How does it feel to have a husband who is not enterprising and loves to play games?

I have a good friend who talks about everything, and she should be the most trusted friend in my life, but my most trusted friend has a bad marriage and is married to a scumbag who treats games as life.

My friend and her current husband met on a blind date, a boy of more than 1.8 meters, white and clean, sunny and handsome. My friends liked him very much at first sight and thought he was their own dish.

They go shopping together, watch movies together, eat together, and play games together. My friend likes online games, and her boyfriend also likes online games, so they play games together every day. On the days of playing games together, my friend said that she was very happy and happy, and she and her boyfriend could talk and play together.

She had never met someone so compatible.

At that time, they were all children of the family, so they naturally played as much as they wanted, and they only needed to take care of themselves. So my friend feels that marrying such a boy is undoubtedly the happiest.

Later, they got married, and they were married. Because she is pregnant, she naturally can't play on the computer, so the person who plays the game becomes her husband himself. After marriage, both parents no longer care about them, and they live on their own.

Every day when I wake up, my friends have to get up with a big belly to cook, open a store, buy and sell goods, receive guests, and cook lunch and dinner for two people. And her husband doesn't do anything, it's really exactly the same as before he got married, he just plays games every day, consistently. A friend asked him to help greet the guests and go to the kitchen to cook by himself, but her husband said that he had just started and couldn't leave.

My friend said that he was a little tired and wanted to take a break and asked his husband to cook a meal, but my husband said that he was desperately upgrading and couldn't fall short.

My friend thought that maybe it would be good to have a child, so my husband took it.

Later, the child was born, but the husband did not change anything. During confinement, my friend's mother came to take care of her, and my husband saw that he didn't need to do anything, so he continued to play games. Out of confinement, my friend continued to watch the store and take care of the children.

Sometimes when she is greeting a guest and the child pees, she asks her husband to come over to entertain the guest or change the diaper, and always has to help her share one thing. Her husband was as indifferent as if he was deaf and only knew how to play games. Friends have to cook while coaxing the children, watch the store while coaxing the children, and do housework while coaxing the children.

My husband is like an ornament, he has to give him food and drink every day to earn money, and he doesn't do anything. Once a friend finally couldn't bear it anymore and unplugged the power supply of her husband who was playing a game, he immediately got angry and slapped his friend.

Every time I talk to a friend and ask her what she's doing, she's always busy. Ask her husband what he is doing, and her husband is always playing games. She said that such a life was tiring, exhausting, and had no end.

My husband only knows how to play games, he doesn't want to make progress and doesn't work, and the family depends on her as a woman to support him, and many times he wants to beat up this uncompetitive husband.

Life has all kinds of hardships, but in the final analysis, it is the path she chooses, how can I comfort her? No matter how depressed and sad you are, you can only heal yourself.

Now science and technology are more developed, all kinds of games are varied, many husbands at home are about to live with games every day, I think it is particularly unacceptable, when he plays games without children, although there is nothing to let him help, but he feels very lonely, no one accompanies him, like marrying a game console, after having a child, he continues to play his games, the child seems to have nothing to do with him, the child cries no matter, hungry no matter, sleeps and opens his eyes to play games, and goes to work is mediocre, I never thought about the future of this family, work hard, strive for a promotion and a raise, when I see him, either playing games on the computer, or playing with a mobile phone, it has been connected, either a game, or a home, choose one, otherwise life really can't go on.

Say it myself. My husband is three years older than me, an employee of a state-owned enterprise, and has no other bad hobbies, just like to play games, eat, sleep, go to the toilet and ............ all the timeI was on the verge of breaking down....But the people around me told me. It's understandable for a lover to play games, there are few men who don't like to play games, the key is to see if he will play games to your disregard, the game is the most important, if so, you can talk to him well, don't just say don't let him play, let him play less games, care more about you, have an understanding wife, which man won't be moved?

Hello, I am Zhou Xiaopeng, the founder of Love Us College, a psychological counselor, focusing on solving emotional and psychological problems in marriage and love.

Nowadays, many women's earning power has surpassed their partners, and in the face of the other half of the family, they don't earn as much as you, but if you just complain, he will instantly be impatient and slam the door, which is actually more common. Faced with such a situation,It is recommended that female friends consider themselves, their environment and each other.

First of all, you have to know that no one is perfectIf you want your husband to have more earning power than you do, then you may need to accept that he can't stay at home or with your children all the time.

If you want your husband to be more companion and tolerant, then you must know how to tolerate his low ability, because only if you are not able to do it outside, you are willing to stay at home and pay for the family.

Secondly, no matter what situation your husband is in,Whether you don't want to be enterprising, or you don't want to nag, this husband is all chosen by yourself. If he does have a problem, it can only be said that you don't have enough eyes to recognize his problem before marriage.

Complaining can't solve these problems, at this time there are two options, either divorce or tolerance to live a good life, since you haven't thought about divorce, you must give more understanding and tolerance, in order to make your marriage last longer.

It is necessary to maintain an objective and rational attitude when it comes to money, You must know that earning more money does not mean that this man will make you happy and happy, maybe your husband is indeed not as capable as you, but you have not found the shining point in him, for example, you can go home after work and see him, it is not a state of not answering ** and sending text messages without replying. As long as a man loves you enough and can give what he should give for the family, what does it matter who is stronger and who is weaker in terms of economy?

