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If you are introverted and don't like to talk, unless you are a person who has a good understanding with you, it will be difficult to make close friends. Make yourself cheerful as soon as possible, talk more, girls talk more about the little things in life, hobbies, and their boyfriends and friends. Fun, good food, etc.
You have to learn to fit in, even though you may not like their topics very much at first, that's okay. You can communicate with them and learn about their preferences, how they speak, etc. Then start with their preferences.
Blend into their conversations. If you talk too much, you will bring your own preferences and opinions into it, so that others can understand you. Slowly there will be a lot of topics.
And you can't just talk to girls. Find out more about the boys' preferences. Talk generously. Boys are more atmospheric and refreshing. Talking to them may also help you become more cheerful.
If you don't like to talk and are only immersed in your own world, it is better to find a few good chat friends. QQ friends and the like, although the network is virtual, but as long as you are willing to look for it, there are also people who really want to make friends with you and be friends. There will be no burden in this face-to-face conversation, and there will be no worries about what to say and what not to say.
It's also a good way to practice speaking as much as possible in this way, so try it.
In fact, making friends is very simple, as long as you are sincere and enthusiastic. Open your heart, there will be a lot of friends.
I wish you a lot of good friends.
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Absolutely, have faith in yourself! Believe in yourself first!
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Surely, different men like different types of girls... Quiet girl likes a lot of people.
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Yes, if you want to believe in yourself, a confident girl is the most beautiful, maybe there is a boy who has a crush on you now, believe in yourself, you will definitely find a boy who loves you and loves you and can protect you.
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Boys don't take the initiative to talk to girls, is it introverted or is it not interested in me?
Boys deal with feelings more actively. If they don't take the initiative to chat, they still don't like it. If they like it, they won't take the initiative.
So, when you meet a boy like that, give up. He's not your thing. Although many people say that boys are not active, probably because they are introverted, if a boy is introverted, especially a girl, he will not take the initiative to contact, and even face-to-face contact may cause blush and heartbeat due to mental stress.
They have no experience in communicating with girls, so when they meet them, they unknowingly develop shyness and incoherent speech. Even boys choose to run because they don't dare to face their nervous selves. Therefore, if a boy is an introvert, but he still has a lot of expectations in his heart, it is not difficult to understand that he will receive your cancellation notice within a few seconds, but this kind of introverted boy is really rare.
There is another possibility. He wants to contact you, but he simply doesn't know what to contact. He has opened your chat window several times, but he hasn't thought about what to say for a long time. How many people's circle of friends.
Will it show up in three days? Here's how you set it up. For boys, it was very helpless.
They don't know what to talk to you about. Don't say that if someone wants to contact you, there must be a way. You should know that many boys are straightforward in their thinking.
If I want to contact someone, I have to find a reasonable reason, otherwise I don't know what to say.
Of course, there are many possibilities. For example, he knows that what you want is not love, but just looking for someone who is good to her, so he will not always give a woman a no-return court. For him, it's better to make a lot of money.
The truest scenario is that he may have been busy during that time and wanted to give you a stable life through his own efforts. At this time, the girls should have a moderate amount of contact and not cause too much trouble to each other. I believe that as long as he is busy, he will take the initiative to find you, and there should be room for freedom between the two parties.
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I don't think it's interested in girls, because for most boys, if they are interested in girls, they will definitely take the initiative to talk to girls, they will want to express their inner feelings, and it is impossible not to talk to girls.
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It must be that the other party likes himself, the other party will not take the initiative to talk to himself, nor will he take the initiative to chat with himself, if a boy likes a girl, he will become particularly bold, and he will continue to pursue.
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I think it's an introvert, you should take the initiative to chat with him, and try to create some opportunities to talk together.
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It may be that he is not particularly interested in you, but if a guy is very interested in a person, he will take the initiative to chat with the other person.
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Summary. Then in fact, there is no need for us to reconcile again, why should we wronged ourselves when the conditions are so good? It's not that we can't find a suitable one, if even if you will reconcile, the man will not make changes, and the final outcome will be the same, so we have to look forward, don't linger in him, do you want to reconcile with him?
Don't like to express, introverted and low EQ, is it easy for honest boys to find a girlfriend?
Kiss, good evening, the teacher saw your problem, in fact, a good boy like you can find a girlfriend, you have to have confidence in yourself! As you said, these are actually your advantages in the teacher's opinion, honesty is an advantage, and introversion is actually an advantage, can you tell us more about your situation? The teacher will help you analyze it.
Isn't it hard for honest people to find a girlfriend now?
No, why do you think that? Now honesty is what all girls want boys to do the most, don't be affected by the external environment, just stick to yourself, and don't try to change your strengths.
Is it the people or things around you that make you feel bad about being honest?
My boyfriend who just broke up is honest, but his emotional intelligence is low, he is 30 and I am 31 I am his first love, and later I found out that he is a sister boy.
When we quarreled, his sister said that I was making trouble unreasonably, and never talked about his brother. I sometimes feel very wronged, and he never coaxes me when we quarrel.
