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Because love only belongs to youth, and we are no longer young, we are not so persistent in love, or we have seen through love, understand what love is, and accept the reality, and there is nothing to look forward to for love, so we are downplayed.

I am Chinese New Year's Eve a year old today, I have been married for seven years, from the day I got married, I understood that youth left me, but at that time I was still naïve to think, but I still have the person I love, and the person who loves me, so I will be glad that I met someone who is in love, at that time I thought that marrying the person I love, love can last for a long time, but in real life, love is really a very empty thing, it may exist, but when we face real life, it may hide and never come out again.

We have been married for seven years, I have been thinking about whether I still love my husband, and finally the answer I got is that maybe there is love, but it is more responsibility, you read that right, it is responsibility, the reason why we have been married for seven years and are still together, the reason why I don't love him anymore, we are still together, more out of responsibility, than love.

When love faces reality, you will understand that love is really vulnerable in the face of reality, everything in our life needs to use money, but love is the most taboo to talk about money, we can't drink wind and eat dew all our lives, then we have to face the reality, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, everything needs money, when the money in your love is magnified, you will find that it really doesn't matter if you love or not, as long as you can barely live on it.

But young people don't understand this truth, in their lives, there is not so much firewood, rice, oil and salt, a person eats enough and the whole family is not hungry, he doesn't understand why people after marriage have become so realistic and numb, just because after seeing the love broken by reality, we no longer think that love is an indispensable thing in this world, but feel that in fact, we can live well without it.

Because he was very simple when he was young and had a special yearning for love, he would put a lot of thought into it when he fell in love, and he would naturally love to death. But as you grow older, your social experience increases, and your own love experience, especially those who can't stand it in love, you will see love very lightly, and you don't even want to touch love anymore.

Because only after you get married, you will know that two people will live most of their lives together for a long time, and there is not so much romance at all, and even as long as two people don't quarrel, there is not much difference between them.

Because when people are young, they are still in love when they first met, so they will love to death, and when they are old, it is a time of mutual sister and tolerance.

Because when you are young, you are strong-blooded, naïve in thought, dare to love and hate, and after years of precipitation, you will feel ridiculous.

Because when I was young, I had too little life experience and took love too seriously, and when I got old, because I experienced a lot, I saw the heat and coldness of the world, and love was only a small part of life.

Because when you are young, you will be more impulsive, and when you are old, you will experience a lot of things, and you will see it very indifferently.

Because when I was young, I was ignorant, thinking that love was the whole of life, and when I was old, I saw through everything, and I didn't care so much.

Because these young people have experienced more, they will become more and more Buddhist, and they will become more and more accepting of reality.

One. At the age when love first blooms, even if it is not true love, it is also the most real desire in our hearts for something missing. People with unsatisfactory families of origin crave love, lonely and lonely people find solace, and people in distress grasp the life-saving straw.

It may not be about the planning of the days ahead, it may not be about all kinds of worldly ideas, it may not be about what repercussions must be received, but the slightest flame can be fiercely ignited in the hearts of our naïve but brave teenagers.

Two. Because the love of youth happens in the best years, simple and happy. Scarcity is expensive, and what you can't get is the best, and people always like to overestimate the value of those things that can't be obtained.

When people feel that they will miss out or not get what they want, they will rise up and pursue it harder. Therefore, when you realize that someone, a certain relationship is not easy for you to get, and subconsciously you will feel more precious and want to get it, and all the blocking elements may make you beautify the relationship.

We like to be able to block everything, no matter what the reason lies between us, we will feel that this problem can be solved, whether it is naïve or simple, but we always feel that these problems can be solved. This kind of courage is really difficult to get back when you grow up. Four.

Because you can't love when you're young, and at the same time, you don't meet someone who can replace her position in your heart when you grow up, so you will remember him, remember him for a longer time, and remember this feeling more deeply and impressively.

Because when you are young, your mind is not mature enough, and you will be particularly impulsive, and when you are old, time and energy are not so abundant.

Because the mentality has changed, when you are young, you take love very seriously, and when you are old, you will take love very lightly.

When you are young, you have more time and energy, and you will enjoy this process, and when you are old, you don't have this kind of mind at all.