My girlfriend is going abroad in the future and wants to break up with me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-04
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There really is no way around this situation.

    Unless you also follow her abroad.

    Or provide her with a better environment at home than abroad.

    Some words are not good, but they are true. The physical environment can really affect feelings.

    Don't listen to any confessions, show how much you love her.

    It's all. The comparison between love and future is simply too weak.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Her considerations were not superfluous.

    Time tests love, but it also nourishes love.

    But she didn't have that confidence.

    But it's also hard to guarantee that you won't change when she goes abroad.

    Your question is what to say to get her back.

    And I think that's where you have to make substantive proposals.

    Like some of your plans and what you're doing right now.

    and the development of your plans for the next few years.

    If it's true, you have to tell her that you want her to be involved in your plan.

    At least I think that's more convincing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Giving 100 points shows that you are in pain, but there are some things that you have to face and accept. The reason for the breakup was to go abroad, so I don't think there is any need to say anything more. If I were you, I would bless her. Accepting the reality, although it is painful for yourself, is necessary.

    I sympathize with you, and I'm sad too, but I hope you can cheer up, and let's face it, there are still a lot of girls.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This question is basically a bit difficult. But to be honest, I don't think your retention will be too much. She will still go abroad, and it is only a matter of time before she breaks up, even if you barely keep it this time, it just makes your life a little more natural in the next year, as you said, so as not to be unable to face her, but after graduation, she will definitely not pay attention to you again"Retention"Target.

    Besides, everyone has their own ambitions, and everyone has a different path to take, maybe your girlfriend thinks that going abroad is the only way for her to succeed, and you are embarrassed to do it for yourself"Selfish desires"And the impact of delaying the future of others? It is also unethical to do so. Therefore, I advise you to face this matter with a normal heart and look at it.

    After all, you love her, and you want her to be happy and want her to have a good future, don't you?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Long-distance love is not guaranteed and is very painful.

    Better a finger off than always aching.

    But you still have a year, so cherish it.

    Don't leave yourself with regrets.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everyone wants to have love forever, but the reality is not like that! You're going to break up eventually, and you're going to be prepared. I hope you can love until you can't love anymore, talk to your girlfriend well, exchange ideas with each other, and tell her how much you love her and how much you care about this relationship!

    Tell your girlfriend that no matter what you hope in the future, you can catch the tail of happiness and move forward bravely, so that love can smile and bless each other when you can no longer love. But don't give up in love, it will be a lifelong regret. Maybe your love has shaken her to go abroad in the future, don't burden her because of love, tell her that although the ending of the story has been written, you can still write a more colorful plot!

    Bless you all!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Waiting for you to come back!

    Don't say more. Being careful can be annoying.

    As long as you tell her, the sky is high and let her fly.

    When you're tired, remember to come back, you will be her warmest harbor.

    Come up with a romantic idea.

    Shout out 00 I love you.

    Understand. But I'll tell you about it.

    She doesn't want to go back to her roots just yet.

    You'll have to wait a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a girl He often takes his life very seriously.

    He needs a lot of things, and he is often determined to go away.

    She wants to live abroad, she wants knowledge abroad, she wants experience abroad, she wants this and that, and these misses are no longer there, whether you can give it to him later or not.

    Going abroad is a dream for some people and may be able to change his life.

    I don't think he's going to trade that influence for a college relationship, but of course she's got to be a girl with a lot of personality.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't want such a woman! When you estimate that it is also a must-have! Then you are 100 times better to her It's okay to have confidence in you and yourself Ha@ Come on get married Please eat sugar.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is for two people! Don't torture love too much! It's time to divide it! Go and bless him!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because he broke up when he went abroad, he didn't have you in his heart, so it's better to break up.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I hope you can be happy too

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The best thing is to break up, and the outlook on life and values will be different in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Difficult!!! It's really not easy for love to get past too real problems. And for students, going abroad is not something that can be easily given up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Divide it. There is water on the ground. Say so much and do what. Make more memories.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Sad. What should come will still come.

    Let it be!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You must be worrying about this problem, in fact, I used to be too, my girlfriend is the same as me, one went to Australia, the other went to the United Kingdom, and it was also a transnational relationship. But we still survived, because we both knew that this was a test of our feelings, and after this year, it was true love.

    I support your girlfriend to go abroad, if you want to gain a foothold in society in the future, the diploma of Tsinghua University and Peking University is no longer enough, the whole country has begun to pay attention to returnee students, your girlfriend should go abroad, and she will be able to live a better life in the future.

    This is also the test for you, you are only one year, and I am a full seven years. You must not worry about this and break up, but you should do what you should do as usual, and believe that you are true love! True love is a love that will never let go!

    It spans distance, time.

    After this year, you will be very happy, and you will experience the happiest taste in the world, and a year is not long at all. Your girlfriend is working hard abroad, and you, of course, have to work hard in China, work hard to become mature and stable, and give your girlfriend a big surprise.

    This year, you have to turn this thought into the motivation to work hard, you will find that in one year, not only your girlfriend has changed, but you have also changed a lot, therefore, going abroad, transnational love, as long as you spend it, it is a great gift from God!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't know what the foundation of your relationship is. Change is possible, but it's also constant, right? It is important that you are prepared for any eventuality. Don't give too much now to avoid disappointment. The best admonition is to go with the flow!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hey......It's always painful.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Often everyone knows to cherish when they lose, if you love her, tell her, tell her the pain and suffering in your heart. If she loves you and wants to be with you, I think she will forgive you. If you don't fight for it, you'll regret it later

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Please remember. Nothing in this world is absolute.

    Whoever leaves will live well.

    Since he has chosen to let go of your hand.

    You should turn sensibly and walk towards another fork in the road.

    A lot of the time. We're going to be sad.

    It's because you can't get it.

    Or get it and lose it.

    So we are not reconciled.

    It will always be extravagant.

    In fact, they can't let go of themselves.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I read your rhetoric.

    First of all. What I'm trying to say is that neither you nor yours should want the other person to ignore herself.

    I don't know what's going on between you.

    I think you quarrel girl and want you to tolerate her.

    Instead of arguing all the time.

    Maybe you're sick and want him to comfort you.

    You don't want to think so.

    Maybe she wants to see you.

    And the appearance is deliberately pretending to be indifferent.

    If you're mad.

    It's impossible to smile at you, right?

    As an outsider, I think you both have problems.

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