The teacher probably understands, it is true that it will be very aggrieved when encountering such a situation, obviously it is the two of you who are in love with his sister but he is involved in the affairs of the two of you, your boyfriend still doesn't talk to you, and there is really nowhere to say if there is a grievance, so is it often like this when you quarrel with each other?
He lives in his sister's house, which means that he is just like his sister's son, his character wants to be reconciled with me, but he doesn't dare to be with his sister, his sister comes to me every time he quarrels, so strong, she treats herself as the king, she makes money and makes money, he says 1, you can't say 2
Teacher, do you think his brother is looking for a girlfriend?
You've broken up now, haven't you?
Yes, I'm not his sister's opponent, my family background is obviously better than his brother, but I am very humble in front of his sister, and I have to be careful in everything.
Then in fact, there is no need for us to reconcile again, why should we wronged ourselves when the conditions are so good? It's not that we can't find a suitable one, if even if you will reconcile, the man will not make changes, and the final outcome will be the same, so we have to look forward, don't linger in him, do you want to reconcile with him?
Dear, the teacher saw that we had run out of messages, and the teacher wanted to help you solve the problem, so let's face it together.
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Girls like confident men. You're going to try to transform yourself. You're 24 years old. You need to be seen by others.
The best thing to do is to cultivate one's own.
Letter. Although this is not something that can be done overnight, it will help you a lot later in life.
You have the courage to go online and expose your shortcomings, proving that you are still very bold. Sometimes, it is necessary to use this courage of oneself in daily life.
There are also some tips to try adding an hour to the time you keep smiling each day and paying attention to details. Sometimes, it's not that no one is paying attention to you, it's that you don't notice the attention of others. But don't be nervous about everything, and think that people who express love in everything they do are narcissistic.
Also, in fact, it is most taboo in life to fall in love for the sake of falling in love. Not only will you hurt yourself, but you will also hurt the other person. Don't worry that you don't have a girlfriend yet, maybe your destined partner is even more anxious to find you than you.
I hope you can find the right girl for you.
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Friend, bai at this time you have to change yourself a little, introversion is also a kind of beauty, but zhi is not much appreciated by people, and the society will communicate with people.
Communication tolerance, only communication can understand both parties, you can think about it, you meet with a girl, don't talk what do you think others will think of this, you have to open your heart, and you are still young, not in a hurry, change your personality is to work hard for your future path.
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Look at the sneering reply, haha, is it a good method, I'm a girl, bai I always feel du, humorous boys will make zhi people relax, only relaxed is it easier to understand, communicate, and then develop, shyness is not a bad thing, now girls are generally more open teeth and claws (-is not not very suitable), but need introverted boys.
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I happen to be worried about not having a boyfriend because I don't like to talk and I can't reach boys, or you can find me, but I'm a junior high school graduate, and I'm 21 this year
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Don't worry about work later, enjoy a person's freedom, there will be no chance in the future, I'm the same as you is found after work, fate to you you want to push can't push away.
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This is more than kung fu than skills, if you are level, the other party must be willing to follow your thinking, listen to you, willing to do anything for you, the most important thing is that the woman must be obedient to you, listen to you, to make her fascinated.
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Dude, remember a little bit, dead skin....Don't think about anything, run straight to the girl, and say whatever comes to mind....
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Find an acquaintance to introduce you and go out to play together, such as eating and singing.
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Sincerity is spiritual, sincerity and persistence are very important, I wish you happiness!
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I also want to ask you, I'm also cheerful, why can't I find a boyfriend, don't stare at your school, go out and have fun, and I'll make friends.
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Find a girl on QQ.
Talk about getting acquainted and then date in the real world.
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To put it simply, there are two things: to do what they like and to surprise beyond expectations;
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If you don't like what you say, try to talk as little as possible and prove your feelings for her with practical actions. Help, care, encourage, and praise her at work, girls, they all like others to care and praise.
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As long as you have the heart, pay more attention to it, get in touch with each other more, get acquainted with it, you still like it, just confess it, and see how people treat you, at first, you may be scared when you don't know you.
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Since there should still be a lot of opportunities to work in a factory, don't talk about it if you don't know how to talk, the two of you can get along for a while, you can usually pay more attention to her, see if there is anything you can help with, close the distance as a friend, or you can chat more on QQ to enhance understanding.
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Hey, if you like it, you must say it, if you don't say it, the other party doesn't know, no one can say anything about feelings, what if she likes you too? And the two of you have been slow to talk about it, isn't this a waste of so much time? So it's better to say it.
At least I won't regret it because I didn't say it in the future, and I chose the former instead of regretting it and not saying it. Of course, in the end, I hope you can succeed and wish you happiness!
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Confess directly to her! Then he started asking her ......Don't be shy, my fair lady gentleman.
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Tell her on QQ, or SMS.
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Write to him and tell him that you like him and help her more in normal times.
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No need to write a letter, it's the age of bean paste. It's very simple. Confession + care + touched +.
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You can see her as a sister to close the distance first, and then don't be rusty, slowly care about her, just kid, it's fine, the most important thing: be sincere to her.
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