A good student suddenly doesn t get the favor of the teacher

Believe me, although the teachers advertise the children who are obedient and have positive problems, in fact, it is the children who are mischievous, bold, and creative who really impress them.

If you are shy, it will be difficult to get the attention and trust of the teacher unless you are detached in your studies.

Don't blindly obey the teacher, don't care too much about the teacher's so-called norms, you are a child, many things, don't blindly follow the teacher's standards, you must obey your heart and creativity. Stick to something you have to be brave enough to question and question.

Courage is a must, if the teacher is looking for your fault again, don't be silent, first politely say to the teacher: "I'm sorry, teacher." Then be brave enough to tell him why you did it, using your example above.

You can stand up again and say to him, "I'm sorry, teacher, I thought I could sit down when I was done, do you want me to stand up and have other questions?" Then innocently smiled at him.

To avoid the teacher's punishment, politeness and a smile are a must, and the teacher is always a fool!! This is very important, it is best to talk to him privately after he says about you, and the purpose is not to justify anything, but to show that although you are in class what is wrong, you actually respect him very much, and then maybe apologize again, so that he can be happy and have a profound impact on you

Then you also practice eloquence, even better than him, and learn to observe words and colors, when the teacher encounters difficulties, you help the teacher, often enter the teacher's office, ask if there is anything you need help, if the teacher has it, you do it, if not, you will see that the teacher has something to help for a long time, help the teacher take things back to the office after class, when appropriate, you can also rub the teacher's shoulders, and then you can also talk to the teacher, I believe this should be on the line...

Maybe the teacher knows your hard work, but she is new to her post and should be kind to her.

You don't have to be jealous that someone else is better than you, you have to do better than him.

Teachers are fond of a student for the following reasons:

1. Personal emotions.

Although teachers are known as gardeners who teach and educate people, teachers are also ordinary people, and it is inevitable that they will have some personal emotions. Sometimes the teacher will inevitably be more serious when facing more naughty and difficult students, and more gentle when dealing with students who are reassuring to the teacher.

2. Influenced by parents' attitudes.

Although the teacher has the responsibility to discipline the child at school, parents should also cooperate with the teacher. When parents actively cooperate with and assist teachers in disciplining their children, the teacher's pressure is appropriately reduced, and the attitude towards the child will naturally be gentler.

What can parents do to help their children become the preferred students of the teacher?

1. Teach children to respect their teachers.

Respecting teachers and valuing education has always been one of the traditional virtues in our country, and teachers can better discipline children when children and parents respect teachers. Parents should teach their children to respect their teachers at school and not to contradict or insult teachers for no reason. Only when both parents and children respect teachers and teachers will teachers prefer to be trapped in such a situation for students and parents.

2. Parents should communicate with teachers.

As they grow up, children go through many changes, including their psychological state and behavioral habits. It is advisable for parents to communicate with teachers so that they can be aware of their child's performance and changes in school. Close contact and cooperation between parents and teachers can detect and correct children's bad behaviors in a timely manner, and can also reduce the burden on teachers, so that teachers can favor children more.

Every student wants to be cared for and recognized by their teachers. Sometimes a casual word from a teacher, a shallow smile, or a simple gesture can have a great motivating effect on students.

However, many students attach too much importance to the teacher-student relationship and lack a correct understanding of the teacher-student relationship. Some students go to the opposite side of the teacher because they are not appreciated by the teacher, deliberately disrupt classroom discipline and interfere with the teacher's teaching; Some students have a serious aversion to school because of their poor relationship with their teachers. In fact, many students do not understand that the interaction between teachers and students is the same as that between most people, and the rules of mutual attraction are in the first place.

For example, you can't be good friends with all the students in your class, and in the same way, no matter how virtuous a teacher is, he can't give his likes to all his students equally. Besides, in the teacher-student relationship, liking is not necessary, even if the teacher doesn't like him, he can still be a good student.

I think you can tell the teacher your thoughts in a reasonable way, such as writing a sincere letter to the teacher, or asking the teacher to talk about your thoughts when the teacher is not busy or in a good mood, so that the teacher can know what you think. Do you think that if there is a student who is willing to work hard to become a student that the teacher likes, the teacher will be willing to refuse? In addition, which teacher you want to like, you had better learn the homework taught by this teacher well, usually do your homework carefully, pay attention to the lectures in class, and get good grades in the exam, at that time, I am afraid that it will be difficult for the teacher to dislike you!

In any case, when the relationship between you and the teacher is red light, don't treat the teacher and yourself with a negative approach, the really smart student is on the premise of self-reflection, with a positive attitude to solve the problem with the teacher, and finally win the teacher's appreciation.