Many people are mediocre in their lives and do not do much, and not all women can only complain or divorce after marrying such people. In marriage, you must know how to regulate yourself and maintain your feelings for each other. Every man loves face and self-esteem, during marriage or loveOnly by giving a man more respect and tolerance can a woman gain more understanding from him.

Generally speaking, in marriage, the man is the pillar of the whole family and should bear a lot of responsibilities, but your husband's performance is so decadent, he is actually addicted to online games, and the disadvantages of online games are really too much, not only will it consume your husband's spirit, but also cause your husband to lose his career, after all, your husband's age should be the age to work hard, but he is used to play games, so that the burden of the family is on you, your husband is so addicted, Physical health can also be greatly affected, so I have the following tips to help your husband get rid of this addiction to gaming:

The second point is that you can pester your husband, ask him to go out to exercise or exercise, and use your right as a wife to restrict him from playing games, stipulating that he can play games every day, but he must go to work and work as usual every day, and you can't ignore your family and career because of playing games, occasionally you can take your husband out to exercise together, so that your husband is actually very happy, and at the same time, sports can also exercise his body, and he will not be so decadent.

For things like online games, it's okay to play and relax properly, but it's really unbearable to be seriously addicted to this kind of serious addiction and not want to make progress. And they are all married, and they are still so irresponsible, they are really a man who is very wretched.

If your husband doesn't care about your thoughts at all, or no matter how many times you say it, he is perfunctory at the time, and then he will still make such a mistake in the future, in this case, then just divorce. Because it's completely boring for such a man to live together, the two of you are people who will live for the rest of your life, and he doesn't listen to your advice at all, how to live like this. And you all already have your own family, so he should also take his own responsibility as a man and take care of the family, but if he is addicted to games all day long, and if he doesn't want to make progress, then you won't have a future at all, is everything up to you, then you will feel very tired.

So it's better to divorce, let him live with the computer for the rest of his life, presumably he will be happier.

It's really a headache to meet a husband like this.,People who are addicted to games every day and don't want to make progress.,With him, I don't think you will be happy.,Such a person simply doesn't know how to hurt his wife.,Play games every day.,That's where you have energy every day**! What does the family have to rely on to make a living, when you meet a husband like this, if you don't love it, then break up ruthlessly, let him live by himself!

It's normal for ordinary men to be addicted to games, but they don't know how to be aggressive, so who will support their wives! What if you have a baby? I got married without thinking about everything, and I was too hasty, just like my husband, although he was also more addicted to games, but she was still more family-oriented.

He only spends an hour or two in the evening every day to play games, the rest of the time is at work, and he will help me take care of the children after work, and only in his spare time will he take out his mobile phone to play games, and he has never been addicted to games all day!

If you are like you, you can discuss with your husband that it is okay for him to spare an hour or two a day to play games while taking care of the family, but if you play games for a long time, then you will only become more and more lazy, and in the end you will not want to do anything!

A man should take responsibility for the family, don't leave everything to his wife to do, if he really doesn't listen, he can find out his in-laws, if he really doesn't listen, he can ask his in-laws to let them educate their sons, if they don't repent, then there is only divorce!

We should continue to make progress, in order to make our lives better and better, if you want your family to live well, then work hard, don't indulge in games, games can not be eaten!

Your problem is really the same as my situation, my husband is addicted to games, and he doesn't want to make progress, but I really can't help it. It's not a way to mess with him every day, it's best to divorce him and scare him.

Playing games doesn't mean you don't want to make progress, and not working doesn't mean you don't have a future.

In this era of scientific and technological progress and developed networks, some old work that cannot keep up with the times is slowly eliminated, and the old era is slowly ending, and with the end of the old era, the rising sun of the new era is slowly rising.

Some emerging ideas, concepts, and jobs, with the advent of a new era, are blooming everywhere and surging everywhere, e-sports, game streamers, outdoor streamers, game commentators, film critics, and online writers. Wait a minute.

Of course, which players, gods are a very small number of successful people in the entire industry, their success is very complex, strength, luck are indispensable, not everyone can become them, their success is not replicable.

But in the entire ecological chain of the game environment, there are other components, although they are not as shining as them, but there are a lot of things that can be obtained, and it is still okay to eat with a mouth.

But your man is not necessarily this type of person, he is most likely to just love to play games, because as long as he is in the ecological chain, as long as he is not a simple player, he will have a little income. If he had an income, you wouldn't necessarily have the idea he has now, of course, it could also be that he didn't want to make progress, but he was developing towards that now.

In any case, communication is very important, everything must think before acting, plan before acting, only know his real situation, it is good to prescribe the right medicine.

If he is not unenterprising, always moving forward slowly, and he has his own ideas for the future, you can still trust him once, give him a while, let him prove himself.

But if he really likes games, as you said, he doesn't look for a job, and he is not self-motivated. Such a man, don't you hurry up and kick him, do you still have a raw monkey?

Don't have any burden, just break up, just leave, you gave him a chance, he didn't cherish it, and now he is going to lose, isn't it a normal thing? No one can always be favored by God, and Lady Luck will not always be by anyone's side.

Don't worry about hurting him, people always need to face hurt, and hurt this thing, didn't he start hurting you first? Men make a man a woman, afraid, insecure, in fact, it is a kind of harm.

So, he's really as you say, then choose to end.