What do you think of those who accuse the wicked first?

First of all, it is certain that the leaders who can become leaders with decision-making power in the company are not 3-year-olds who can be fooled by a few words. will be considered from all angles. Whenever there is a situation where the wicked person sues first, don't be cowardly, directly and boldly state the facts, even if you have any mistakes in the process, you must not shy away from saying it, often the leader will not trust the person who throws the blame perfectly.

Maintain communication with leaders and colleagues at work. Villains generally like to help in the back. When we build up our image and trust in the company, it is not so easy for villains to ruin our image.

This kind of thing is often happening in the workplace, and some people can't do the work when they ask him, but the wicked sue first, and the conspiracy behind him is very good at it, and the best way to deal with this kind of villain is to let it be where it is. This is done by deliberately revealing to him the flaws in the work you are doing. The villain will definitely not miss this opportunity to invite merit and step on people.

The villain will definitely go to the leader to make a small report. Wait until the villain reports, and then revise your plan again, which will catch the villain off guard. Villains are generally bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, if you are not so easy to bully, the villain will not dare to make a mistake in front of you.

First of all, do your own thing: good performance is the foundation of survival in the workplace, and it is also the root of speaking confidently, giving the complainant the most powerful counterattack. Communicate with the management often, people are emotional animals, often go to the management to talk, talk about the current situation of the work, talk about feelings, ask the leader what advice, the heart is close, keep the information flowing, it is easier to gain trust and support.

There is a sentence to do, no matter what others do, you must first do your best, the second sentence, look at the essence through the phenomenon, if the boss of a business, you follow the boss of this enterprise, he does not have a certain vision to look at a thing, or treat a person, this enterprise, you can not continue to stay, or your boss is the same.

I think that there are not so many wicked people in life and in the workplace. Everyone is just a bunch of beings begging for a living. Especially two people who are in a conflicting quarrel.

Whether in the workplace or in life, it is inevitable that we will have some conflicts with others, and it is natural to seek help and support after conflicts. When seeking support, people will inevitably exaggerate that the other party is not wronged with them, so that they are on the moral high ground. This is a natural instinctive choice for the person who came first, but it puts the person who comes later in a disadvantageous position, and everyone will express indignation at the exaggeration of the facts, and it is the inevitable result for the person who comes later to fight back.

The characterization of a wicked person hits the nail on the head, putting the other party in the abyss of morality and putting himself on the moral high ground. There is an old saying that the body is not afraid of shadows. First of all, you have to walk upright, stand upright, walk straight, sit firmly, and don't give your tongue to yourself, then the person who complains is really a wicked person.

You also have to take the initiative and react in time to uncover the truth of the matter and let the other party's lies shine. You can't blindly dodge, otherwise the three of them will become tigers, and everyone will be ruined, and when everyone's understanding of you is formed, it will be difficult to reverse.

Whether it is work or life, there are only two things in a person's life, one is to be a person, and the other is to do things. Dealing with the world is a university question. The ancients said that a gentleman is frank and, and a villain is a relative.

Get along with villains, and if you are not careful, you will suffer a big loss. Villains are not very kind, and often use bad means to achieve their goals.

The words and behaviors of the wicked first accuse are a kind of cautious eyes, revealing a little cleverness, and thinking that they are the first to please a kind of person, such a person is actually a selfish villain, on the surface it first causes others to please him, and he thinks he has a smart brain, but in fact, it attracts the disgust of others, because others also have smart minds, not fools, this kind of wicked person sues the person first in order to achieve the ulterior purpose, sue the person first, and act as a good person, but you are a hypocritical face, as a person with real insights, His ugly behavior should be exposed to his face, and he should be honest and honest about anything in real life. The final outcome of this kind of person is still very sad.

We all know that the wicked sue first, but why sue first, I think the first is to confuse the public, the average person will have a preconceived judgment of what he hears for the first time, and when he meets a reasonable person, he will listen to both sides, and he will find out after he meets a reckless person who may have done something wrong, which leaves time for the wicked to escape; The second is that from the perspective of psychology, in a state of loss and weakness, in order to give himself courage, he can't wait to clear himself, and simply think that only in this way will he escape punishment, which is actually similar to covering his ears and stealing the bell; The third is that the reason why the wicked are called wicked is because they have no face, just like the old lai, they don't care about other people's opinions and lawsuits at all, as a normal person is not willing to go to court, but they don't, it feels like it's commonplace, have you found that sometimes the wicked people around you know the law better... For example, I have encountered this kind of problem, I was borrowed by someone else and asked for money for several years without result, and told him that I want to solve it through judicial channels, in fact, I just said that, after all, we were friends before, guess what he said? You go and sue, I won't pay it back if it's sentenced, and I won't have any savings at that time...

We all know that the wicked sue first, but why sue first, I think the first is to confuse the public, the average person will have a preconceived judgment of what he hears for the first time, and when he meets a reasonable person, he will listen to both sides, and he will find out after he meets a reckless person who may have done something wrong, which leaves time for the wicked to escape; The second is that from the perspective of psychology, in a state of loss and weakness, in order to give himself courage, he can't wait to clear himself, and simply think that only in this way will he escape punishment, which is actually similar to covering his ears and stealing the bell; The third is that the reason why the wicked are called wicked is because they have no face, just like the old lai, they don't care about other people's opinions and lawsuits at all, as a normal person is not willing to go to court, but they don't, it feels like it's commonplace, have you found that sometimes the wicked people around you know the law better... For example, I have encountered this kind of problem, I was borrowed by someone else and asked for money for several years without result, and told him that I want to solve it through judicial channels, in fact, I just said that, after all, we were friends before, guess what he said? You go and sue, I won't pay it back if it's sentenced, and I won't have any savings at that time...

