Siwen is chic in the face of a breakup, what kind of mentality do you have in the face of a breakup?

Break up, even if you don't want to be chic, you have to force yourself to be chic, at least on the surface it looks like a chic breakup, do you want to die and live for the person who doesn't love you in front of outsiders, do you want people to persuade you, tell you again and again, the other party is not suitable for you, he doesn't love you anymore, are you willing to come out, I don't want to be so embarrassed when I break up, I think when I am in love, I can accommodate you for you, I can compromise for you, I can give up myself for you, But if you don't love me anymore and choose to leave me, then I will definitely not give in and will not beg you to come back.

I didn't shed a tear in front of him, I didn't say anything in front of our mutual friends that I wanted to save him, and I didn't feel sorry for him once in front of our mutual friends.

Yes, in this relationship, it is you who don't love first, it is you who broke up first, maybe for the winner, what you want to see most is that the person who was dumped can't let go of herself, all kinds of begging herself to give her another chance, and wants to see how much the other party can't let go of him, but you have to understand that the more you do this, the more he will look down on you, and the more he will feel that it is right to leave you.

His heart of victory will also be more and more inflated, will feel that he is so good, will make you a woman after he doesn't love you, and can't let go of him, I don't want to increase his self-confidence after the breakup, I want him to understand that he is not unique, I don't have to do without him, let alone him, anyone can replace his place, so he doesn't think that he broke up, only he is secretly cool, maybe I also wanted to break up a long time ago, but I didn't say it.

Maybe a lot of people will say that I want to die to save face, but so what, I just don't want to make the other person too happy when we break up.

I think my heart is very calm, because since there is no way for two people to be together, then don't be reluctant, let each go of their own life, and pursue the other half that suits you.

In the face of a breakup, I have a very normal mentality, because this is already something that has been expected before, and no one will accompany me for a lifetime, so whoever comes and who goes is the same.

Personally, I think that in the face of a breakup, if the other party's attitude is very resolute and he does not have much hope for the relationship, then it is also a very calm state of mind.

In fact, I should be in a very sad, but forced state of mind, and I will feel very hopeless.

In the face of a breakup, you should have a chic mentality, tell yourself that the past is in the past, and stop thinking about the past.

In the face of a breakup, I am a kind of indifferent mentality, everyone can only accompany you for one trip, he is not the person who will accompany me for a lifetime, it is better to get together and disperse.