good to be separated, which is a good choice for the elderly and their families.

Your daughter-in-law is right, if the old man has a house, it is better not to live together, unless your relationship can withstand all kinds of tests.

If your daughter-in-law and your mother have a conflict, it is better to live separately, otherwise, the most serious consequence will be the separation of your wife.

Filial piety to parents is the responsibility of children. If your daughter-in-law only thinks about herself as a criterion, then. I think you can live with your parents.

If your parents come to live, who will be in charge of your mother or your daughter-in-law? Who does the housework? Who keeps your payroll card?

Who brings the baby? Who do you help when your personality is inappropriate? Which side do you tolerate when your living habits are different?

How do you deal with that conflict? When your mother-in-law abuses your daughter-in-law, will you be a mother-in-law? Mother-in-law can't get used to seeing her daughter-in-law love beauty, which side are you on when she stops her daughter-in-law from putting on makeup and dressing up?

Let's leave, how good it is to live happily with my parents.

It's very simple, get a divorce quickly. The three major blessings of middle-aged men, promoted to become rich and die of their wives!

It is not recommended to live together, you can rent a house in the same community for parents to live in, so that the son can go to see and take care of it.

Everyone who has come here understands that they should not live together, the living habits of each family are different, and few can get along well.

The twisted melon is not sweet, make more money, and buy another set nearby for your parents to live in.

Why do you get married when your children are older, that is, to start a new life and organize your own family. It's good to be separated.

You're dead! The family arrangement is not good, what to do son, husband, father.

Bring your parents-in-law with you.

Just move in and be licensed, who else ask?

Why do you have to live together? Wouldn't it be better to have a headache when you think about it?

I don't agree to live with my in-laws!

I just wanted to ask why I had to live with my parents.

If you don't agree, you have to agree, otherwise where to live, try your best to adjust the conflict and stabilize her first.

In fact, you can let your parents go to live in their hometown.

Alas, it's hard work

But in a two-person world, someone has to accommodate the other.

Have you ever seen a mother-in-law who can endure it, it's too rare, so let's continue to endure it hard, it's more reliable.

Endure the calm for a while.

Ninja is NB, forbearance can make it unreasonable and become acceptable.

Forbearance can make it easy to deal with.

Forbearance can be bullied by her and become a deep love between husband and wife.

Forbearance can make father-in-law and mother-in-law, peace of mind and admiration.

Forbearance can make many friends, and it is rare to praise it.

Sending you a chapter of the book can help you to always be calm about all kinds of tribulations, and can make the family toss and turn it into a trivial matter.

Forgot to tell you that many people are like you and that you are not alone.

As long as you can endure it, there will always be a day when you can feel comfortable.

Don't blame me for not speaking well, men who can't coax their wives are generally men who can't afford the door, and they must have some vices that women can't accept, such as being small-minded, calculating, poor responsibility, playful, not diligent, and so on. If you want to change, you will either suppress her or kick her. If you are reluctant to kick, or you can't get married and don't want to be weak, then you can only wait for death.

Think about it, her problem is still her own problem, people must reflect on their own problems when they go home, whether it is a bad problem, if it is, it must be changed, don't repeat it like this, and go to the father-in-law's house to express their determination to ask for their understanding.

Everything needs to be grasped to a degree, and the same is true for families. First of all, there is nothing wrong with her beating you and forbearance, but afterwards you need to explain to her that it is wrong to beat someone, don't have a next time, unprincipled forbearance, and if it develops, it will cause more serious consequences; Secondly, you can take her to see a psychiatrist to find out if it is caused by the disease; Third, as long as you have a good relationship, it is in vain for her parents to want to destroy your family, and there are generally no such parents.

A marriage without love is really a tragedy, and it is even more miserable to encounter a bad human nature.

If true. I am suggesting that you take the initiative to divorce. Because she already she doesn't love you and she doesn't love herself.

Bag, leave, you can't find the object or what?