Wicked people like to sue first, but it's not as bad as you think, everything has its pros and cons, and we can't measure a group with such a small part, can we? I am a Hainanese, although I am not good, but I at least know how to respect others, know the difference between black and white, and know how to rely on my own ability to help others. We should take a longer view of our goals.

Find a time to get off work or take a break, and communicate with the leader well, at this time, it is not recommended to tell someone directly, just show your ability and trustworthy side. If you encounter a bad leader and don't trust your subordinates, then you can only wait or do your current job well, avoid villains, and don't clash head-on.

The reason why the wicked person is called evil is because it will make others feel aggressive, so the wicked person sues first, and the focus is not on the word complaint, but on a bad word, and the complaint is only one of his behavioral habits.

This is because the wicked, first of all, have lost their qualifications to be human beings. The wicked themselves are despised by all righteous men and gentlemen. But a kind person and a person with a sunny mentality will not treat big lawsuits as commonplace.

Our society is afraid of being bullied, just like encountering a mad dog, for fear of rabies, everyone goes to hide. At this time, the wicked man is even more invincible, thinking that everyone is afraid of him. If society condones or avoids the wicked, you may be the next victim.

The treatment of mad dogs in the countryside is like discovering a fire, everyone goes into battle, takes all the self-defense **, sticks or shovels and hoes, and hunts down the mad dogs, which are generally killed on the spot, so that rabies will not harm more innocents.

Because they are guilty, they can only take the first step to distort the facts to cover up their ugly deeds. That's all they do.

Rushing to cover up their own mistakes and trying to mislead the judgment of others in order to evade their own responsibility.

In this case, it is both complicated and simple, and simple is complicated. Whoever doesn't say people behind their backs, who doesn't say anyone behind their backs. Right. Inevitably.

But some people (the so-called wicked people) are different, what about this kind of "right and wrong", they are jealous of you, jealous that you are better than them, afraid of seeing your achievements, afraid of seeing you much better than them. However, due to their "low IQ" (very low), "character" (very inferior) and other reasons, they are at a loss for what to do about it, and they can't think of any other way. Only this kind of bad idea of lifting a stone to shoot yourself in the foot and slap your own mouth

Hey, it's scary to be uneducated...

The wicked are outgoing and proactive.

Because they're afraid that if you go and sue first, the wicked will be beaten.

I want to find a better reason for my actions. Strive for the initiative.

Because this is what the ancients have long summed up, this is an idiom that the wicked sue first.

For he is a wicked man, who can do everything.

When you encounter a wicked person, sue him first and dissociate the relationship, and don't pay attention to him. Villains and villains are all disgusted by everyone and unwilling to befriend. Their evil deeds and character are seen by everyone, but they are not spoken.

No one will believe what they say, and if anyone does, it is that he is too stupid. If this person who believes in villains and villains is important to you, you can find an appropriate moment to explain it.

If you can stay away, stay away. "It is difficult to draw the skin and bones of a tiger, and you don't know the face but not the heart. "Some people you can't identify people at the beginning of contact, so it's best to keep a proper distance when you come into contact with people, with the increase of time and the enhancement of the relationship, the other party's character and three views are compatible with you, and then deep contact.

For the villain you know, don't tell him your plans and real thoughts, and don't contact if you can. Because one day they may frame you while you are not paying attention.

I used to have a friend who was always nice to me when there was someone and cold when it was just the two of us. As long as her demands are not met, she will get angry. And she would always say, "People think you're weird-tempered and tell me not to play with you."

I'm really convinced, others think I'm bad and still like to get along with me? When I have something upset, she always mentions. After that, I stopped playing with her, I was too tired.

Don't get in touch with villains for profit, unless you feel like you can control them. We can see many palace fighting dramas, when an upright person is forced to go on the black boat in order to achieve some goal for himself, and then he is grabbed by someone, and it is difficult to get out.

There is also an advanced method - to improve yourself and jump out of the existing circle. When your life gets better, you will find that you don't have time to care about those little people. It's like happy people are busy with happiness and don't have time to show affection.

To sum up, the best way to meet villains and villains is to find ways to stay away.

The wicked are the first to accuse the villains, and they are all deceitful and conspiracy. Therefore, the person who smiles at you on the surface is not necessarily a good person, and if you don't get it right, it is disguised as a smile; The person who drinks to you every day is not necessarily a bad person, but may be a rectum person who has no bad intentions.

The despicable villain who sues the wicked first is one thing on the surface and one thing behind the other. Generally, this kind of person will be very nice to you on the surface, and take the initiative to play with you and so on. But as soon as something goes wrong, he puts the blame on you.

Hello, the despicable villains who sue first often have the same face, that is, selfish, self-centered, harming others and benefiting themselves, and the wicked sue first.

The despicable villain who sues the wicked first means that he did this thing, he did something bad, and he was afraid of taking responsibility for doing something wrong, but he told the leader or others that he was not to blame for this matter, it was someone else who asked him to do it, or someone else did it, and this kind of person has a very bad quality.

The despicable villain who sues the wicked first is the kind of person who has no reason for himself, but insists on relying on some reason for himself. Always keep playing with small things, and pretend to be very innocent after doing small things.

They will first tell others that you have any illegal behavior, which fully proves that they know and admit that their behavior is illegal, and will first give you a hat that loves to lie, which also fully shows that they are afraid that what you will say that is unfavorable to them will be believed by others, and then according to the general psychology of human beings, you will be burdened with a love to take other people's things or something else, which is not to let others get close to you. This is the psychology of the villain.