Is it true that people forget the past and are not painful?

In fact, to tell the truth, love has been painful, it is impossible to completely forget it, it is not painful to lie to yourself, just use time to slowly forget, learn to give up, some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the time of the years, occasionally pick up the memory, it will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, and sighing in the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart. When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

When time passes, we forget that we once loved someone without hesitation, forgot his tenderness, forgot everything he did for me. I don't have any feelings for him anymore, I don't love him anymore. Why is this happening?

It turns out that our love was lost to the years. First love makes you forget time, then time makes you forget love...

It seems difficult to forget the past. I can't forget some promises, those vows, those pasts that remind me like a thorn. But people also have to look forward, and they can't hold on to these scars and not move forward.

There are also family, friends, and other people who care about you. Don't deliberately forget those things that you want to forget, bury them in your heart, and look at life with such a heart, everything is beautiful.

After a long time, it will not be painful.

Keep yourself busy. No matter what kind of pain it is, the time will always dilute everything, and you won't think about it when you are busy every day.

If you can't forget, don't forget, take the past pain as a motivation to move forward, and turn grief into strength.

If you can't forget it, face it head-on, because the more you avoid and want to forget, the more you can't forget, face it with a calm heart, and after a long time, it will no longer be painful.

There is nothing that can't be used with time, it's just that time is not enough now, go out and walk more, and get to know more people.

I think you can find something that you are interested in or can do first, such as taking some certificates, doing housework, going out for a walk, in short, keeping yourself busy and not having time to think about the past.

You should learn to let go, learn to divert your attention, you can travel with friends, relax yourself, everyone has to go forward, look forward, because time will not stop for everyone, don't waste your limited time, it is best to arrange your daily life reasonably, do meaningful things, fill your free time, don't think about useless.

In this case, we must divert our attention in order to get out of the pain well, usually have more leisure activities, travel more, and arrange our own lives, so as to get out of the pain as soon as possible.

Then accept it. In this process, do what you have to do, or force yourself to do something to divert your focus, don't let yourself be too idle, so that you often fall into "pain" and wait for time.

First of all, keep yourself busy, when you are physically and mentally exhausted, you just want to have a bed and fall asleep, ** will think so much; Also, you can do things that interest you, as long as you put your heart and soul into it, you won't think about the pain; You can also turn your pain into strength, and let it motivate you to do things and work hard. When you don't know what to do, just earn money and study.

Then don't forget, deliberately always forgetting will impress you, just make it a part of you, and as the days go by, it will feel less important, and life still has to go on.

If you can't forget the pain of the past, you can try to do a new job, get in touch with new people and things, and forget the pain of the past through time.

I can't forget the pain of the past, I think you should change the environment, you can choose to travel, relax your mood, correct your mentality, and welcome a bright future.

Take a trip to see the outside world, see the love of others, and see the more you see, the pain will slowly fade.

Summary. Whenever people encounter difficulties, troubles and painful things, often the first reaction is to escape, or hope that the time will pass faster, so that they can quickly get through this bad day, if there is Meng Po soup in the world, you must not think about anything, drink it in one sip, and start anew. Should the man forget the past?

Of course, that can't be done if humans can forget the past. That life will be in danger at any time, forgetting the past is equivalent to losing memory, when forgetting the past, people will not be able to sum up experience, and when encountering danger, there will be life danger at any time. The development of human beings depends on memory, and if people really lose their memory, it is like a newborn baby without any difference.

Someone has to take care of it, otherwise it will be difficult to move an inch. Therefore, people cannot lose their memories and forget the past. Although many memories are painful, we learn to avoid them according to our own memories.

Change your approach.

Every old man when people encounter difficulties, troubles and painful things, often the first reaction is to escape, or hope that the time will pass sooner to meet Kai, so that they can quickly get through this bad day, if there is a Meng Po soup in the world when the waiter quarrels, you must not think about anything, drink it in one sip, and start anew. Should the man forget the past? Of course, that can't be done if humans can forget the past.

That life will be in danger at any time, forgetting the past is equivalent to losing memory, when forgetting the past, people will not be able to sum up experience, and when encountering danger, there will be life danger at any time. The development of human beings depends on memory, and if people really lose their memory, it is like a newborn baby without any difference. Someone has to take care of it, otherwise it will be difficult to move an inch.

Therefore, people cannot lose their memories and forget the past. Although many memories are painful, we learn to avoid them according to our own memories. Change your approach.

Excuse me, but please go into more detail?

Every old man when people encounter difficulties, troubles and painful things, often the first reaction is to escape, or hope that the time will pass sooner to meet Kai, so that they can quickly get through this bad day, if there is a Meng Po soup in the world when the waiter quarrels, you must not think about anything, drink it in one sip, and start anew. Should the man forget the past? Of course, that can't be done if humans can forget the past.

