What kind of experience is it to play with friends who have different views

Mutual respect without intimacy. Getting along with classmates with different views, we will have a defensive mentality, unfamiliarity means unknown, and the unknown brings a certain degree of fear, which is an instinctive reaction, and the most we can do is to be polite and respectful. We can't have a natural affinity for the unknown.

The three views are not in harmony, just like if you want to buy something and say that this thing is good, you want to buy it, and he says that it is too expensive, and the ** thing is not the same. I understand this as values. Just like you think that the topic of college students should be broad, interesting, smart, and striving, but he tells you about the seven aunts and eight aunts.

I'm not interested in your topic, and you're just as boring ...... mineMany people regard what they hate and don't like as discordant people, of course, but not all the things you hate are at odds with you, in fact, people get along with people very simply, I hate you, and you still hate me.

There will be a natural sense of estrangement. After all, the books we have read and the roads we have traveled have been condensed into personal temperament, and the character traits brought about by the huge differences in life experiences and the differences in personal concepts will cause an inherent sense of estrangement. Reflected in the outside, it may become a difference in dress, living habits, etc., and this distance from the inside to the outside cannot be compensated by spatial distance.

It is more likely to cause conflicts. The disagreement of the three views brings about a comprehensive difference in lifestyle, and the harm that these differences can bring is more likely to occur when getting along in college, with small spatial distance and limited range of activities.

I don't know if I don't agree with that girl, anyway, I just don't like her, or even hate her. The start of school was quite good, but slowly I felt...It's a bit of a problem. We went to a military training base for military training, in the mountains, and it was very cold.

At that time, the three of us were together, and she deliberately snubbed me with that girl, which was really uncomfortable at that time, because I came all the way from the south to study in the north and the temperature was surprisingly low, I still relaxed my mind and took the initiative to say hello, but fortunately, the military training passed. It's like a plastic sisterhood, she says she treats me as a good friend, and she goes out to play so that others don't call me. Anyway, I just don't think I can talk to her, and it's annoying to think about her.

They actually influence each other as well. The person you are getting along with is also the person you are going to experience in your life, you and he or she also have a way to go, and after walking this road, you will find that even if you are very different, you still influence each other, learn, and they enrich your life after all.

I am the head of the dormitory, and I am a person who loves cleanliness, and our dormitory has a rotating hygiene. Her family is in the city, and every time she is hygienic, she comes home in the evening, and I endure it a few times, and once I go crazy. When I saw her go out on the front foot, I rushed over and said, "Shouldn't you finish cleaning up on your duty?"

When she said she was going home, I went crazy and said, "You don't want to go anywhere after you're not on duty today!" She had to leave, so I went up and looked at her with cannibalistic eyes (I was so angry when I was younger).

People who shirk their responsibilities can't stand it!

Roommate, she took the initiative to discuss something with me, and we were discussing whether it was feasible or not. She shifted the subject: "Did you study hard in the library?"

Every minute? "The day I went to the library, it was true that every minute of my studies was good, but she took it for granted that everyone was going to be lazy, and besides, we were just discussing whether something was feasible or not, and she started attacking her personally, in order to prove that she was right. It's okay to be strong, but you have to be measured.

Freshman made a boyfriend, this boyfriend is also strange, I like to call ** in the morning and around 11 in the evening, and I was woken up by the ** sound before I woke up in the morning, and then the two of them began to mumble and talk early in the morning, and laughed from time to time, you shouted her to stop and ignore it, and then the other sisters launched a general attack, which was considered to be reined in. She thinks it's okay to hit a **, you just continue to sleep, it's not contradictory.

At this time, many ideas may be the same, and the views and opinions on things are also similar, but sometimes it is just that the three views we call the same, and sometimes it is just two people who have the same views on the future and some views on life, but it does not mean that the way of thinking about each detail of life is the same.

Because for each of us, we have our own unique way of thinking and a unique opinion, so for anything can not be completely consistent, so for two people to get along, the most important thing is to look at the feelings between two people and each other's sense of responsibility and responsibility, to see whether two people have a common mentality, I have to two people's emotions, whether two people respect each other, each other as the center, Therefore, in this case, it all depends on the business method of two people in reality and the emotion between two people, so this is the reality, this is the most important thing.

There is a common language and hobbies, and there is an endless amount of things to say. There is a feeling of seeing each other late.

People with the same three views feel very happy and comfortable together, and they hate each other too late.

Don't underestimate friends with the same three views, no matter what happens to you in life, as long as you say a little word, the other party can understand what it means. Because a friend with the same three views, he is like a roundworm in your stomach, he can really understand what you are thinking in your heart, but he will also understand what you want to do.

Because the three views are the same, there will be a common language, and if the three views are different, it is easy to quarrel over small things.

Only when people with the same three views can they have a common topic and understand each other's thoughts and opinions.

Because it is easier for people with the same three views to get along, and they will not disagree with each other over a trivial matter.

Because when you are with people who have the same three views, you will feel comfortable with each other in the process of getting along, because your thoughts and views on things are the same.

