Love has faded, do you think you will insist on being with someone you don t love for the sake of yo

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I will choose to settle for the sake of my children, and I will not choose to separate because of the fading of love, because no matter whether I remarry after the divorce, I believe that the love I meet again will also fade, and it is impossible for two people to love so strongly for the rest of their lives, and it is common for us to see and accept that the love in marriage has faded, and we must also accept that the person we once loved the most in the end has become the person who will be now.

    Every relationship is as sweet as honey at the beginning, the heartbeat at that time, the heart at that time, after marriage will be slowly faded by reality, sometimes I am thinking, in fact, love only belongs to us when we are unmarried, and we after marriage, we have to face the reality, it is marriage, it is firewood, rice, oil and salt, we can only love each other when we are in love, only love each other, as long as each other is enough, but it is different when we are married, we can't just have love, we still have to have a life.

    Now go out, look at those little couples on the road, will think in their hearts, cherish the current youth, once married and the youth will die, we must face the reality, love only stays in the youth, the age that is not married, no need to worry about firewood, rice, oil and salt, no need to worry about family trivialities, and once a person is married, no matter how deep the love is, it will eventually wear off a lot because of the long-term married life, and eventually the feelings will fade.

    And now I have been married for more than eight years, at first I will be sad because of the change in feelings, and I will not be able to accept it, and I will feel that this is not the life I want, but then I slowly adapted, and I think this may be about life, we can't always ask each other to love you more like a child, and we can't live only for ourselves like a child, we have our own children, sometimes we have to think about our children when doing things and making decisions, so if you ask me, the feelings have faded, Will I insist on being with someone I don't love for the sake of my children, then mine is for sure.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I wouldn't do it because I felt that if I did, it would make my life more miserable and irresponsible to my children.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think so, in today's society, there are already many couples who are for their children, so that they can feel the warmth of home.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, I don't insist on being with someone I don't love for the sake of my children, because I think it will make me miserable and it will make my children miserable.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, the child's original family is very important, and it is also good to transform the fading of love into a more long-term and stable family relationship.

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