That life will be in danger at any time, forgetting the past is equivalent to losing memory, when forgetting the past, people will not be able to sum up experience, and when encountering danger, there will be life danger at any time. The development of human beings depends on memory, and if people really lose their memory, it is like a newborn baby without any difference. Someone has to take care of it, otherwise it will be difficult to move an inch.

Therefore, people cannot lose their memories and forget the past. Although many memories are painful, we learn to avoid them according to our own memories. Change your approach.

Let yourself have self-confidence, maintain a good attitude, face problems, solve problems, if in terms of work, your own goal, start from little by little every day, let yourself feel that there will be a certain harvest every day; This will give you more confidence.

If it is in the family, pay more attention to the members of the family, say hello to the family, and treat the relatives well, so that they feel that you are good and make you full of confidence.

If it is in love, you can give appropriately and let the other person respond to you, so that you will feel good and thus make yourself confident.

You must have a good attitude every day and let yourself be happy at all times, which will make you feel comfortable in all aspects, which will make you confident.

Don't force yourself to forget something, because that will only make yourself more miserable. Sometimes I think about it occasionally, but it doesn't hurt. When you think of it, you can say to yourself:

That's all in the past, look how happy I am now! How happy I am now compared to the past! ......People should look forward and think ...... goodIf it doesn't work, record the bad mood of that moment and seal it or burn it - maybe you'll feel happier!

Or, you can write about your feelings on your blog - maybe you will feel less painful?

Anyway, I wish you a happy ......

A word of advice: why forget.

That's your life experience, after all.

An integral part of life.

I know it's painful to fall out of love.

But time can**.

But you'll never forget.

If you really loved.

Falling out of love is like a wound cut in your heart.

After a long time, you won't hurt so much.

Because the wound will heal eventually.

Then the wound is no longer called a wound.

It became a scar.

Maybe it doesn't hurt anymore.

But it won't go away for a lifetime.

In this world, whoever is separated can still live. You don't have to be in pain, time is the best medicine for the wound, everything will go with the wind. Don't live in his shadow, stand under the blue sky, let the sun warm you, live your life seriously, there are still many things for you to do, and there are many people you need to care about.

Don't try to forget something or someone, it's counterproductive—not only can't you forget it, but you keep remembering it and adding to your troubles. People should always look forward, the road they have walked, the people they have loved, they will not come back after the past, and coming back is no longer the original scenery, the original mood, why be so persistent?Let go of the burden, relax your mind, and live happily now, maybe in the near future you will meet more beautiful scenery and better lovers at the next intersection of your life.

People are always wonderful, when you have loved someone with your heart but have to break up with him, you will feel that life has lost all its color all at once, and even have the idea of ending your life, but when you stubbornly survive, you will find that in fact, the so-called unforgettable love turned out to be just a beautiful and illusory dream. Don't worry too much about everything, let the past pass, forget the bad completely, let the good be buried in the depths of memory, don't think too much, live every day of the present to the fullest and happy, and face the people and things in the future happily. Time will tell, and maybe one day you will discover what a wise choice it was to leave him.

Time will tell, maybe one day you just want to think about him again, but you can't remember anything! You may even wonder if the story of the past belongs to you. It's really about fate between people.

Since you propose to break up, no matter what the reason, it can only mean that your fate can only go so far. In that case, why can't you let go? To be a man, you should always be able to afford to put it down!

No matter to people or things, if you just can afford to take it but can't let it go, it is not a good thing for yourself or others, I hope you can understand the truth.

Yes, it's really hard to forget someone, but I thought, if you're going to spend that much time nostalgic for that relationship, why not spend the same amount of time trying to redeem it? If it is an irreparable relationship, then I think since he is a person who is not responsible for feelings, then of course you have to be responsible for your feelings, such people will get real feelings, use the transfer method, you spend the time thinking about it in the past want to do but due to various factors and did not implement the things or plans, you will find that your potential is unpredictable before, then you will be more confident in yourself, In fact, every relationship is a step towards a perfect self, of course, we can't be perfect, but our value is improving all the time, we face the passing feelings with a normal heart! Maybe we can face it with a grateful attitude, it turns out that our cultivation is so high!

The world will not go as it should, your past makes you sad and sad, but it is an experience, why choose to forget? Can you really forget what you've experienced? People must learn to face it, don't run away, you have to face up to your past, dissect them one by one, put them in front of yourself, tell yourself that the past is in the past, and you can never look back, take it as an experience, a story, bury it deep in your heart, and seal that past.

You will be better off the road in the future, because experience will tell you how you want to go next. Bless you.