If you have a friend who has the same three views as yourself, you will become better and better. Writer Yang Daxia said that what kind of friends you have will have what kind of self.

Be friends with people who have the same three views, and when you get along, both parties will be in a comfortable state!

We often say that we want to make "like-minded" friends, like-minded friends, there is no doubt, but in my opinion, the same three views are the most solid foundation for a friendship. To put it simply, you are all the way. You may have different hobbies, different personalities, and different pursuits, but you must appreciate each other, you know my weirdness, I understand your whimsy.

There is a saying that friendship is the collision, fusion, and mutual respect of two souls, not the oppression and obliteration of one soul against the other. The unity of the three views is the basis for the realization of soul communication.

Therefore, we should be friends with people who have the same three views, realize the communication of souls, tell each other's hearts to each other, give advice to each other, and plan the future ...... together

Be friends with people who have the same three views, enjoy the process of getting along, appreciate each other, make up for each other, and the flower of friendship will always bloom ......

Respect each other's point of view, respect for the uniqueness of each person, and the relationship between people and lead judges is never smooth sailing. If the three views do not agree, you can find other aspects that are compatible, and finding common ground elsewhere can also make the friendship warm up and get along more friendly. You can talk about clothing matching, makeup tips, game skills, learning methods, etc., as long as two people can have a common topic to open the conversation, both parties can find a point of convergence in the endless talk and lead to friendly relationship.

The negative impact of the difference in three views on friendship will also be minimized.

1. The disagreement between the three views is only the difference in views on things, there are no two people who are exactly the same in the world, and there are no friends with the same views, we must learn to understand and understand each other's ideas and respect each other's views. Many people who are separated because of the disagreement of the three views do not break up because they really do not agree, everyone is always used to subconsciously forcing the other party to accept and recognize their own points of view in the conversation, if the other party does not agree, they will fight with each other, and eventually both sides will lose and the friendship will break down. It is not difficult to get along amicably, with strong self-esteem, unwilling to admit defeat, excessive self-neglect of the other person's feelings, and learning to let go of those superfluous things.

2. If you really can't talk about it together despite all your might, then get along politely and peacefully. It's not a big deal, friends are also divided into a variety of coincidental things, and if you can't be a good girlfriend who talks about everything, then be an ordinary friend. This should not be difficult to do, ordinary friends can also get along amicably, if you can't go shopping and eat together, then reduce contact, and daily conversations can always be carried out easily.

Usually meet and smile and wave hands and nod to say hello, and only talk about some superficial topics in the dormitory, never communicate at a deep level, try to retain personal views and choose to talk with friends who have three views.

Living with people who share with each other is such an experience, which is mainly manifested in these aspects.

In the first aspect, when you meet lovers with the same three views, you have a common language, you have a soul, you get along in harmony, and you are in a happy mood. But this is just an ideal, most of the lovers in reality have stumbles, and there is a conflict between the three views. Therefore, lovers maintain the same general direction, seek common ground while reserving differences, understand each other and tolerate each other.

Encourage each other spiritually and support each other in life. in order to go further. Otherwise, the closest person will become the most hated person.

The second aspect, if you meet a lover who has the same three views, there will not be a situation where you do what you think is right and the other party cannot understand. If you're both feeling good, you can move on to the future. So if you can come across it, you must cherish it.

The third aspect is that my husband and I have more consistent views, and I think there will be more topics and more tacit understanding in doing things. We have been married for 5 years and have hardly ever quarreled. I think the two of them must be together with each other, otherwise there will be contradictions everywhere, and life will be unhappy!

The fourth aspect, the ideal lovers with the same three views, are more focused on the spiritual harmony of the fit. It should be where I want to go, and you want to go too, and you support everything I want to buy.

The fifth aspect, a comfortable relationship is not awkward, no disgust, but between people is not only the harmony of the three views, the people themselves are constantly changing, but also some internal things of the people themselves, but relatively speaking, they can reach a consensus on some major issues.

The sixth aspect, I don't think that the three views are the absolute way to get along, and the key point of getting along with people should be based on the premise of understanding each other, and improve each other through continuous running-in and mutual improvement, so as to enhance each other's feelings.

The seventh aspect, which is more agreeable, is the embodiment of everyone's growth environment behind the consistency of the three views. Different environments create different views. Some people are more frugal, maybe their families are not very wealthy since they were young, and their material conditions are limited, which leads to a little bit of calculation in terms of expenses and becomes not generous enough.

It is a very happy experience, communicating with such a person, life is a special noisy and harmonious feeling, which will make people feel happy, and the feeling is enjoyable.

It is a non-stool attack and a happy experience, because the three views of two people are the same, there are many common topics in life, and it is very happy and pleasant to live together in Zhaoku, and this kind of life is also a very desirable and enviable family.

It is a very auspicious and bright silver life experience, and living with such a person, we will definitely have a very happy life with each other, and Jin Lu is that the two of them will be very happy, and they will soon enter into marriage.