What did you say about giving up your dreams?

I have not given up on my dreams, because everyone needs to have dreams, it is the guideline for our life to move forward, as long as the dream does not deviate from the party, it will eventually reach the distance. Sometimes because the dream is too far away, we can't see it, thinking that it can't be realized at all, so we lose confidence and have no motivation, but this is only temporary, we might as well divide it into several stages, step by step to achieve it, close to it. Each era has different dreams, and while striving for dreams, we must also adjust the ways to realize our dreams according to the contemporary social environment.

All roads lead to Rome, as long as we are in the right direction, the right method, and face it with a positive attitude, we will eventually reach the other side of the dream of life, and meet the surprise of the willow bank flowers from the predicament of the mountains and rivers.

Giving up dreams is because the sense of gap with reality makes people's hearts gap, and the long-term depressed state makes a person's mentality continue to collapse, and finally completely collapse. This process can be long or short. Dreams that have been given up are worth regretting.

For me, a person who has no dreams, I feel very pathetic.

He treats me very sincerely, no matter what I do or what, even if he is played by me, hurts his self-esteem, is unhappy, and is wronged, he will treat me sincerely and sincerely. He said, "I will give you a warm home in the future", which made me give up the idea of breaking up with him countless times. and married him despite the opposition of his family.

The family objected because they thought he was okay but thought I could find something better) It's good now. There are no mortgages and car loans. In planning to have children.

Family members are also blessings.

In fact, it is we who steal our dreams. Everyone will have their own dreams, but after all, it is a dream, so there will be a big gap between the dream and reality, this distance will be very far away, it seems unattainable, at the beginning we will also muster up the courage to work hard, but when our efforts fail again and again, our dreams will be ruthlessly shattered by reality. I saved for a long time, looked forward to it for a long time, and finally I couldn't do it so I gave up my dream.

In fact, I envy people who have dreams. I've never had a goal, no dreams. I knew what I didn't like, but it was hard to find one.

I knew I didn't want what I didn't want and what I didn't want to be. But it's hard to think about how I want to become. Living contradictions, living hesitations.

Every day seems to be in a particularly decadent state, and there is no reason for it. You can talk to everyone happily, you can joke with the people around you, you can go on with everything you should do in life, but you just don't have a direction.

In real life, the reason why we give up the career we are pursuing, and the ideals and dreams we once had, I personally think that it is because of the following factors that make us make such a particularly tangled and sad decision.

First of all, after I have worked hard for myself, I have been obsessed with the cause I have been pursuing, and I find that this career is very different from my ideal goal, so that I realize that my previous efforts are not worth it, so in this case, I will wake up, I will let myself completely give up the career I once pursued, and I will find a career that is really suitable for me, and no longer waste my precious time and energy because of my own obsession and blindness.

On the other hand, the reason why I will give up the career I have pursued is very likely to be because of the factors of my family, nonsense, when I reach middle age, I am injured and young, and I suddenly realize that I can't spend all my energy and time on my career, I should consider taking care of my family and doing my best in the family, so in this case, I will give up the career I once pursued, and I will put more thought into my family, Because this way you won't let yourself have any regrets, which is also very understandable.

But no matter what, giving up the career you once pursued will make you feel tangled and sad in your heart, but we also clearly realize that there are two sides to everything, so when we give up the career we have pursued and feel pain, we must also adjust our mentality, thinking that we will get other different feelings and compensation after giving up.