How to choose someone I love, but it s hard to get and love me

Updated on society 2024-05-14
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you want to get the person you love, it must be very hard, but you are willing, and you need your persistence, to insist on guarding your love, which may take a long time to fight alone, and the final result is still uncertain, but the only thing that is certain is that you are doing it according to your own heart, so you are real at every moment. The person who loves you is relatively much easier for you, but you can't help but ask, will you cherish the love at your fingertips? And in the future, will you regret that you didn't stick to what you love?

    This regret may stay with you for the rest of your life. Loving your loved ones requires you to have a strong enough heart for people to love, and you need to remember to cherish and be grateful at all times. See which one is easy for you to do yourself

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not easy to break a sentence and say that I choose what I love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's hard to find someone who loves you now, why do you think that's why? In fact, to be honest, really to say"You love him, and he loves you"。There is no need to always talk about it"Love"。

    The most important thing is that two people get along happily together and can show their casual side and are inseparable. Give up, the most important thing is to be happy, there is no need to live and die for the so-called love, true love, there must be no sadness and troubles. Think about it, love is habit!

    It's easy to find someone who loves you. It's also easy to find someone you love. But find someone who likes each other.

    It's hard to fill the other person's gaze. Maybe there are a lot of people who love you. There are many people you love, but you meet the person you love him.

    The chances of him loving you too are low. So if you come across, love boldly. The person you love with all your heart doesn't necessarily love you with all your heart.

    There is someone who takes care of you in every detail, and there is someone who misses you day and night but you don't feel it. Love stories in the world are romantic and twisty. Since ancient times, true love is hard to find, and I wish to have one heart.

    The white heads are inseparable.

    <> love is the most beautiful feeling in the world. I would like to spend my life looking for someone who loves me. Love has never been regretted, but you can meet undoubted love, and once you do, you have to use your life to fulfill your promises.

    So, what is love? Love is about giving to each other, understanding each other, and supporting each other. You will only be willing to do this if you love someone.

    If you don't love, how can you do these things for others? On the contrary, how could he possibly pay these things for you. No matter what kind of person you're looking for in the end, at least you have to be friendly.

    If two people are incompatible in some way, it will end up being a reason to abandon the relationship.

    Marriage is a long process to be with the people you love and the people who love you. It's a very long process. One needs to make a bet with one's life to manage this protracted battle.

    So, don't do things that you regret for various reasons, don't lose confidence because of temporary confusion, what we give is time, if you come, it will blossom and bear fruit, butterflies fly! That's what marriage is. It's not hard.

    The key is whether you're willing to wait, no matter how long. Many people are on the way to wait, because their parents urge them to get married, because they are too old, and give up prematurely. Choose a good object to live with.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Short-lived love is easy, lifelong love is hard. Love is to be believed, not to be believed. Everyone's energy is limited, don't expect anything extra from others.

    And love itself is equal, and no one will love themselves unconditionally in animal instincts like their parents. If you are yourself, you can't love with all your heart. The definition of love itself is not a definition of selfishness, but should be inclusive, and a person should know how to love himself better than the person who loves himself.

    Hope in others, preferably in yourself, reading, fitness, travel, etc., can be regarded as a good company to perfect their journey. And on the way to become better, you will naturally meet similar people, so the premise of finding your love is first of all not to deliberately look for it, after all, what you deliberately look for does not exist.

    As for those who begin to dislove and gradually accept them, they will only meet after discovering each other's flashpoints. As far as the future is concerned, the situation is very different. I think that as long as you give sincerely, there will always be a reward, you will never love, you will introduce the truth to more people...

    It seems to me that it will be easier for girls to choose the one they love all their lives. They may be stronger than men due to the need for security and the fear that has accumulated over the years, so when you want to get married, girls are more likely to appreciate someone who is willing to be nice to them, while boys may be more willing to pursue their loved ones because they have certain strengths in personality and energy, even if they waste time or fail.

    At the level of social and family pressures, men have more room to bear, and this space determines that they are more inclined to pursue inner love than to pursue it. Society is different now. Women can do what men can, even better than men.

    In order to live a happy life, everyone, man and woman, wants to find someone who loves their life. Kids, you didn't buy me a bag, you don't love me anymore. You didn't buy me a house, you don't love me anymore.

    You didn't buy my shoes, you don't love me anymore. In the eyes of boys and girls, there are two completely different kinds of love. Ugly people are called intertwined.

    You always hear that Gao Fu and handsome guys are looking for civilian women. Didn't you see Bai Fumei looking for civilians?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's easy to love others, but it's hard to love yourself.

    We can keep everything simple ourselves, but give others fine clothes and food, just to get a good reputation.

    We can save money on a regular basis, but we are desperate to maintain relationships that we don't need.

    The older generation of wise people taught us to be diligent, to be disciplined and to be enthusiastic about others, so we became more and more demanding of ourselves.

    Being strict with oneself and being lenient with others has actually harmed many people.

    Love yourself, first yourself, then others.

    Love yourself with all your might, and love others when you have the spare energy.

    My gratitude, my figure, what I wear, how I dress, where I live, what I eat, my friends, my dreams, all need to be taken care of.

    I want to live as a light myself, not attached, not followed, and have strength all over my body, and this effect is many times better than blindly pleased.

    To live is to do difficult things, because it is difficult to love yourself. Good morning.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the two of them have similar conditions, why not choose to love you.

    If the conditions are much worse, then it is better to pursue what you love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's hard to love you and love others.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People will say that they choose to love me, but when it comes to choosing for themselves, they will choose the one they love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are conditions to choose what I love, and there are no conditions to choose those who love me. Of course, it's up to you.

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