How can I keep myself from being influenced by others?

Maybe everyone will have a feeling that they care very much about what others think of them, and they want to know from the other person's mouth what kind of image they are in their hearts, and they will be very happy if they know that their image is the kind of feeling they want, and once he says his shortcomings, he will become a little lost.

In fact, it's good to care about other people's opinions, but don't go to extremes, people who go to extremes generally feel that what others say is right, never think from themselves, but listen to the suggestions of others, so as to change themselves beyond recognition, which is a manifestation of irresponsibility to themselves.

Although others are more objective in their evaluation of you, you should also choose the best ones, and not all of them should be listened to. You should also ask yourself in your heart whether you are like that, not that everything he says is right, he will also have certain mistakes in his understanding of you, and he will also have a certain misunderstanding of you. He will also not be able to see through you, and those evaluations are just some evaluations he makes about you in his direction, so sometimes you don't need to pay too much attention to the unrealistic evaluations.

In fact, it is you who really know yourself, you know what you want, and you also understand what kind of person you are, so you can listen to the advice of others, but you should also think about what you should do from yourself, rather than blindly listening to others. You should also evaluate yourself and understand your own heart.

You can take the time to take out a blank piece of paper and write down what you think are your strengths and weaknesses, and then write down your dreams, your goals, and how to work hard for your dreams. Writing about it after a period of time will give you a more comprehensive understanding of yourself, and listening to other people's suggestions on this basis may help you a little more.

It is impossible to be completely yourself and not influenced by others, after all, people are not saints. But you can find some useful ways to regulate yourself:

1.Be open-minded and tolerant of what is happening around you. If you can't control things, don't think too much about it. Other people's thoughts and practices are beyond our control, so it is meaningless to think too much.

2.Keep yourself in a peaceful state of mind, and it's best to do more exercise, enrich yourself, so that you can be optimistic, in fact, many things in life are very beautiful! If others can easily influence you, it means that you care too much about other people's opinions, will that be too tiring?

In fact, everything can be light-hearted.